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What about productivity. If I only focus on solving issues when will I focus on productivity. It's important to come to a point of peace. .

Much love

@electroBeam yep could be.

I'm in an interracial relationship with a white guy. Norwegian Irish American. I guess interracial relationships are on the rise. I don't know the reason though. But I like the idea of people from different races mixing up and dating It gives me hope that one day we won't see each other as different. Humanity is in need of unity more than ever..

Didn't you just say that nuclear family was stronger in the 50s. Like in bold And now you're wondering how people believe in monogamy. You're surprised how people stay married and not just sleep around with everyone. Gentleman you're contradicting your own statements. You need to make up your mind. It's because people believed in monogamy that nuclear families survived. Or else cheating on the spouse would have destroyed all nuclear families. You got a ton of figuring out to do. You say a lot of things off the top of your head. Then you also talk about logic and reasoning. Maybe learn to connect the dots. That definitely helps with getting more logical.

@Onemanwolfpac By your logic disabled people need to be wiped off the face of the planet. Because they don't fit into your survival of the fittest principle. Now that's some real stage Blue and Stage Orange thinking. Life doesn't work like that. You can't start a concentration camp for the misfits. Also people have real issues. That cannot be invalidated and be called victimhood. It's an insult to victims.. First of all they face inequality, that causes them to not have the outcome as others in terms of success and when they try to protest, they should be labeled as victim players? What logic is that? The way your mind operates is this - a problem itself is a problem, so let's blame the problem for the problem and get rid of the problem. Typical Orange and Red mentality. This reminds me of Trump. As per Trump if you eliminated testing, there won't be anymore new Covid-19 cases so problem solved. Your logic is so faulty that it's beyond repair.

@ParanoidAndroid I only said about Sam Harris. I respect Richard Dawkins and Hitchens. I wish Harris wasn't a part of the Four Horsemen clan. Seems like he wanted a launchpad in those days and he got one. He used them just like he used Majid Nawaz and Ayaan Hirsi Ali. Maybe I'm reading too much into Harris. But why not. I don't like a lot of his crass statements. He makes it look like he wants a genocide on certain races. Why am I supposed to subscribe to his brand if he divides people. I'm not the only one who criticizes Sam Harris. Many people come at him. Why would they if he didn't make controversial statements. He says things and then backpedals when he sees a strong reaction, as though he is testing how far he can go with his ideas and how much extremism the audience can handle. he is like a provocateur, to me he is a caricature who plays gimmicks and generates good money out of it. Plus I don't like the overall edgelord feel to his personality. Like his will is going to decide the fate of the world. I don't like his brand. Even if I maybe biased against him, it's good for me, because I am relatively insulated from his hateful toxic garbage through my hate. He leans on the right side and then vehemently tries in denial to portray himself as a libertarian. In fact most people in the beginning were surprised that he opposed Trump because his views were almost a low tempo version of what Trump was spewing in the campaigns. But he knows well that backing Trump is a career suicide move, so he was desperately trying to hate Trump to divert his "right wing" image. Now he uses Jordan Peterson to make money, I mean recently, going on conferences in Canada and American college halls, when he can easily hold a Skype call with Jordan and be done with the differences. But as usual Sam Harris style, he has to make it monumental like people are paying to watch a movie, buy tickets, buy his shirts, books and mugs, donate money to his foundation, pay for membership on his website and give him more financial opportunities. Nobody can see through this. People simply believe what is fed to them. He doesn't argue with people on YouTube because that won't generate money, he appeared only once on the Young Turks and probably once or twice on Dave Rubin. He tries to constantly rebrand himself by talking about a hot button topic in order to bank on public emotion and generate revenue. I can see through his behind the scenes gimmicks which people fail to see. A famous line from Jordan Peterson on Joe Rogan was how he monetized on SJWs. Well now I know why all these YouTubers are so savvy about politics. It's a money game for them. They exaggerate circumstances to arouse people. That's why I call them misinformation propaganda machine. People buy into it and they get rich and famous. Milo Yiannopoulos is another such example and several others. It is turning into a political provocation industry of sorts. Well good luck, I can subscribe to better things on YouTube, like for example Leo.. That Sam guy is a clever schmuck.

The most hated in society are also the most vulnerable.

This is so sad. This questions all the statistics out there. Maybe the statistics that the right wing keeps rubbing into people's faces are all made up after all. Imagine how many innocent black men must be in prison waiting for freedom but can't afford lawyer fees. Because it's easier to lie against a black man and unload all the blame on him. Really tragic. The system needs to weed out stereotype mentality and racial profiling. If it truly seeks justice for all.

Men lol.

The rich get richer and the poor get poorer. And democracy yawns at the masses.

Who tells you that you can't be spiritual and successful at the same time. That's some stage Orange kind of thinking. Success in the absolute sense is what you male of it.

The Trump administration is trying so hard to shut him down. But it's not going to work. Stuff he said about Trump didn't surprise me at all.

Today is the day I want to be a boss. I feel better when I'm the boss. Haha. Just being kiddish

I'm an elite too in my own right. I work very hard every day. Extremely hard. Harder than @Leo Gura. It's just that much of my hard work is only chipping wood to get that nasty tree out of the way

Finally feeling a bit relaxed. Things have been okayish since yesterday. I should allow more beauty into my life. And by that I don't mean physical beauty. I'm talking about soul food.

Great post. This thing happened to me when I was with my second ex. I wanted to be with his abusive self just so that I didn't end up alone. In the end I had the same realization that "if you ever feel you have to compromise a huge part of yourself to "not be alone" avoid doing that. " that's when I broke up.

You hit the nail right on the head.

@Space Coyote I wish your name was Spacey Coyote because every time I read it, I read it as Spacey Coyote and that sounds like a cute name. Anyway. I agree with you absolutely.

Today seems to be a good day.

Use sage. They garlic drives it away. They don't like the smell of garlic. I'd draw a circle with salt.

I've observed that when I imagine my bf and chocolate in the same picture my horniness increases significantly.

I think the second gf being dominant is a part of the problem. If a woman said to a man that he needs to be more masculine, that kind of a statement can already put him off and make him less interested in sex. The kind of sex that you are talking about is rare. Most girls would want it. I would prefer it too. Because for me sex is about intimacy. I would actually be scared if a guy talked about getting too dirty. Most men don't see sex as a "feeling thing." they want it straight and mechanical. With my first boyfriend, there was no foreplay at all and that used to upset me because I always needed a lot of foreplay, the way you mentioned for 30 minutes, stuff like that.. I will say that you need to find someone who is suited to you and is happy with what you give. My current boyfriend Andrew once said to me that sex between true lovers is always beautiful no matter what. It should never be about complaining. That's so true. Once you find the person who is made perfect for you, you or her will never complain about sex. People who complain too much about sex are hard to please and focus less on the quality of the relationship and more on how much sexual leverage they can get in the relationship. This applies to both gender. You're better off with someone who is really pleased to be pleased by you.

Last night I saw Leo in my dreams again. It was kinda funny. He was sitting inside a closet and lecturing. Meanwhile I was sitting across him and listening. It was a bit boring and the dream was too stretched. I was asking Leo a bunch of questions and he began talking about his health suddenly and then he was talking about the preoccupation of the masses with fitness, how it had turned into an obsession. So I asked him, "isn't that a good thing?" and he said that there are natural ways to remain fit and the ways people have invented are only disastrous. He kept adjusting the light bulb in the closet. And sat again to jot down his ideas. He was looking gaunt and skinny. I decided to leave but then he called me back again so once again I sat there. He started saying how the problems of the world are very deep and a proper resolution won't come right away. Dream abruptly ends and I wake up. This wasn't a nightmare.

RIP George Floyd. George Floyd shares an inspiring message before his death. I see his death as an act of inhumanity, a clear violation of human rights, and a death without honor or dignity on the street.. The most heartbreaking part was him calling for his mother moments before his death. I have had an emotional rollercoaster for the past few days. I cried for some days and grieved over his death. Although he is nobody to me personally, his death caused a tremendous emotional reaction in me and impact just because of the nature of the death and the circumstances in which no dignity was afforded to him. He is also a human being and so this association caused me to have an emotional reaction despite not being an American. I am trying to process the grief, pain and loss over his death but I'm unable to accept that injustice to this degree happens in the world. How is a person supposed to accept and reconcile pain and injustice and suffering in the world while living life?