Flowerfaeiry

@Yarco It’s not about guilt at all. I’m fact, guilt is one of the things we must overcome in order to do the work of decolonization. If you are feeling guilt that is normal. I’ve hated myself for being white many times. But that does nothing to help. In fact it just puts the attention back on myself, when this is not about me. Because neither of these things would help.

I think the word narcissism gets thrown around too much these days. Yes it does point to a problem, but I don’t think defaulting to the word helps explain anything. Social media can make people more self-absorbed but being self absorbed isn’t synonymous with narcissism. I think the bigger problem with social media is there’s just so much crap and cheap entertainment on it that it can be a huge waste of time and it lowers consciousness.

My words of wisdom on gratitude are that it: creates more of what you want because you recognize/place focus on the thing you are grateful for.

I had good success with contemplative psychotherapy

That’s what I was thinking. I’m still understanding teachings from years ago.

If there’s something in your life that hasn’t been worked through like a painful situation especially in childhood it can sometimes come out in under achieving.

I like to do daily detoxes where I turn my phone off for a few to several hours at a time.

I’ve met met lots of guys who only like short girls or who feel weird around tall girls.

I need to feel like my man is physically bigger than me in multiple ways I didn’t have standards on this before because I was stuck in scarcity and neediness mindsets

If you think it would really benefit you then go for a diagnosis. My advice is not to get hung up on it though, I think it’s nice to know as it can help you explain things but don’t let it get you down if you can help it.

Thank you genetics! I can reach things easily, see over crowds and get lots of “did you play basketball?” comments. I’ve always wondered what it’s like to be short.

I'm 6' tall and I strictly won't date a man shorter than me. This is only a recent standard I've implemented.

Of course

You can message me if you want!

Tough breakup? Haircut Bored? Haircut Welcoming a new stage in life? Haircut

@Leo Gura No hair is beautiful, too

wow wow wow!!! Such a good read thanks for sharing.

It's both real and imagined! I don't know about that second part. We are going to inherently be selfish so I wouldn't worry about it. We need a certain amount of rules and principles to exist.

I get plenty of vitamin D now but I am from a cloudy area and I somewhere heard it's pointless to take a supplement so I never did but it may have helped me! In the end, I'm much happier now that I have consistent sun exposure

Life's a trip in so many ways.Saying that life is an illusion shouldn't be used as an escape from dealing with feelings or to naively think there are no rules. Things are still Real and must be lived and experienced regardless of them being an illusion

Hair is beautiful. I've been especially interested in the special qualities of long hair. There are many stories and instances where it is associated with strength, devotion, intuition, patience. The first time I shaved my head I did because I wanted to break some of my attachment to it and it actually did a little.

@Michael569 is vitamin D difficult for our bodies to absorb in a regular pill-type supplement?

You don’t have to do those things if you don’t want to. Women often put a lot of effort in.

Being gay is not easier. Yes some aspects are but overall the challenges even out.

You can cultivate your femininity. Yes it will always be there, but it does get hidden and pushed down in today’s way of life. It’s interesting to see how men respond to that as well. When you are in touch with your heart and how you feel, you’re basically unfuckwithable.