If You Fuck Her, Forget About Having A Genuine Connection With Her

[Javfly33]

11 hours ago, Nabd said:

 

So as a male the only way to interact with women is either being completely neutral but respectful (not wanting to fuck/date because there is no sexual desire) or just outright trying to get into her pants, anything else is just bullshit and the guy will suffer when she fucks another guy.

And girls who have many male friends, well I noticed they keep them there for emotional support in case of breakup, and the guys usually wanna fuck.

Well said ? couldn't agree more 

[Applegarden8]

There is this one woman I didn't have sex with (like i always do) and I still have some connection with her. I don't really think about it too much, but I feel that she is very receptive to me and could just sit there with me for hours. Now, yes, I don't choose to do that and I can't say that she would choose to do so even if she feels that way, assuming my intuition is even correct. She probably knows who she is, it's like the strongest connection I have experienced with a woman. She is a musician or I would say that she was at one point bc I don't know what she does now and I will probably never ask her bc there is no point.

[BlueOak]

What about the relating of the relationship? The point of it. How do you relate to the other person, the world around you, and the interconnected experiences and life you both share?

If you just want sex go get sex. The relating that is, are two bodies, maybe some fun or yes in some cases a building physical intimacy if it goes on a while. It's not a broad relationship, or one likely to last, because what are you related to in the other person? Their body, that is going to change or become understood in a short matter of time (if you are any good at sex).

You can and many people do, have sex and still take the time or energy to relate to more than their body, or at least spend their lives trying.

[BlueOak]

Here's the reflection of the male half of the red pill dynamic:

Let's go have sex as soon as possible. We had sex and it was fun.
Why am I not finding more from women than sex? 

Yes there is obviously a female half to that as well. I am pointing out the obvious male side of it.
You have to go to a woman for more than sex, if you are looking for more than sex.