I vibe with sweet girls

[Chives99]

we can sniff each other out i swear down i cant explain it logically but its like we can intuitively identify each other , even at raves with music blasting at full decibels and a very crowded room. I have a warm and friendly personality myself, I dont know if my autism makes me seem a bit boyish in some ways like a total goofball , I can be serious when i need to but deffo havent lost my playfullness where a lot of people just seem so serious and vanilla, had people call me cute. 

Right from the moment we see each other we lock eyes and she smiles massively and blushes although you cant see  blushing in a rave setting though, sweet girls are just sooooooo easy to talk to, I dont vibe with other women, they might find me physically attractive but walk away pretty quickly when our personalities dont match. Sweet girls can be a bit more shy but it makes it easier to take the lead as their expectations arent so high you just have to calibrate to where they are at.

 

That being said I cant vibe with a girl if she doesnt let any physical contact , I know that asexuality can be quite common in autistic women they dont like touch as much, I wouldn't rule out dating autistic women but she has to be sexual, I dont want a play date with a  girl. So basically a woman with a warm and loving and friendly personality that is also sexual.

 

I remember seeing a while back a female dating coach on youtube made a video on advice for autistic men I believe shes a psychotherapist and she said an autistic man should find a woman who is very affectionate because she will have the patient and understanding and will really take her time to get to know the real you if she likes you.

If you go out enough and socialise you will find your personality type that you vibe with I can identify a sweet girl in seconds just by the way shes looking at me its not just a general flirtatious eyes , its like a really sweet look I can spot it every single time , im probably doing the same back to her which is why we vibe. 

Edited September 16, 2023 by Chives99

[Someone here]

2 hours ago, Chives99 said:

we can sniff each other out i swear

Hey I have dirty mind ..my mind jumped to a sexual fantasy 

2 hours ago, Chives99 said:

my autism

How do you know you have autism ?is it self-diagnosed? 

And BTW what do you mean by "sweet " girls ? Teens ?small and petite ?

[Chives99]

17 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Hey I have dirty mind ..my mind jumped to a sexual fantasy 

How do you know you have autism ?is it self-diagnosed? 

And BTW what do you mean by "sweet " girls ? Teens ?small and petite ?

got diagnosed at 21, sweet in personality ie warm , friendly , nice , affectionate 

[Someone here]

5 minutes ago, Chives99 said:

got diagnosed at 21, sweet in personality ie warm , friendly , nice , affectionate 

I see . I like cute girls .not really into milfs 

Ive recently fallen in love with a Egyptian actress..her beauty is mindblowingly astounding lol...

 

[Oppositionless]

I love finding out that a sweetheart is also a total freak in bed.

I love long cuddles after sex. my last girlfriend opened my heart so much I could cry.

Edited September 30, 2023 by Oppositionless