Is this an example of a Narcissist devaluing their romantic partner?

[ZenAlex]

The behaviour I see in this video I've seen come from many narcissists I've met in my life. They devalue and humiliate their partners in front of a social group.

I've seen quite a few of her videos online, and they are helpful, but whenever I get a glimpse of her unscripted, I get red flags constantly.

I want to know if this is me misinterpreting this behaviour, but this person seems extremely insecure.

 

[ZenAlex]

 

[integral]

Can you provide timestamps of the exact moments, its a long video. 

[ZenAlex]

@integral

@Judy2

Start from about 1:45 and just watch for like 5-10 minutes. 

It just feels like she hates even being around the guy. 

Edited April 26, 2023 by ZenAlex

[Buck Edwards]

A few moments of a video cannot tell you if a person is a narcissist. That's judging it too narrowly, a new disease of the internet called psychoanalyzing. 

 

[ZenAlex]

45 minutes ago, Enlightement said:

A few moments of a video cannot tell you if a person is a narcissist. That's judging it too narrowly, a new disease of the internet called psychoanalyzing. 

 

Sure but when the accusations and evidence start to pile up.

She's quite grandiose, and has made plenty of grandiose claims about herself. 

She says she's a spiritual teacher yet seems extremely insecure beyond belief.

[integral]

I see someone who says exactly what they are thinking.

[Buck Edwards]

1 hour ago, ZenAlex said:

Sure but when the accusations and evidence start to pile up.

She's quite grandiose, and has made plenty of grandiose claims about herself. 

She says she's a spiritual teacher yet seems extremely insecure beyond belief.

Reminds me of someone similar that you don't seem to have a problem with. 

Which anyways, all of it will come cascading down as all of it is unfair. 

In life there are many things that are unfair and we can't go around fixing it. Instead of being critical of every little thing you come across, have the openness to understand that things exist for a reason, people behave the way they do for a reason, a person who wants to kill you also has a reason, it's just not something for us to sit and debunk, because any which way, nothing is justified in it's absoluteness, study people but let go of judgement, all kinds of people exist, you'll never find someone that ticks all the boxes, it's our need in this internet world to find that one true godly perfect person, but where does this end really, focus on positivity, you're not in someone's shoes to know what circumstances might have shaped their personality, take in the good as much as you can and leave out the bad, this social justice warrior mantle never really helps, it makes things worse, sure a person has something bad about them, but they could also have something good to offer as well? It's absolutely possible, not within our immediate means, but if you look at the meta picture, everything is perfect as it is. We never know someone's relationship dynamic, so we're always quick to judge on the spot, it doesn't make much of a difference on a larger scale, all we look for is validation for our opinion, which is simply an ego game at the end of the day, she might be bad for someone, she might be good for someone too. Everything is relative.