Are Narcissists a Lost Cause?

[PenguinPablo]

5 hours ago, Gladius said:

Narcissists have similar issues than people pleasers, just the very opposite. Both are a lost cause. They can change around 10% of their messed up personality if they really work on it though.

you can change 100%, don't short change yourself

[PenguinPablo]

On 6/10/2022 at 2:13 PM, Razard86 said:

A tell tell sign of a Demon, is one who demonizes others. Sam Vaknim said that you if demonize a Narcissist then you are one. 

 

Interesting, Dr Ramani has made a whole ass career of doing that on YouTube. Pretty much every video revolves around shitting on narcissist with absolutely no leeway. Personally, I think such a one-sided approach has it's drawbacks. You shouldn't reduce a person to a psychological construct and vilify every one of them.

Vakim is dope. Found him a couple months ago.

 

Edited July 9, 2022 by PenguinPablo

[CuteCornDog]

I (along with many former co-workers) quit working for a job last year because my direct report was what my co-workers and I considered a narcissist.

I learned from him better than anyone else I've had to spend so much time with what was a narcissist was.