Who I should date and who I shouldn't date

[Preety_India]

First off, I shouldn't date a narcissist.

 

[Preety_India]

Never date overly emotional guys. Big mistake.

 

 

[Preety_India]

 

Never date highly vulnerable guys. They turn out to be manipulators and psychos.

 

 

 

Never date a guy whose validation you need to seek all the time.

Never date nice guys, they are always superficial and fake.

 

Never date successful and success oriented men.

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

And never ever date a guy who splits the bill.

They are society material but not relationship material.

 

[Preety_India]

 

Date a guy who is 

• Strong 
• Firm 
• Confident
• Provider 
• Secure
• Loyal
• Loving 
• Supportive
• Non emotional
• Logical
• Sensitive
• Understanding 
• Not into superficial things
• Not flaunting or showing off 
• Not society oriented
• Relationship material 
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[Preety_India]

 

Reassurances

Next look for small signals like change in hairstyles, how do they pose in pictures

Look at the level of detachment

Look at how strong the friendship is 

They shouldn't talk about another person 

Eagerness to put effort in trying to build the relationship 

Have they spoken to society or parents

Are they investing financially?

What is their level of investment ? What have they done to establish commitment ? 

Have they not invested even a dime in you ?

 Are they Emotionally supportive ?

He should never complain but instead of complaining he should compromise because that's what you are doing as well . biggest green flag

 

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

 

• Reassurances
• Next look for small signals like change in hairstyles, how do they pose in pictures
• Look at the level of detachment
• Look at how strong the friendship is 
• They shouldn't talk about another person 
• Eagerness to put effort in trying to build the relationship 
• Have they spoken to society or parents
• Are they investing financially?
• What is their level of investment ? What have they done to establish commitment ? 
• Have they not invested even a dime in you ?
•  Are they Emotionally supportive ?
• He should never complain but instead of complaining he should compromise because that's what you are doing as well . biggest green flag

[Preety_India]

Look for these 

• Secure ....no insecurities
• Stable ...stable behaviour...no flipflopping 
• High EQ...is visible in communication
• Responsible
• No Narcissism
• No primitive behaviours

 

Stable, friendly , mature,  humble, respectful, high EQ.

 

Also authentic.

 

Edited August 1, 2021 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

 

Low EQ, egoic, ruthlessness, selfishness,lack of empathy, too much ego, self righteousness, hostility, need to dominate, not willing to hear others. Not accepting others 

Not being considerate.

Very negative in approach

Too much materialism.

Negative Umber.

 

Edited August 2, 2021 by Preety_India

[Gregory1]

conclusion: never date yourself