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Becoming a High Quality Woman!

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This journal is inspired by a bunch of threads in the dating section.

If I wish to attract the man of my dreams into my life, I should not only focus on the kind of man I need to attract but also focus on the kind of woman I need to become to get such a man.

Aka a high quality woman.

If I become a High quality woman I'll be better at attracting the man I want.

I shouldn't be focused solely on the man 

I need to grow as a woman as well..

So here is my rudimentary effort in trying to become a High quality woman.

Cheers.

 


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Love this! Great idea!

I'm kinda on a similar journey. I'm working hard to get to that next level. Primarily because it's freaking fun and I get to witness and live through a beautiful transformation. But also because I know I'll be able to attract much higher quality women, and other juicy, wonderful stuff. Who knows, maybe even a 'soulmate'.

So yeah. Full support.

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@ivankiss hey guy thanks for the support. Love your growth..you're on the right track. Cheers!

 


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This is my honest attempt to be a high quality woman.

So my feelings here are going to be my truest feelings.

 


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Diary of an Innocent girl.

I feel very bad that I was manipulated.

I cannot even blame anyone but me.

But how can I blame myself ?

I didn't want to be manipulated. Yet I allowed it 

But how could have I allowed it when I didn't know it was manipulation.

I can blame myself but what I am blaming when I had zero awareness and zero knowledge of what was happening ?

Who is to blame really ?

 

An innocent girl who knew nothing...

 


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I feel hurt and pain inside. Manipulation is not good.

If there's any guy who is reading this and if you want to be a real man and not simply a guy, then please don't manipulate a girl.

It hurts like crazy.

It's hard when horny men want you bad and you mistake it for love.

 

 


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In order to be a high quality woman, I have to learn two things.

-to weed "someone " out myself

-let *someone" weed themselves out by their own volition.

 


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The second option entails understanding vibration and resonance..


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I'm tired of being manipulated.

I don't want any of it.

As a woman I never signed up for it

 

 


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To me everything needs to have a deep spiritual meaning.

This is how I was built.

 


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One is to work and the other is to become the work itself.

Yea there's a difference.

 

meaningful 

valuable

 


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I was looking for words.

Words that will convey what I really want.

  • Valuable
  • Meaningful
  • Purposeful
  • Substantial
  • Consequential
  • Worthwhile
  • Spiritual

 

 

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When I try to raise my resonance and vibration I want to embody the following words into my character on a much deeper level

 

  • Valuable
  • Meaningful
  • Purposeful
  • Substantial
  • Consequential
  • Worthwhile
  • Spiritual

 


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I want to slightly tweak whatever Emerald said.

She told me about resonance and polarity.

I want a deeper form of resonance

 

Like psychic resonance.

Not just the usual form of resonance.

 


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When I'm striving to be a high quality woman, I'm not simply looking for cultivating  external appearances and qualities. I'm also looking to become a deeply spiritual woman.

I want to ask myself questions like-

 

what is the significance of this ?

what is the meaning in this ? 

what is the value in this ?

what is the purpose of this ?

how is this spiritually relevant ?

 

 


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In the context of this journal,

This thread is really important

 

 

 


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One is to work and the other is to become the work itself.

 

 

 


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