My advice for Women

[Preety_India]

I think I always understood women more intuitively. 

It was always my endeavor to understand womanhood and do something for women at some point in my life. Whether in a big or small way. 

 

[Preety_India]

One important piece of advice that I'd like to give to women is to never surrender any of your power to anyone, not let anyone have emotional authority on you. 

As women we have to be so careful. 

[Preety_India]

I was going to write a book with the title Bright Brilliant Beautiful. 

 

One day I'll complete it. 

 

It's my dream. 

 

It's not like a book, more like a movement. A movement for women's liberation. 

 

[Preety_India]

@modmyth  the book will mostly be a collection of stories of women who braved their circumstances and fought through with positivity despite all of their negative environment and how they found their way in life through a male dominated society and created hope for themselves and their children 

 

I hear so many stories of single mothers every day who raise their kids in great difficulty and yet they are positive and create hope for their children. 

I'll be interviewing women who have suffered abuse in relationships, had abusive boyfriends or husbands and what collective struggles they faced in their lives as women and how they overcame adversities. 

Also the book will include tid bits on women's health, reproductive issues, how to choose a better man, emotional issues that women face and ways to create better emotional health for women. 

The essence of the book will be a woman's journey through healing emotionally and physically in a world that does not quite understand womanhood. 

[Preety_India]

One thing that women have to understand is 

To

Become aware of reality 

Understand reality

Process reality 

Accept reality. 

 

 

[Preety_India]

Women need an information network and don't think that you are alone in this world.. 

[mandyjw]

@Preety_India This is really great if you haven't read it. https://www.amazon.com/Womens-Bodies-Wisdom-Revised-Emotional/dp/0553386735

[Preety_India]

@mandyjw thanks

[Preety_India]

@modmyth thank you. Awesome. 

[Preety_India]

So I didn't have any spoon in the kitchen and the only spoon I had broke yesterday. 

 

Looking to buy some kitchen utensils. 

 

But I don't know what to call all these silly spoons. 

 

One is called jhara or skimmer or frying spoon. Looks like this. 

My mom uses this one. I'm yet to use this. It's rounded and it's called jhara. 

 

 

The other is called Turner 

 

 

Some other is called Spatula. The only Spatula I knew was the one that I used in college in chemistry lab. 

 

 

 

 

 

Now there is also a slotted Spatula and a solid one. Don't know which one to buy 

 

 

 

So I got a pair of tongs to lift a Naan. Ting tong lololol. 

A basting brush 

 

 

 

A slotted turner 

 

 

My mom uses this type of turner. They call it dosa palta or Roti Naan palta

 

 

 

Solid flipper turner. I use this a lot. 

 

 

I'm planning to buy a wooden set but not decided yet. 

 

 

Butter spoon or spreader. 

 

 

 

This is called a karchi or ladle, soup ladle 

Good for lifting chunks  

 

 

This one is better for transferring curry. I don't have one. 

 

 

My mom uses these 

They are called rice spoons. 

 

Wooden rice porridge spoon is usually this shape. 

 

 

Mixing spoons 

I can use this as a stirrer. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Serving spoon or ladle 

 

 

 

 

 

This looks funny. It's called spoonula lol. 

 

 

 

 

 

A pasta fork 

 

 

 

So finally 

...... Phew. 

After a lot of searching for hours I settled on this one and decided to buy this black spoon set that has all the spoons so I don't have buy them separately. 

It was 64% off so good for me. Budget price. 

Looks good. The color doesn't matter to me.