I let go of my toxic best friend to improve my life

[Max_V]

@Aquarius Oh, I’m interested. What is your cultural background?

[Mu_]

@Aquarius

Thank you for sharing.  Ya relationships can be like that.  Both parties have unresolved emotional stuff that always complicates, but this is not a negative, its the potential for both parties to grow.  If your into actualizing and he's not, and you guys are in constant on again off again, maybe its best just to recognize that and move on, no blame to either party.  There's probably someone out there who is also looking to grow as well, and may be a better match for you, I dont know.  This is your heart, not mine.  You can still make efforts to take responsibility for your emotional stuff even if your partner doesn't but thats really hard, really really hard.

[Aquarius]

@Max_V My culture is mainly blue going into orange I think. Nothing interesting. 

@Mu_ I think I moved on. You're right. I told my fiend about our dynamics and how I view the situation, and he said that there's something really true about it.