LOVE:

[Shakazulu]

I'm focused on my career at the moment, but I hear man cannot give his whole gift without meditation or the love of a woman. I guess being afraid that I am empty and uninteresting  held me back for a while. I'm not into going out as much as I was before, dedicating days to my life purpose seems much more fufilling. At times I feel strong yet at times I feel weak then feel like having someone would be great, I don't know 

[Shakazulu]

@Emerald interesting, but I'm still young and I'm not sure if " faith " will attract woman to me, I believe our universe is magnetic but does one not have to go out & create the circumstance? I've had one girlfriend, as humans we learn by experience yet I don't feel the drive to go out there then again I do 

[Shakazulu]

@Emerald thanks man 

[Shakazulu]

@Emerald are you saying there is something I need to resolve in myself?

[cirkussmile]

A relationship is the best spiritual practice one can have! 

You don’t have to choose between career or love, you can have both. But don’t search for it just because a book said it. 

[Greys0n]

I think that you don't have to think about it so much, you will meet her some day

[Shakazulu]

@Emerald ahh I see what you mean, i see where it's misinterpreted! It's not that I can't give my gift without love, it is love or meditation can amplify the strength I give it at, got this from sex matters - osho 

[Shakazulu]

@Greys0n you think so man? Thanks @cirkussmile true, I was coming from the perspective of: sex is so repressed now adays many men cannot love, since I have this awareness, why not have it? It's like I feel this slight restrain in myself, I feel like I wouldn't care yet I know I have a warm compassionate side and no cockiness, I'm a cool guy ?

[cirkussmile]

7 hours ago, Shakazulu said:

@Greys0n you think so man? Thanks @cirkussmile true, I was coming from the perspective of: sex is so repressed now adays many men cannot love, since I have this awareness, why not have it? It's like I feel this slight restrain in myself, I feel like I wouldn't care yet I know I have a warm compassionate side and no cockiness, I'm a cool guy ?

If you want sex! Go for it! But you risking falling in love ?

[Shakazulu]

@cirkussmile hmmm one might call it rising in love