How To Set The Player Frame

[r0ckyreed]

How do I set the player frame? I have gone on a few dates, but I feel like I may be unintentionally setting the boyfriend frame. Also, it seems like a lot of women want long-term. How do I set up short-term fun or hookup after a date?

I just got back from a date with a really cool girl. She is adventurous and is into philosophy. I am not sure I’m ready to commit to one person yet. I’m trying to learn proper game. I’m not very socially calibrated/attuned.

Tell me what you guys usually do. I usually meet up at a coffee shop and walk around.

Edited 4 hours ago by r0ckyreed

[Zenterus]

It's about how you behave.

If you talk in a breaking rapport tonality, hold strong eye contact, have a sensual vibe and are very expressive and prioritizing fun, in your communication, then you will come across more as a player.

Also, having some kind of "red flag" helps. For example, if you're an artist, it is generally assumed that artists dont make a lot of money but are very passionate. That is the essence of a Lover. Or, for example, being a party animal. If you convey you love to party, women are gonna assume you're probably a player.

It also helps MASSIVELY if you visually look the part, too. Going out with a buttoned up shirt, glasses, no accessories and stiff body-language screams "NERD." However, if you're wearing a slick ass, badass fit, good physique, with accessories and even tattoos, good scent, a nice haircut while also being well-groomed, that fits the player brand much better.

Being a player, or a lover, is rooted in pure sexual value. When women look at you, when they speak to you, when they're around you, you should be emanating sensuality, passion, dominance, leadership, boss-energy, etc. These characteristics are directly correlated to your sexual value in the eyes of a woman.

[Leo Gura]

Dating itself sets the boyfriend frame. When a girl goes on a date, that's totally different from the club.

The player frame is mostly for hooking up same-night after the club. The player frame is that you don't date, you're just out at night to party and have fun.

If you want the player frame, don't invite girls for one-on-one dates, but invite her to nightlife social events. That's the player frame. Mike Sartain does and teaches this. The player frame is: "I'm out partying every weekend. You can come along."

Edited 20 minutes ago by Leo Gura