Am I Finally Ready To Let Go of Dating?

[Leo Gura]

@Miguel1 Maybe you need to go game at Harvard. Find yourself a hot academic nerd. Hot academic chicks do exist.

When I was in uni, my calculus TA was a smoking hot Russian model chick, but she was getting a PhD in calculus.

#Academic Game

[Miguel1]

On 01/10/2026 at 7:49 PM, Miguel1 said:

Bro, are you trying to make me fall in love with you or something?

5 years in this forum and you haven’t said my name out loud once. Now you have said it 5 times in a single day.

I have never felt so loved before.

Clearly you are watching God Leo

@Leo Gura

[Miguel1]

1 minute ago, Leo Gura said:

@Miguel1 Maybe you need to go game at Harvard. Find yourself a hot academic nerd. Hot academic chicks do exist.

When I was in uni, my calculus TA was a smoking hot Russian model chick, but she was getting a PhD in calculus.

#Academic Game

How do you expect me to find scientists as intelligent when I have been closely watching you shit extensively on them for years 

[Miguel1]

5 minutes ago, Ulax said:

She bad as hell. I'm shooting my shot

This horny dog. This is what happens when you study a nerd like Todd 

[Miguel1]

9 minutes ago, PenguinPablo said:

That's what happens when you spend time chasing tail in your 20s.

When you find the one... put a damn ring on it.

Yes.

And yes, that’s the goal. Spiritual ring.

[Leo Gura]

@Miguel1 Sorry for negleticing you. I stay pretty busy.

[Miguel1]

11 minutes ago, Valach said:

Yeah, well I think if people value only the physical aspect of relationhips and no sense of intimacy or connection, they have their own issues. Which I see quite often. Most relationships are just glorified version of FWB.

The issue is not just emotional intimacy and intellectual intimacy.

But CONSCIOUSNESS intimacy.

How conscious is she of her own psyche and possibly spirit?

If she isn’t very self-aware of her biases and self-deceptions, it’s hard to have that connection. And it’s hard to build a partnership for life, even just on a practical level.

[Valach]

Just now, Miguel1 said:

The issue is not just emotional intimacy and intellectual intimacy.

But CONSCIOUSNESS intimacy.

How conscious is she of her own psyche and possibly spirit?

If she isn’t very self-aware of her biases and self-deceptions, it’s hard to have that connection. And it’s hard to build a partnership for life, even just on a practical level.

It is hard, indeed.

[Miguel1]

3 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

@Miguel1 Sorry for negleticing you. I stay pretty busy.

I understand. As long as you give it all to me, once per year.

Being a moderator for a bunch of spiritual weirdos is hard work

[Leo Gura]

1 minute ago, Miguel1 said:

Being a moderator for a bunch of spiritual weirdos is hard work

Touche

Thank you for your service.

[LordFall]

28 minutes ago, Valach said:

But you yourself have mentioned that physical beauty is very important to you. How can you be sapiosexual then? Would you date a woman who is not conventionally attractive? Say average looking?

Btw. I will still respond to the previous conversation, need to contemplate on it.

Physical beauty and sexual attraction are so important in romantic relationships. We are biological creatures before we are intellectual psyches.

You don't have to choose between attraction or intelligence, that's a scarcity mindset. Also valuing physical beauty doesn't negate wanting intellectual intimacy and connection.

Edited 1 hour ago by LordFall

[Miguel1]

1 minute ago, Valach said:

It is hard, indeed.

Just some practical issues I’ve run into in my past dating normies:

- Even if she can kinda put up with my spiritual nonsense and ignore the milliong ways I threatened her ego (not intentinally but just for example via my public work or life purpose), her friends and her family definitely cannot.

- How do you build a mutual vision together if your deep thoughts don’t align? You wouldn’t want to date a red stage girl, so why date a normie in my position who has extensively exhausted it?

- What if we build a business together? 
- Forget business, but just a vision for our mutual life together?

- What about children? How do we align in how to raise children, it I want to teach the children about consciousness, biases and self-deception, and becoming a truly good person — and she finds all this shit just as a threat to her own ego?

There’s so much more issues dating a normie.

What if we discuss movies / series we watch together? Am I gonna hold back 80% of my real thoughts? What kind of relationship / intimacy is that?

What about just big events in society like the Israel-Palestine? Will I just give her the socially accepted / virtue signaling thought? What kind of fake intimacy is that?

[Miguel1]

5 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Touche.

Thank you for your service.

My pleasure.

Thank you for being a good leader and a role model.

[Miguel1]

2 minutes ago, LordFall said:

You don't have to choose between attraction and intelligence; valuing physical beauty doesn't negate wanting intellectual intimacy and connection.

Nobody said that.

But yes, it is a spectrum. Some people value one over the other. Sometimes a lot more than the other.

[Valach]

3 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Physical beauty and sexual attraction are so important in romantic relationships. We are biological creatures before we are intellectual psyches.

You don't have to choose between attraction or intelligence, that's a scarcity mindset. Also valuing physical beauty doesn't negate wanting intellectual intimacy and connection.

Yes, but the definition of sapiosexual is that the primary attraction is intellectual. I have met people like this and they simply do not care about physical attraction much. So they don't really differentiate between someone being average or hot just like I do not really care if the woman has blue or brown eyes (doesnt really change my attraction to her persoanlly).

[Ulax]

16 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

This horny dog. This is what happens when you study a nerd like Todd 

[Leo Gura]

Needing a hot woman is a curse.

[Miguel1]

6 minutes ago, Valach said:

Yes, but the definition of sapiosexual is that the primary attraction is intellectual. I have met people like this and they simply do not care about physical attraction much. So they don't really differentiate between someone being average or hot just like I do not really care if the woman has blue or brown eyes (doesnt really change my attraction to her persoanlly).

For him, everything is either looks, money or status 

[Leo Gura]

@Miguel1 Bro, just be more like Mike Sartain. Be like Mike, visualize it every morning 

[Miguel1]

6 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

@Miguel1 Bro, just be more like Mike Sartain. Be like Mike, visualize it every morning 

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