Olaf

being genuine

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I feel that being genuine is such a nice thing to do. Like it is kinda too nice, where you become a nice guy lol. But it actually brings you clairity and gives clairity to others. If anything I am good at it is bringing clairity to others, I am like a crystalizing ball that makes peoples mind clear and get out of the foggy dense emotions. The reason that I am good at helping people clairify is because I am genuine if I need to be. If people are truely close to me, they open up, because I am not judging them or as little as possible, I am just listening and being there for them genuinely. This is what brings out gold, this is what sharpens you and them more then anything, especially if we are talking about deeper friendships and relationships.

And it helps you develop by bringing clairity both to others aswell as to yourself. If you resonate on an emotional level, you can see what is beyond the words, beyond what they are saying and what is actually going on. For example deep pain or frustration or anger or even excitement. I don't listen to the words, I listen to the feeling and when you get to know someone you really see their patterns. For example a friend of mine I talked to today he was really frustrated and I brought clairity to him by gently and genuinely trying to clairify for him, mainly by asking questions and understanding what was going on for him, which all came back to his parents who traumatised him.

So it was very insightful, it really comes down to being genuine, do you genuinely want to be there for someone aswell? Most people want to be there for someone until they start doing better then you. A good example would be my wingmen, most of my wingmen who actually got most of the stuff they do from me are doing better then me hahaha, but I can either be mad about that or I can support them and be there for them. So be there for others, not because you have to, but if you want to. Most people are not genuine and only wish hell on everyone and everything, mainly because they are not developing themself and don't belief in abundance and growth, don't belief that someone gaining would be a gain for you. Everything is a win win, directly or indirectly. Almost like karma. 

Now the only thing I would say is doing this with people that actually want to grow aswell, otherwise you are going nowhere, both of you. Don't try to help someone make money who doesn't deep down want to make money, this is why many people teach only after they get paid, because now there is some form of skin in the game and now they want a return on their investment by applying the knowledge. Anyways enough yapping, I am gonna go sleep. 

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