New strategy for dating.

[Majed]

Last time when i performed at an open mic. At the end an attractive girl looked at me, smiled and was attracted. Another approached me, telling me that my lyrics were good. The first girl, i didn't approach though, because i wasn't looking for dating opportunities i was more looking to do my rap. And the second girl wasn't that attractive. But i can see that if i continue doing open mics, i could potentially get girls by socializing there and approaching women who are attracted to me after finishing my performance. However the thing with open mics is that they require a lot of preparations to do and are kind of an indirect way to get laid.

‎Cold approaching girls is like begging for money. Yes you can get money that way, but there are more elegant and refined ways to do it. The best approach to get laid is to leverage your dream, aspiration and purpose, turn youself into a high status, recognized person, and get laid from fans of your body of work.

‎Picking up girls work well espicially in large venues like clubs, where people are drinking, dancing and having fun. Girls are more open to being hit on, and having one night stands.

‎You can combine both short term pick up game at clubs, and long term status/fame game with your career.

[Rishabh R]

@Majed In my experience of cold approaching more than 55 women in a month in the past . I would say approach despite anxiety and share your honest version with the woman. That's all. 

Yup cold approach is begging for money - you can get someone but that won't be high status/high fulfillment for you. 

[Majed]

@Rishabh R Dude i've done over 2700 approaches by now lmao. 

[Rishabh R]

@Majed Congratulations. 

[Olaf]

@Majed you just need to move countries, you live in a bad area, seriously

[LordFall]

I think this is the right path. If you consistently take action you'd be surprised the progress you can make in 1-2 years. I started out with regular day game and cold approach, eventually I got a girlfriend for about a year when I was 24 and when that didn't work I moved to Toronto and started throwing events with the pickup guys and promoters I knew there.

Throwing parties and shooting podcasts was way more fun than just doing cold approach on the street, you start being able to have a lot of fun instead of the mechanical process of just engaging in shallow interactions over and over again. 

Edited 4 hours ago by LordFall