nerves before going to approach

[Olaf]

I have been going out allot and all of a sudden right now before I go out to approach, I am struck with allot of nerves as if it is my first time doing it, but I am still gonna get out there, approach, fuck these nerves. I am not letting them determine what I will do, with or without nerves I am gonna approach, because this is just what I do now.

Some inspiration for people who might feel the same nerves and let that hold them back in life, FUCK THE NERVES, do it scared, do it anyways, live an uncomfortable life, don´t settle in comfort (dead zone)

[LordFall]

It's often helped me to give a voice to these feelings of anxiety so I can understand what my subconscious is going through.

What exactly is your mind telling through these feelings of nervousness? That you should wait and approach later? That what if other guys see you approaching? That the girl isn't gonna like you anyway? That you got other better things to be doing? That you should and and approach hotter girls? That you should wait next week to approach? 

Once you understand the foundation of the resistance you're encountering, it'll be much easier to overcome it. 

[Inliytened1]

5 hours ago, Olaf said:

I have been going out allot and all of a sudden right now before I go out to approach, I am struck with allot of nerves as if it is my first time doing it, but I am still gonna get out there, approach, fuck these nerves. I am not letting them determine what I will do, with or without nerves I am gonna approach, because this is just what I do now.

Some inspiration for people who might feel the same nerves and let that hold them back in life, FUCK THE NERVES, do it scared, do it anyways, live an uncomfortable life, don´t settle in comfort (dead zone)

Once that gets into your head it can become a mental thing and start to happen every time because you are thinking about it.  Like you said simply move past it and disregard.  Eventually it will pass and you won't get nerves.  The way out is the way through. 

[Olaf]

yes its just bullshit, went out anyway and approached 20 girls, that was also kinda my point, just go even when nervous and I think it helped to express it on here a bit

[LordFall]

Solid work pushing through and hitting 20 sets. Most guys talk about it for months and never step up to do even one.

When you're pulling that kind of volume, patterns start showing real fast. How are the sets actually breaking down once you open? Are you getting good hooks and conversations that lead to dates, or is it mostly quick blow-offs and polite numbers that flake? Curious where you feel you're clicking and where the bottleneck is right now.