Polygamy- does it work

[Mellowmarsh]

3 minutes ago, LordFall said:

For me I think figuring out how to raise children with 4 different women sounds like a high quality problem that I enthusiastically welcome. 

And would you be happy to do your share of night duty tending to the babies needs, that can often be two or three times a night? 

[LordFall]

3 minutes ago, Mellowmarsh said:

And would you be happy to do your share of night duty tending to the babies needs, that can often be two or three times a night? 

Well for me I'm an entrepreneur and want to build a fully remote business so I've already figured that one out I don't really need a stable sleep schedule. I think my babies will be quite smart too so I think perhaps even at 6 months old they can give useful insights for my business in the form of sign language that I will put into AI and try to decode 

 

[Mellowmarsh]

6 minutes ago, LordFall said:

 

@Mellowmarsh I hear that @Inliytened1 has a nice house, I think you'd be comfy there. Is the romance back or what? 

I’m already mortgage free, I own my own 4 bedroom house in the Cotswolds, it’s my beautiful comfortable palace, I live alone, by choice, and I’m very happy with that choice. My ex husband left me the house as a generous gift as part of the divorce settlement. I was chuffed to bits. He left me for another woman from another country because he couldn’t control his lustful urges, but that wasn’t his fault because evolution programmed him to be like that.

[Mellowmarsh]

5 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Well for me I'm an entrepreneur and want to build a fully remote business so I've already figured that one out I don't really need a stable sleep schedule. I think my babies will be quite smart too so I think perhaps even at 6 months old they can give useful insights for my business in the form of sign language that I will put into AI and try to decode 

 

You sound like Elon Musk. LoL

[AION]

5 hours ago, BlessedLion said:

Thanks man! 

Ralston is amazing, and you have to realize as a student of his, his main goal is to raise your consciousness and face your own bs, not be your friend. Which is why lots of people might see him as a "dick", but in reality he is a MASSIVE SAINT, just doesn't act like one. I like that about him, he doesn't coddle or pander. 

 

Still active on YouTube, thanks for asking, but been slowing down. I love writing and making videos, but find the low view counts and algorithm competition to be kinda draining. I might move more towards 1 on 1 coaching, courses, or retreat type stuff. Hope your good brother!

how much you paid him though? ralston doesn't come cheap

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[LordFall]

19 minutes ago, Mellowmarsh said:

I’m already mortgage free, I own my own 4 bedroom house in the Cotswolds, it’s my beautiful comfortable palace, I live alone, by choice, and I’m very happy with that choice. My ex husband left me the house as a generous gift as part of the divorce settlement. I was chuffed to bits. He left me for another woman from another country because he couldn’t control his lustful urges, but that wasn’t his fault because evolution programmed him to be like that.

That's good, I don't see why divorce has to be such a terrible thing and people end up going from loving each other to scorched-earth this is my worst enemy on the planet type of scenarios.

16 minutes ago, Mellowmarsh said:

You sound like Elon Musk. LoL

Not in thousand years, Elon Musk seems to be a terrible father and half of his kids hate him. He was never there for them and made them a distant priority to his business goals.

That's why I think remote business is so important so you don't have to choose between spending time at the office and raising your kids. 

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[Mellowmarsh]

2 minutes ago, LordFall said:

That's good, I don't see why divorce has to be such a terrible thing and people end up going from loving each other to scorched-earth this is my worst enemy on the planet type of scenarios.

It’s not a terrible thing, it felt like it at the time because I would never have left him, so it was a painful split in the beginning, but turned out to be a blessing in disguise, because I’ve never been happier than I am right now, the deeds are in my name only now. And last I heard about my ex was that the woman he left me for has left him. Leaving him alone having to rent a flat in London where he’s now living and working as a fully qualified osteopath, but it’s not cheap renting in London. But that was his bed he chose to lie in.

[Mellowmarsh]

19 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Not in thousand years, Elon Musk seems to be a terrible father and half of his kids hate him. He was never there for them and made them a distant priority to his business goals.

That's why I think remote business is so important so you don't have to choose between spending time at the office and raising your kids. 

Yeah, that was a terrible comparison, I agree.

 

J Epstein wanted to spread his genius seed too. I couldn’t imagine a worse hell, being a product of his gene pool.

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[LordFall]

Wow yeah that would be fucked up. Doesn't seem like he has kids though 

 

[Mellowmarsh]

@LordFall The image is not viewable in my region, can you describe it for me?

[something_else]

1 hour ago, LordFall said:

Of course, problems will come like one of the woman not liking how another woman parents her child, etc. There are always problems in life, you just have to choose which types of problem you want to experience.

For me I think figuring out how to raise children with 4 different women sounds like a high quality problem that I enthusiastically welcome. 

@Mellowmarsh I hear that @Inliytened1 has a nice house, I think you'd be comfy there. Is the romance back or what? 

In this case there are lots of problems.

Each new person increases the number of interpersonal relationships exponentially. 

With you, 4 women, each with 1 kid, that’s 72 interpersonal relationships in play. And conflict multiplies much faster than the extra support you get.

Chances are at least one woman will want to leave at some point. Custody will be a bitch. Splitting assets will be a bitch. If you replace her that’s 3 other women who also have to be comfortable with the new woman being around their kids.

There will be some kind of hierarchy that forms, and jealousy is very likely. You are the bottleneck in attention for every single one of these mothers and kids, so your time will be spread incredibly thin.

If the women aren’t allowed to see other men, they’re sacrificing a lot for a small share of male attention, which will eventually breed resentment. Especially if they’re low down the pecking order.

You then have the social stigma, which you may be fine with but you have no guarantee for your kids or the women. They may be fine with it at the start, but things change.

Financially, if you come on hard times the whole thing collapses. This is not a cheap lifestyle, even with multiple incomes.

Enough space and privacy for this many people is a serious concern.

Sexual health / STI management is a serious concern, balance of probability is one of the women, or you, cheat at some point. Then everybody gets an STI. So you need regular testing.

Maternal favouritism is another serious concern. Each mother will obviously favour her own kid, which will likely cause issues. Who can discipline whose kids?

Like, this sounds like my idea of a nightmare. Good luck managing this and a full time job.

All that just so you can have group sex on the regular, which will also lose its appeal over time as it becomes less special.

I mean I wish you good luck, but you’ve really got your work cut out for you 😛 this would be my idea of a nightmare

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[LordFall]

45 minutes ago, Mellowmarsh said:

@LordFall The image is not viewable in my region, can you describe it for me?

Interesting, where are you that they don't allow imgur?

Says that Jeffrey Epstein has no confirmed children and a few women have come forth and tried to claim part of his estate for their kids but nothing has been proven yet. 

@something_else Yeah totally I've considered all of this already. I think being a business owner with a profitable business makes the whole thing way more viable than just having a career and trying to manage the job market and probably getting fired with AI over the next 10 years and a big household. I'm working towards that daily. 

Ideally I would see myself buying a place next to a big city but a bit removed to build my household. Probably in Europe somewhere warm or SEA since I really hate the cold. 

To me it sounds like quite an interest way to live your life. This is the most complex scenario possible with having kids with all 4 women. I would like to get there but a lot of polyamorous couples have kids with their partner and girlfriends that can live in the house but no kids or don't even live on the same propriety. I'll see how my life develops and which type of polyamory I end up falling into. 

[Leo Gura]

7 hours ago, Thought Art said:

@Leo Gura I have a good friend and lover who is polyamorous. 

I know it can work.

[LordFall]

 

[Inliytened1]

18 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

I know it can work.

Not if they have cars 😀 if they all come over at the same time you have real trouble on your hands. 

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[LordFall]

2 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Not if they have cars 😀 if they all come over at the same time you have real trouble on your hands. 

You seem to enjoy taking shortcuts in dating as opposed to taking the long harder way but more stable my friend! 

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, LordFall said:

You seem to enjoy taking shortcuts in dating as opposed to taking the long harder way but more stable my friend! 

Bro you are loving this shit. Some real shit for a change.  So what if I wing it.  That's what gets you there.