Polygamy- does it work

[Mellowmarsh]

2 minutes ago, Cosmin Mihai said:

There is this lady Judith Rich Harris who has an interesting point in the book "The Nurture Assumption": The part of the brain that handles a relation is different than the part of the brain that handles a group.

In other words the relation mechanics are different than the group mechanics psychologically. We can then extrapolate to the polyamory experience: it is just a different experience than being in a relationship.

Infinity just means exploring everything that’s possibly possible, and so why not, again, whatever works for you, is paramount. Just make yourself very clear to all those who embark with you on your amazing voyages of discovery. 

[Inliytened1]

14 minutes ago, LordFall said:

You can be the head of his household and he can have concubines to manage his sexual needs. This is a classic arrangement that worked for royalty throughout history. 

She's a brit doubt she is going to go for that. And she has class. And she's cute. So yeah don't see her doing that.  

[LordFall]

11 minutes ago, Cosmin Mihai said:

There is this lady Judith Rich Harris who has an interesting point in the book "The Nurture Assumption": The part of the brain that handles a relation is different than the part of the brain that handles a group.

In other words the relation mechanics are different than the group mechanics psychologically. We can then extrapolate to the polyamory experience: it is just a different experience than being in a relationship.

This is a terrible extrapolation. Do you think in her data for groups she included people that fuck eachother, cuddle and sleep in the same bed? Of course your brain is gonna interpret your friend group differently than your intimate partner. Unless you sample specifically polyamorous couples then your conclusion sounds to me like it would be clearly incorrect. 

@Inliytened1 Sales 101, highlight the benefit of what you have to offer. Don't sell your prospect out of what you're trying to pitch them! It's for her to decide what she wants in her romantic life but it's your job to steelman your offer. 

Edited 2 hours ago by LordFall

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, LordFall said:

 

@Inliytened1 Sales 101, highlight the benefit of what you have to offer. Don't sell your prospect out of what you're trying to pitch them! 

You're the best. Man.  Wanna be a mod?  Hit Leo up. There's some slots open now.

Edited 2 hours ago by Inliytened1

[LordFall]

2 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

You're the best. Man.  Wanna be a mod?  Hit Leo up. There's some slots open now.

Would love to, I'll do that! 

[Cosmin Mihai]

10 minutes ago, Mellowmarsh said:

Infinity just means exploring everything that’s possibly possible, and so why not, again, whatever works for you, is paramount. Just make yourself very clear to all those who embark with you on your amazing voyages of discovery. 

Infinity means to not explore what's possible as well, not sure I understand the argument.

[Inliytened1]

9 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Would love to, I'll do that! 

So the secret to maintaining 4 girlfriends in America is ensure at least 3 of them don't own a car.  That way you're safe from them coming over while you're fucking a different one.  I couldn't control the fourth. That was Stacy. Quite wealthy.  I had to board up the windows to keep her out while I was getting busy 

Edited 2 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Mellowmarsh]

11 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

She's a brit doubt she is going to go for that. And she has class. And she's cute. So yeah don't see her doing that.  

Thank you for seeing me that way. I adore men, and I’m appreciative and extremely thankful for all their hard grafting in building this beautiful modern world we all enjoy today, us women could never have done this alone. Men are amazing. The world would have been totally out of balance without you, thank God had the wisdom to make two hands are better than one. 
 

I do enjoy discussing all kinds of topics with you,  it’s all good. 👍 

[LordFall]

10 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

So the secret to maintaining 4 girlfriends in America is ensure at least 3 of them don't own a car.  That way you're safe from them coming over while you're fucking a different one.  I couldn't control the fourth. That was Stacy. Quite wealthy.  I had to board up the windows to keep her out while I was getting busy 

Did you lie to them about the other ones though? That's inevitably gonna blow up in your face.

You should always be honest with your women. Either they'll want to join and it ends up in heavenly group sex or they'll want more of a parallel polyamory setup where they don't meet your other women but they know about and accept them. 

[Mellowmarsh]

16 minutes ago, Cosmin Mihai said:

Infinity means to not explore what's possible as well, not sure I understand the argument.

All inclusive included. Nothing is left out. There was no argument, except what you perceived to be there. 

[Inliytened1]

2 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Did you lie to them about the other ones though? That's inevitably gonna blow up in your face.

You should always be honest with your women. Either they'll want to join and it ends up in heavenly group sex or they'll want more of a parallel polyamory setup where they don't meet your other women but they know about and accept them. 

These weren't polyamory chicks.  Just regular old chicks.  Like you said. Winged it. Didn't do it right.  So here I am juggling four girls.  Did I lie to them? I don't think they asked.  But I surely didn't offer it up.  Yeah. I am the one who told you guys not to lie to women.  They are like the lie police. They can sniff that shit out a mile away. 

[LordFall]

Just now, Inliytened1 said:

These weren't polyamory chicks.  Just regular old chicks.  Like you said. Winged it. Didn't do it right.  So here I am juggling four girls.  Did I lie to them? I don't think they asked.  But I surely didn't offer it up.  Yeah. I am the one who told you guys not to lie to women.  They are like the lie police. They can sniff that shit out a mile away. 

Next try the opposite game. Ask women you go on dates with if they've ever kissed a girl before or had sex with one. In my experience about 60% of women madeout with another girl before and maybe like 30% have had sex with one or want to. Then you can lead it towards what's your type? Do you like that girl over there or what about that one? Instead of your girlfriend being jealous that you find other women in public hot she should enjoy other's women beauty alongside you and fuck them with you.

On Instagram the models I know 80% of the comments are other women simping for them calling them super hot. Religious shame has ruined sexuality for us all! If it disappeared from the planet I think polyamory and bisexuality would be way more rampant. 

[Inliytened1]

@Leo Gura hit @LordFall up for a mod spot.  He's awesome. 

[Mellowmarsh]

@Inliytened1 We all lie, both men and women. It’s the nature of humanity to lie. Humans are the greatest deceivers/ actors. 
We’re all guilty of sniffing out lies because we all know what a lie is, and what it is to lie. And every lie is the truth.

[Mellowmarsh]

17 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Did you lie to them about the other ones though? That's inevitably gonna blow up in your face.

He was very honest to me. So I admire that about him. 

[Mellowmarsh]

15 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Next try the opposite game. Ask women you go on dates with if they've ever kissed a girl before or had sex with one. In my experience about 60% of women madeout with another girl before and maybe like 30% have had sex with one or want to. Then you can lead it towards what's your type? Do you like that girl over there or what about that one? Instead of your girlfriend being jealous that you find other women in public hot she should enjoy other's women beauty alongside you and fuck them with you.

On Instagram the models I know 80% of the comments are other women simping for them calling them super hot. Religious shame has ruined sexuality for us all! If it disappeared from the planet I think polyamory and bisexuality would be way more rampant. 

What about the babies, pregnancies can creep in often unexpectedly, what happens to the babies in that case. Birth control whatever method used, is not always 💯 percent guaranteed to protect?

[LordFall]

24 minutes ago, Mellowmarsh said:

What about the babies, pregnancies can creep in often unexpectedly, what happens to the babies in that case. Birth control whatever method used, is not always 💯 percent guaranteed to protect?

Babies are great, they make the human race more powerful. For a monogamous couple raising kids can be a nightmare, they usually get sleep deprivation for the first year of the newborn's life.

If you have multiple women in the household it makes it much easier to divide tasks and enhance the life quality of each person involved and the kids get to live in a fun household with many loving figures. 

Edited 1 hour ago by LordFall

[something_else]

11 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Babies are great, they make the human race more powerful. For a monogamous couple raising kids can be a nightmare, they usually get sleep deprivation for the first year of the newborn's life.

If you have multiple women in the household it makes it much easier to divide tasks and enhance the life quality of each person involved and the kids get to live in a fun household with many loving figures. 

I think that’s quite an idealised view of how that would work, the reality would not be so idyllic 

[Mellowmarsh]

@LordFall Okay, fair enough. I guess if there’s an abundance of mature emotional support, stability , full on commitment to duty and constant consistency filled with love and compassion and consensual commitment from everyone, then I guess the children will benefit an upbringing like that. 

[LordFall]

8 minutes ago, something_else said:

I think that’s quite an idealised view of how that would work, the reality would not be so idyllic 

Of course, problems will come like one of the woman not liking how another woman parents her child, etc. There are always problems in life, you just have to choose which types of problem you want to experience.

For me I think figuring out how to raise children with 4 different women sounds like a high quality problem that I enthusiastically welcome. 

@Mellowmarsh I hear that @Inliytened1 has a nice house, I think you'd be comfy there. Is the romance back or what? 

Edited 1 hour ago by LordFall