How becoming Bisexual makes you smarter

[shenanigans]

Recently I had an awakening in terms of my sexuality.

Basically I deconstructed sexuality.

I saw treating men or women as more sexually relevant as an unhealthy and unnecessary bias. Also why close yourself to a multitude of exciting sexual experiences. The bias of treating men or women as more sexually relevant is mostly cultural gaslighting: 

• Napes of girls necks
• Black teeth
• Heels of girls shoes
• People trying to become as thin as they can
• Fat assess and big tits
• Tomboy craze during the renaissance
• Fat chicks 
• Neck rings 
• Literally anything [Probably could make a mega tread on this]

Regardless of orientation, time period, or culture, you’re always looking for something. 

With Bisexuality (really pan), as the playing field becomes even, and bodytypes experience a multitude of variations, what you’re RAS ends up focusing is not attraction to the body systems, but rather attraction to the creature that you’re experiencing’s soul/resonance.

 

No societal pressures to force you into a conformist standard, it’s only love and connection. If you’re not taught by your culture to search in other places for intimacy, you’ll simply never explore—Not for any true practical reason, but for not wanting to stick outside of the conformity zone.
 

I think the standard of only being straight—to not evolve past into a multitude of sexual experiences with any partner—is actually not normal or natural in the context of sexual development. To try and fit within a certain taxonomy of mind, actually energetically and epistemologically taxes upon the mind.

You can feel it too. When I switched to Bi sexuality, I immediately felt more intelligent—as well as more energetically stable, with higher clarity of mind—The kind that follows significant epistemological deconstruction. This was also followed by better assertion of higher order values, and a better natural social/spiritual collaborative frame—leading to better results in interpersonal relationships in my life—there’s no one to really compete with when everyones on the market.

In Ancient Greece/Rome — The main cultures in the world to emphasize Truth, personal exploration, and psychedelics, had an abundance of such cases. They simply did not care. Although they cared deeply about whether you were the submissive party or not—still kinda a stage red culture—Fundamentally, the fact that you could fuck a guy did not matter—in fact, even Spartans were literally trained to please potential military commanders in case they were into them, and then afterwards went on to have normal relations with their wives. Athens’ founding myth of democracy was founded on a story of male couple killing a tyrant.
 

Bisexuality is maybe even Tier 2 in terms of spiral dynamics, as the dual nature of Bi—literally meaning the fusion of two poles—and its requirement for the transcendence of sex as a survival mechanism. I mean, how else would you spiritually advance your sexuality?

 

In summary Bisexuality is an advanced doctrine and form of sexuality requiring you to go beyond survival, in simply finding whoever or whatever you find attractive, and—with consent—(sex without consent is just abuse)—fucking and loving the shit out of them.

 

Ask yourself, If aliens came to earth, would they be straight?

would they be saying amongst themselves 

“Yeah we want to fuck the humans/[other alien race] [not the people behind their avatars], and once we fuck the girls then we can make babies or something. Only the girls. [Or] Only the guys or else.” 

or would they say

“I will fuck whoever I like given consent. Maybe there’s someone’s who’s soul there I will bond with” 

It is of course the latter.

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[aurum]

1 hour ago, shenanigans said:

Pan sexuality is maybe even Tier 2 in terms of spiral dynamics, as the dual nature of Bi/Pan—literally meaning the fusion of two poles—and its requirement for the transcendence of sex as a survival mechanism. I mean, how else would you spiritually advance your sexuality?

Too far.

Pansexuality has nothing to do with Tier 2 or advanced spirituality.

Your sexual orientation is temperament, not development.

[shenanigans]

39 minutes ago, aurum said:

Too far.

Pansexuality has nothing to do with Tier 2 or advanced spirituality.

Your sexual orientation is temperament, not development.

 

Not quite. 
 

Spiral dynamics advances along multiple lines and multiple ways. You can be stage turquoise in your consciousness, yet orange in you business practices and relationships.

As far as spiral dynamics is concerned there is hardly any maps for how sexuality advances through spiral stages. This model of bi sexuality or even something beyond to something like pansexuality as an actual theorizing on how that scales. 
 

Note: When I mention bisexuality, I’m not talking in terms of attraction, I’m more so talking about a doctrine of treating all people as equal in terms of attraction. That is actually closer to the word and orientation of -pan sexuality, but practically speaking no one uses that so I’m just calling it bisexuality.
 

Regardless if it’s not full -pan, I still think bi is still more advanced and developed orientation regardless. I see bi as yellow—the complete higher order fusions of two poles. And pan as turquoise—the absolute acceptance of all sexuality’s as one. I’m not pan yet—that’s a bit too much even for me——that’s like renouncing sex all together——but I did legitimately dive and have insights into the whole world and willingness of bi as a more optimal orientation that I legitimately find more enjoyable, practical, and epistemologically grounded.

 

Regardless of how you look at it, the willingness to screw any human of your race because you’re not willing to care about societal constructions and the willingness to train your sexual RAS on a persons character rather than having solely big tits and a fat ass is more developed than the latter, and allows for a larger variety of experiences. Also I’m not kidding about the perks. You legitimately feel it. Hence the whole point of this thread 

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[aurum]

9 minutes ago, shenanigans said:

As far as spiral dynamics is concerned there is hardly any maps for how sexuality advances through spiral stages.

That's because sexual orientation is not a function of development.

If opening up to bisexuality has been powerful for you, great. I'm happy for you. 

But I would not confuse that for Tier 2 development. They are not the same.

[shenanigans]

I mean could you like prove me wrong. I could be the exception, but like wouldn’t you imagine aliens or Greek God’s having extreme willingness to fuck anything? Like am I crazy or something. They are both literally Gods. I don’t think you understanding the whole point of actual deconstruction and opening yourself up to more or less limitless possibilities. 

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[Asayake]

Everyone is not on the exact same developmental path, there's a lot of individuality to people which is why something like Carl Jungs model of individuation makes a lot more sense than something like Spiral Dynamics or any other kind of system that tries to measure development according to objective external metrics, development is individual, for some people becoming bisexual is development as in they're becoming more of themselves, for some it will be an identity confusion in that it was never authentically them but something they did for example to fit into a group. So I don't disagree that sexuality can be developmental in the sense that waking up to your own deeper sexuality can be a step of individuation, but I also don't think that's universal for everyone because people can have all kinds of sexual journeys and they don't all end in bisexuality, that doesn't mean they're inferior, it's just who they are.

[shenanigans]

True. Maybe I’m larping. I haven’t even had sex with guys. But the legitimate willingness inofitself was the development and the difference. That’s what I’m saying.

 

Although maybe I’m different. I do want to be president some day. I feel like will in metaphor refantazio. Maybe a more androgynous approach makes for better leaders/administrators or something. Higher tolerance, more approachable and collaborative, etc. 

Also I would imagine aliens to probably be something else. Probably asexual as sex drive is probably too disruptive for multi-year long mediation sessions. Hence why every monk wants to purify sexual desires. Maybe that’s why aliens got no pee pee.

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[aurum]

14 minutes ago, shenanigans said:

but like wouldn’t you imagine aliens or Greek God’s having extreme willingness to fuck anything?

Assuming they are still sexual at all, there would be limits.

14 minutes ago, shenanigans said:

I don’t think you understanding the whole point of actual deconstruction and opening yourself up to more or less limitless possibilities.

That is not the point of deconstruction.

Human life is not about infinite possibilities. Human life is extremely constrained. 

[shenanigans]

 

 

10 minutes ago, aurum said:

Assuming they are still sexual at all, there would be limits.

That is not the point of deconstruction.

Human life is not about infinite possibilities. Human life is extremely constrained. 

Infinite can be variations as small as .00000…1%. Every new option offers a new magnitude of possibility.
 

Still. I don’t imagine you ever trying to explore the entire world of sexuality if in the back of your mind you always have the ache of “But I’m straight, but I’m straight. But no homo” etc. Like why are you fighting so hard to resist? For what? — Therein lies the societal pressure, and the sexual liberation/awakening.

 

That ‘need’ to be something. Thats what’s being deconstructed.

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[Lyubov]

It sounds to me like you’re just bi and living more authentically being bi. It’s nice living authentically. I wouldn’t make the assumption that your authenticity is the same as everyone else’s. 

[shenanigans]

I’m just open to anything, and I’m not going to hold bias towards others, be it human or alien. If my wife turned into a mystical creature and could still give consent, why not have some fun. So long as I could still resonate with her soul, then it would just be a fun experience.

[aurum]

4 minutes ago, shenanigans said:

Still. I don’t imagine you ever trying to explore the entire world of sexuality if in the back of your mind you always have the ache of “But I’m straight, but I’m straight. But no homo” etc. Like why are you fighting so hard to resist? For what? — Therein lies the societal pressure, and the sexual liberation/awakening.

 

That ‘need’ to be something. Thats what’s being deconstructed.

Why not drop a bowling ball on your foot? There's an entire world of pain to explore. 

Deconstruct your need for an unfractured foot.

[Carl-Richard]

Being gay is the new Spiral Dynamics (it's a rainbow after all).

 

[shenanigans]

That’s too biased. Being Gay is a preference not a doctrine.

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[shenanigans]

8 minutes ago, aurum said:

Why not drop a bowling ball on your foot? There's an entire world of pain to explore. 

Deconstruct your need for an unfractured foot.

Sure why not..? I mean doesn’t the Buddha want to transcend all suffering..? People hit themselves with sticks and lay on beds of nails all the time.

I’m just talking about sticking things up your ass. I’m not saying you need to like guys or anything. Just the whole idea of ‘needing’ to be straight would kinda keep you from that exploration in the first place. And who knows, you probably might like it. And that’s just scary if you have societal pressured ‘need’ to be straight.
 

I’m still not joking about the perks. You gain constant collaborative frame. Idk man.

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[aurum]

Just now, shenanigans said:

Sure why not..? I mean doesn’t the Buddha want to transcend all suffering..? People hit themselves with sticks and lay on beds of nails all the time.

I’m just talking about sticking things up your ass. I’m not saying you need to like guys or anything. Just the whole idea of ‘needing’ to be straight would kinda keep you from that exploration in the first place. And who knows, you probably might like it. And that’s just scary if you have societal pressured ‘need’ to be straight.

Okay, have fun.

[shenanigans]

Thanks I guess it is kinda scary but at least we live in a society that’s promoting it and all that.

[Carl-Richard]

I think everybody can take a moment to assess how bisexual they are by just revisiting memories from the past and it can bring awareness about parts of yourself that you might not have payed attention to or are repressing (hence increasing your sphere of consciousness). Whether you want to explore it further is up to you.

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[shenanigans]

15 minutes ago, shenanigans said:

I’m just open to anything, and I’m not going to hold bias towards others, be it human or alien. If my wife turned into a mystical creature and could still give consent, why not have some fun. So long as I could still resonate with her soul, then it would just be a fun experience.

Also this is the cleanest explanation. Bi probably doesn’t fit this category. That’s why I said also pan. But I just don’t want to sound unintelligible.

[shenanigans]

3 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

I think everybody can take a moment to assess how bisexual they are by just revisiting memories from the past and it can bring awareness about parts of yourself that you might not have payed attention to or are repressing (hence increasing your sphere of consciousness). Whether you want to explore it further is up to you.

I think I just realized how cringe I sound rn