attack mode when approaching people

[Olaf]

The easiest way to get into a social mood is just approaching a ton which means to attack. Playing defense won´t work, you have to be active and attack in life. If anything we learned from this fucking World championship in football was that Spain won, not because they scored so many times, but because they kept playing offense instead of defense. They kept trying to score. So the same I feel works in socialising. When you keep approaching you get into flow, you get out of your head and you literally see someone and boom, go for it. Instead of seeing someone and taking 10.000 hours before you know if you should talk or not and then she is already way too far. You have to fight yourself out of these excuses. Especially during day game, you see some girl that looks attractive, you go, you approach and that is all you do, you want to have as little time between seeing someone and approaching them. You have to almost fight yourself from getting lazy and finding excuses not to approach, see the opportunity right in front of you and go for it. Go go go! All gass no break. 

[Miguel1]

The other way of saying this is:

Play to win, not to not lose.

[Joseph Maynor]

And notice when others give attack mode to you.  This is something to notice.  It is an energetic habit.

[LordFall]

Yes most men are stuck in a passive mode version of living life, they don't take massive action towards their goals consistently. We used to call it being at the cause and not the effect of life. 

Edited 3 hours ago by LordFall