keep talking during an approach

[Olaf]

Okay so one of the biggest shift for me today was to keep talking. Like I saw  a girl and at first she was a bit uncomfortable, but I said don´t look so worried, nothing is gonna happen or something and laughed and kept talking. Like keep talking is not just about being a radio host, but more about not letting too many quiet moments fall in the first few minutes and taking action instead of passivity. Atleast I feel that works well in day game, during the night you can jump up and down and twerk like a monkey without saying any words lol. So another girl today I felt kinda her wanting to stop or leave or move and being tiny bit uncomfortable, but I just kept talking without caring too much about what I say, but trying to slow her down with my energy, being calm, which worked great and actually she started looking a bit mesmerised in my eyes. So I don´t put too much emphasis on the beginning what I say, but more that I keep talking not rushing, but just keep yapping while focusing on the energy, basically my mouth is yapping and my energy is calming her down. 

[Joseph Maynor]

I'm not a dating coach and I don't pretend to be, but energy is super important.  It is not what you say, it is how you relate and the energy that you convey,  It does have to do with pacing and slowing down.  Confidence and calmness, with a willingness to relate and listen.  It is maturity.