Pick-up after 10 years of possesive relationship

[Juressic]

I have started the game 4 days ago after 10 years of relationship. Been watching and practicing Leo's series of "How to get laid", so I can share some of my experiences with you and get some advices. 

So ,  I square up with girls by simply say hello/hi face to face and then I'm smiling and waiting for her to load me into her memory. After that, hopefully I say something spontanious/playful/creative that is carrying the energy of the moment, but most of the time if my state isn't so high I say simple grounded phrases like "I would like to meet you". More important than the words is the energy, I believe. But words are the foundation for approaching.

Last night something powerful happened, and I made a mistake, I guess.  I've been dancing alone for 1 hour in front of the stage at a big festival, collecting all the energy around me. The music was so freaking good and it gave me a lot of insights about my music projects. Totally sober (+1g microdose shrooms), I've been building my state with small approaches to some girls around me, but without much physical escalation. My mistake there was that I've been thinking that I have time and that thouse girls are my great opportunity because one girl said that she has a house in central London. My first thought was "No way that local girl from central London would ever want to be with me". I felt so good and energized and I was so immersed in the music that my body had been dancing on it's own. Felt like I was almost in a God state, and one girl in front was dancing with her friend. She behaved shyly, but she had also locked eyes with me for 5 seconds straight. I genuinely fell in love with her. Those lingering eyes were a clear permission for me to approach her. So I simply approached her, squared her up, and with all my huge energy and genuine love for her, romantically I told her "You are beautiful", expecting her to smile back and maybe hug me or simply replay with "thanks", I thought that she was hooked, but what happened was that she stopped dancing, she and her friend turned their backs at me and she was totally blown away, freaked-out and overwhelmend. After a while, her boyfriend came and I simply passed them, took a place in front of them and she was touching my back with her back at some moments while I was dancing in the front of her and ignoring the whole situation. Crazy XP. 
The point of the story is that we should control our energy and explicitness, especially if we see that the girl is shy. 

I'm gathering XP and have done around 30 approaches by now in the last 4 days without a mouth-to-mouth kiss, only hugging and a few cheek kisses.
I see that there are so many traps in this game. It will sound strange but I believe that I would get laid on the first night only if I've been wearing different T-shirt, because there was a letters with a texture of UK flag on my shirt, I have met the girl from Scotland, most blackiest girl I ever met, her roots are from Sudan, I started kiss her on her cheeks and then her Irish friends came to drive me away, and I totally don't have any connection with UK-Ireland conflict 😂

All in all, I'm approaching in a random ways, testing what works and what doesn't. I'm 36, have a few gray hairs already, I don't have much monthly income, self-employed, I don't need much money at all, and money is just accumulating in my case (I'm working on my montly income), but I believe that I can maybe get laid with the girl I want. 😏  I've been avoiding girls for 10 years, never flirted with any girl in that period, my ex did everything to isolate me from social life and now I'm feeling like a dog let off the leash. 
Before, 10 years ago, I was drinking and smoking a lot when I went out for a pick-up. But now I didn't spend a single euro at the festival, even though I have a lot of money, I got a bracelet for free from an acquaintance and been drinking water from the pipe all night on a shroom microdose 😂 🥰 
If you can give me some advice, It would be great.

[Ulax]

Great stuff bro  

[Zenterus]

Keep going and definitely keep us updated with how the game is treating you. Little advice can be given just from one field report, so if you keep us updated we can then identify behavioural patterns and steer you in the right direction.

For now, though, keep fucking going, my man!

[Valach]

Cool read! Best of luck to you!