Men of the forum - Respect / Love

[Miguel1]

2 hours ago, Raze said:

“Women only love men they respect” or “women only sleep with men they respect” always seemed like nonsense to me.

A woman can respect a wise old sage and not want to bang him.

A woman can not respect some degenerate drug addled club promoter but sleep with him if she’s having fun 

1. Have you heard of cult leaders?

2. Most women do not respect sages. It takes real wisdom and maturity to respect them.

3. Oh, women do definitely respect degenerate club promoters, especially when they are in their peak youthful years (peak immaturity). They run after their validation like drug addicts.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

2 hours ago, Raze said:

“Women only love men they respect” or “women only sleep with men they respect” always seemed like nonsense to me.

A woman can respect a wise old sage and not want to bang him.

A woman can not respect some degenerate drug addled club promoter but sleep with him if she’s having fun 

A woman can love her husband due to their shared investment but not be attracted to him anymore if he became lame 

How would you answer the question yourself though?

[Raze]

1 hour ago, Miguel1 said:

1. Have you heard of cult leaders?

2. Most women do not respect sages. It takes real wisdom and maturity to respect them.

3. Oh, women do definitely respect degenerate club promoters, especially when they are in their peak youthful years (peak immaturity). They run after their validation like drug addicts.

1. That’s because they have status, social proof, and emotional connections. Also manipulation.

2. Sure, but the ones that do respect them don’t automatically want to sleep with them out of respect. Another example would be a professor or boss who they respect as an educator or colleague

3. Chasing validation and wanting fun isn’t the same as respect.

If you see a girl who you don’t respect for whatever reason, like you think they’re unethical, unreliable, but she’s super hot and fun, you may still sleep with her, even if you wouldn’t many guys would, why would women be different?

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[Raze]

40 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

How would you answer the question yourself though?

I don’t know, both options seem to have a big downside for me.

If a woman loved me but didn’t respect me I’d be unmasculine seeing her respect other guys more than me.

If she respected me but didn’t love me I’d resent that she likes what I do not who I am.

It also depends on the type of relationship. Friend, family, short term partner, long term partner.

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[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Raze "I don't know" , is a good answer 🫶

Edited 4 hours ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[Miguel1]

@Raze nobody said that respect always leads to wanting to fuck. But wanting to fuck requires respect from the ladies.

The truth is that the club girls that run after degenerate promoters, do respect them. The promoters have a lot of value in their eyes.

Men’s and women’s attraction system works differently. Women need to look upto the man’s strenght. They need to respect it. A weak man won’t get pussy.

[Raze]

1 hour ago, Miguel1 said:

@Raze nobody said that respect always leads to wanting to fuck. But wanting to fuck requires respect from the ladies.

The truth is that the club girls that run after degenerate promoters, do respect them. The promoters have a lot of value in their eyes.

Men’s and women’s attraction system works differently. Women need to look upto the man’s strenght. They need to respect it. A weak man won’t get pussy.

Respect and valuing something aren’t always the same

[Miguel1]

1 hour ago, Raze said:

Respect and valuing something aren’t always the same

Sure.