The Most Optimized Way to Cold-Approach a Woman

[Miguel1]

That being said,

My opens during the day are something along the lines of:

”Hey, excuse me.. 2 seconds / minute..

she stops and gives me her attention..

I was going to see my friend, but I saw you, and you have a very elegant / artistic / interesting look to you”

So it is fairly nonchalant and you can’t necessarily call this fully direct either. And the whole ”interested, but not sold” mindset is always there, and it’s genuine.

[Zenterus]

@Miguel1 Example:

1 - Did some day time approaching yesterday. I see a girl looking intently at her phone and I walk in front of her and say "Excuse me" in a very authoritative manner and she immediately jerks up, "Yes!" I start teasing her that I triggered one of her past lives that enrolled in the army with the way she jerked up. We had an awesome convo for like 15 minutes and exchanged info.

2 - Saw another girl yesterday towards the end of the session with a flowy dress floating in the wind. I open with "Damn, you look spiritual as hell. Bet you've been meditating for over a thousand years." She snort-giggles and we continue vibing and talking about spirituality and meditation and all that. She had a boyfriend but our vibe was very sensual and our eyes were locked the entire time.

3 - I opened another girl earlier with "If Nicki Minaj was 20 years younger, she'd look like you."  Etc etc

 

Basically, observational stuff and friendly stuff. I dont do looking for direction openers personally, but I prefer these more friendly, ambiguous opens that allow versatility.

[Miguel1]

@Zenterus I will emphasize. I am talking about girls who are walking full speed. The hardest sets, so to speak. The ones who has the hardest and most unwanted to be bothered body languages, and are clearly going somewhere.

If a girl is sitting at a park, no problems.

[Zenterus]

1 hour ago, Miguel1 said:

@Zenterus I will emphasize. I am talking about girls who are walking full speed. The hardest sets, so to speak. The ones who has the hardest and most unwanted to be bothered body languages, and are clearly going somewhere.

If a girl is sitting at a park, no problems.

Ah fair enough. Well, I honestly dont care to interact with those. I dont do quick number/instagram closes since I want to get a taste of the girl's personality first and if she's clearly in a hurry, then that goes against my standards of a solid approach.

Plus, I believe in offering value when I approach women and if a girl is clearly on a mission, I view it as taking value from her and not respecting her agenda by approaching her in that context.

 

[Miguel1]

@Zenterus They might look like they are on their way somewhere but has a spare 10-15 minutes, if you open them well.

Many girls are missed, if you skip these. Most girls during a day are going somewhere.

Quick numbers lead mostly nowhere, I agree. But a solid 10-15 mins is good.

Edited 6 hours ago by Miguel1