How to have ultimate power over your partner

[Sugarcoat]

On 2026-06-07 at 5:04 PM, Schizophonia said:

He's the kind of guy you like to read to feel intelligent when you have too much ego, but not at the level to read “real”psychoanalysis/psychology/psychiatry etc. Like Robert Greene.

At best it's quite intellectually inadequate, at worst it leads to a rather paranoid and neurotic outlook in general.

They fixate on this idea of masculinity, instead of just tapping into it already in themselves or something 

Edited Monday at 03:35 PM by Sugarcoat

[Schizophonia]

51 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

They fixate on this idea of masculinity, instead of just tapping into it already in themselves or something 

Paradoxically neurosis is what castrates men the most; It is even the acceptance of castration itself.

So learning to have a fulfilling life will naturally be much more masculine than those perspectives.

If what i say makes sense.

Edited Monday at 04:26 PM by Schizophonia

[Sugarcoat]

8 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Paradoxically neurosis is what castrates men the most; It is even the acceptance of castration itself.

So learning to have a fulfilling life will naturally be much more masculine than those perspectives.

If what i say makes sense.

Neurosis = toxic inflammatory heavy deluded mind layers . 😄

[Schizophonia]

3 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Neurosis = toxic inflammatory heavy deluded mind layers . 😄

Totally

 

(pretends having understod the joke*)

[LordFall]

On 6/7/2026 at 11:04 AM, Schizophonia said:

He's the kind of guy you like to read to feel intelligent when you have too much ego, but not at the level to read “real”psychoanalysis/psychology/psychiatry etc. Like Robert Greene.

At best it's quite intellectually inadequate, at worst it leads to a rather paranoid and neurotic outlook in general.

This is your take after reading the way of the superior man? Have you read it or just read a summary and made up a conclusion about it? The book itself is quite great. Not foolproof but definitely higher quality than most of the masculinity discussion on the internet. 

[Sugarcoat]

Respect them because you love them, love them because you connect with them, connect with them because they are truly that one special person for you 

🥀🖤

[Breakingthewall]

You can set all sorts of goals for yourself, but in a relationship, you'll be who you truly are. Your emotional makeup will surface, and nothing can stop it. Furthermore, if you try to act a certain way to achieve a certain goal, and that's not what truly comes from within you, you'll only confuse the other person, leaving them unsure of who they are until time and crises have passed, and then they could see your true face. 

[LordFall]

1 hour ago, Breakingthewall said:

You can set all sorts of goals for yourself, but in a relationship, you'll be who you truly are. Your emotional makeup will surface, and nothing can stop it. Furthermore, if you try to act a certain way to achieve a certain goal, and that's not what truly comes from within you, you'll only confuse the other person, leaving them unsure of who they are until time and crises have passed, and then they could see your true face. 

The one massive flaw in this is that your identity is not static. Your emotional makeup as you unwind your trauma and learn emotional intelligence skills. Your will is what defines you and what you're willing to do for what result. Most people's will is weak and falls towards the path of least resistance.

Therefore in a globalized dating market where the competition is increased we now find ourselves with subpar partners all around us and a big long road of self-development if we really want to experience high value partners. I thank God I was not born a woman and would have to get knocked up by the average dude out there lol, that would be rough. I can understand a large proportion of them have quit dating.