How to have ultimate power over your partner

[enchanted]

Treat them with the outmost respect as if they were your favorite celebrity. Treat them like you would want to be treated. Always be supportive and understanding, don't hold grudges. Always strive to act from tier 2 perspective. Read "the way of the Superior man" by Deida and use those lessons.

This manipulation technique will ensure that your partner will be wrapped around your little finger and crave you, make them blossom into the highest version of themselves, and help you build an awesome life together. 

Edited 21 hours ago by enchanted

[LordFall]

Yes offering value is the oldest influence and power trick in the book. Actually be a genuinely valuable person to know and spend time with with good communication skills and emotional intelligence. 

Just be careful with the way you phrased it. That's textbook nice guy syndrome and people pleasing as covert contract to get what you want. Most guys treat women with kindness and respect and get surprised when women don't want to fuck them as a result. Attraction is a science that's worth mastering. 

[Sugarcoat]

I looked up this Deida guy recently out of curiosity because I hear his name mentioned here, and in the first video I see, he says:

“all of us are more aware of other people than we are of ourselves, anyone can see you better than you can see yourself, obviously” 

That’s one of the most normie shit I ever heard, he believes that because he and many people are this way, then he’s assuming it’s the way people are, as if it’s not possible that there genuinely are people that are the opposite 

he is speaking to a particular audience, and if you know you’re not like that, why would you listen to him. What he said right there really says something about how he thinks on fundamental level and that’s gonna permeate all his teachings . 

I know I sound like I’m judging, yea I understand there can still be nuggets of wisdom in what he says, but really tho that way of reasoning is such a deep fundamental view of people , if you know yourself to not he like that, I’d be sceptical to pursue more of his teachings further

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[Rishabh R]

12 hours ago, enchanted said:

Read "the way of the Superior man" by Deida and use those lessons.

I prefer Models by Mark Manson and Dating essentials for men by Dr.Robert Glover. 😁

[LordFall]

@Sugarcoat Seems quite profound to me. It talks about the inherent blindspots we have towards our ego, insecurities, addictions and weaknesses that can paradoxically seem obvious to others. It's definitely not a normie thing to be highly skilled at introspection. 

 

[Osaid]

Wow that's so manipulative and evil, helping your partner blossom into having an awesome life. But I guess you gotta do what you gotta do.  ̄\_(ツ)_/ ̄ 

[enchanted]

7 hours ago, Rishabh R said:

I prefer Models by Mark Manson and Dating essentials for men by Dr.Robert Glover. 😁

Glad you enjoyed it. 

[enchanted]

7 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

I looked up this Deida guy recently out of curiosity because I hear his name mentioned here, and in the first video I see,

Thanks for the reply and interest in this topic. 

Look into his work a little deeper. And try not to base your opinion on the first short video you see. That's not real research and not the way if the Superior Man.

The truth is "the way of the Superior man" is a profound book that can greatly improve a man's relationship to women and the world. It comes from a solid tier 2 perspective and is probably the reason why Leo recommends reading it too.  

If you aren't struggling and have a great/fulfilling relationship then I am happy for you, but if not, seriously consider reading or listening to "the way of the Superior Man"

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[enchanted]

4 hours ago, Osaid said:

Wow that's so manipulative and evil, helping your partner blossom into having an awesome life. But I guess you gotta do what you gotta do.  ̄\_(ツ)_/ ̄ 

Lol thanks for the great comment. Manipulatation is only evil if it's used for evil. I think we all manipulate people - some people manipulate for mutually productive reasons while others for harmful and selfish reasons. 

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[enchanted]

7 hours ago, LordFall said:

@Sugarcoat Seems quite profound to me. It talks about the inherent blindspots we have towards our ego, insecurities, addictions and weaknesses that can paradoxically seem obvious to others. It's definitely not a normie thing to be highly skilled at introspection. 

 

Glad you like Deida too. Way of the Superior Man is one the most profound audiobooks for men on relationships that I have ever read. It greatly improved my life.