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Starting a 30 day challenge

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Immersion challenges are one of the top ways to make drastic improvement in a short time. I've always wanted to do a full on 30 day challenge but always procrastinated it. Ideally I wanted to wait to be a full on digital nomad with business income so I could do it stress free but I just moved to Montreal and the women are gorgeous here so I figured might as well start the process now. 

I'm gonna do this newbie starter variation from the GirlsChase forum since my cold approach is rusty and go from there. I like his idea that he presents in his blog here where overall all you need is to talk to 4 new women daily to overhaul your dating life in 30 days. 

https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/newbie-assignment.34/

https://www.girlschase.com/content/can-you-approach-4-girls-day-30-days

My personal weakness when it comes to this stuff is I tend to overationalize(I'm an INTP) and avoid talking to the women I truly want. I've been on a few years monk mode working on levelling up myself outside of dating so now I think is a good time to bring it back. 

I did day 4 of the challenge yesterday which was saying Hi to 6 women. I did about 8, felt good. There was a habs games yesterday with a lot of women wearing hockey jerseys so I used that as a crutch to do a few opens that worked probably the best, goes to show the power of rapport. Already a lot of lessons from the simple saying hi challenge, for example when walking around one of the best opportunities is stopping at street lights. I thought it would be really awkward because if it goes bad you both have to stand awkwardly and wait for the light to turn green but I did it it once and it wasn't that bad. I told this girl wearing a cool outfit that I liked her style and she said thank you; if anything I should've kept the conversation going since she smiled and gave me an IoI(played with her hair afterwards) but I'm trying to not pressure myself too much early on since that tends to loop me back into overthinking. 

I encourage everyone in the forum looking to actually change their dating life to do the same challenge. I see a lot of questions asked where it's obvious that taking action is the main answer. I'm gonna document the results in my obsidian notes, might share it as well in the journal section of the forum if there's interest in learning from my experiences. 


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