Men aren't approaching women anymore

[Julian gabriel]

if u approach women enough in person with the intention to get close to them they will curse you with their jealousy at your confidence in yourself to approach random beauty, 

women make themselves beautiful because they want to be desired, but still do not put in effort to initiate anything usually 

this lack of leadership on their part leads to them having penis envy 

i feel like most women want to cut my dick off

[Joseph Maynor]

If you don't approach that is the number one problem.  

[Rishabh R]

9 hours ago, Joseph Maynor said:

If you don't approach that is the number one problem.  

Do you mean cold approach or social circle approach ? 

[enchanted]

On 03/06/2026 at 7:21 PM, Basman said:

That's kind of the crux of the issue. I don't think cold approaching has ever really been that common. Everyone I know who's been in a relationship has been through social circle, including the older people I know.

Yes exactly 

[enchanted]

How's this for cold approach?

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZVgAYtTAN4/

[LordFall]

Woman approaching their dream guy and putting a lot of effort making the first move = a quick 1 second glance lol

 

[gengar]

On 5/23/2026 at 6:50 PM, enchanted said:

Why Men Don’t Approach Women Anymore | by Katya Koval | Medium https://share.google/x302jnGOZ3VsWI4JC

This is a good article discussing the topic.

Due to online dating and the increasing fear of being implicated in the #metoo movement, men are approaching women at record low numbers. 

This is great news because any man that has the temerity to persue women he's interested has the lowest amount of competition ever in history. 

Its not about metoo fear, women have simply decided to reject most men and return to their prehistoric hypergamous nature.

https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/politics-and-the-life-sciences/article/toward-individualistic-reproduction-solving-the-fertility-crisis-could-require-a-further-marginalization-of-men/F26A4750B666344157278B72CFC5D223