The Brutality of Dating & Broken Illusions

[TheGod]

9 hours ago, ted73104 said:

I'm curious, what type of girl or woman is most attractive to you right now?

I like Latinas because I vibe with them emotionally very well mostly.

[Elliott]

2 minutes ago, TheGod said:

I like Latinas because I vibe with them emotionally very well mostly.

That's a race, not a type

Edited 3 hours ago by Elliott

[TheGod]

8 hours ago, something_else said:

People here are being harsh on you. You do not need to completely sacrifice your authentic sensitive self to be attractive to woman. I actually respect how open you are about yourself, it is a very masculine trait to fully express yourself as you are without hiding anything and without giving much of a fuck about what people think.

Being sensitive and emotionally aware is a massive asset when combined with other indicators of masculine strength. This BS that no women like sensitive men is an idea you have been programmed with by pickup. Many women like sensitive and emotionally intelligent men (just look at the lead male characters in romcoms, usually they are very emotionally intelligent) but you do also need to be confident, strong, and socially capable on top of that as well.

Emotionally aware but shy/awkward dude < Confident asshole < Confident emotionally aware dude

But also be selective about the woman you go after as well. The (for lack of a better term) basic girls are more likely to go after the asshole archetypes. Smarter girls with a bit more depth, college educated women etc. will all absolutely love you for being in touch with your emotional side.

People who are being harsh on me here are just insecure boys who are projecting out their cultural and personal programming on me and make a lot of assumptions. These boys wouldn’t be able to confront me in real life anyways so I don’t bother arguing with them  
I am glad that there are men like you who understand what the real strength and authenticity is in a man.

 

[TheGod]

6 minutes ago, Elliott said:

That's a race, not a type

The type I am attracted to is mostly found in this race, compared to other races and nationalities