How to help calm her nerves?

[theleelajoker]

9 hours ago, Hasson_Miah said:

Nooo! I am currently scared of being that intimate with a woman because I don't have my own place and my own car.

Ok. 

So, honestly the best way to calm someone else is in my experience exactly what @Ramasta9 said: 

Be calm yourself. Co-regulation works. Being calm without any intention about what the other person should do, no expectations. Just calm, accepting, loving, open presence. 

Edited 7 hours ago by theleelajoker