inner group psychology

[Shermaningeorgia]

i've come to a realisation. i feel most nay all hot ladies have an inner haughty psychological schema.

i don't believe any person or group is better. the seasons to like hot ladies "more" is shallow and thin. It's just down to sex. we don't need to reprdocue with hot ladies. it's not required from an evolutionary standpoint. 

i don't look up to any group. is there a reason I should, or anybody else? Should one look up to Catholics, Protestants, men, women, straights, gays, Muslims, dog lovers, nurses, teachers, Madridistas, or Mongolians? Why or why not? They're all random groups who are not all alike. 

Somebody tell me WHY I must look up to hot ladies. why? reason to me like an adult/man why I should. Convince me why i MUST. 

 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Shermaningeorgia you do not have to look up to them. 

Your issue is you judge them and put them down for things outside their control. 

 

[Joshe]

I was actually just fleshing out an insight regarding perception, using people in cars in traffic to illustrate how what we see visually obscures what's actually there. 

It goes something like this:

"Imagine you're driving in traffic. You look around and all you see are cars — a sedan, an SUV, a big semi-truck. You don't really see the people inside them. Logically you know there's a person in each one, but your visual experience is dominated by the vehicle. The car becomes the thing.

Now imagine a big semi-truck cuts you off. You feel intimidated, maybe angry — and without thinking, you've already built a mental image of the person behind the wheel. Probably some big aggressive guy. Then the truck pulls over and a 5'2 skinny dude hops out. You're surprised. Why? Because your brain assigned the properties of the container to the person inside it.

Now imagine the tops and sides of every car on the road suddenly disappeared. All you'd see is a bunch of regular human beings sitting in chairs, gripping steering wheels, spaced out in rows — not interacting, just sitting there. The whole scene would look kind of absurd. But nothing actually changed. You just removed the layer that was distorting your perception.

Now go one step further. Remove the skin. Now all you see is muscle and bone. And suddenly everyone looks the same — the person from the truck, the person from the little sedan, all of them. The differences that seemed so significant vanished because they only existed on the outermost surface.

That's what's happening with hot girls. Beauty is the car. It's a surface layer that dominates your visual experience so completely that it replaces the actual person in your mind. You're not 'looking up to' them — your perception is being hijacked by the outermost layer, the same way the semi-truck hijacks your perception of the driver.

You don't need to fight it or be angry about it. You just need to see it for what it is — an incomplete perception, not a hierarchy."

Surface layers are real, but they are just a fraction of the whole story. 

1. The mind compresses reality into usable symbols.
2. The most salient symbol often becomes the operative agent.
3. Projection fills in missing depth.
4. The symbol replaces the underlying complexity.

Edited Wednesday at 09:37 PM by Joshe

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

Seems like you are trying to convince and brainwash yourself in yet another pathetic attempt to deny what is true, normal, natural and inevitable; that hot people will very likely have higher social status than you and will be more sought after, especially women; you would refer to anyone with a normal thinking as being in a temple, yet when you are trying to deny normalcy and biology, in a typical imbecilic manner, thinking all groups should be viewed equally, that's not a temple thinking. LMFAO what happened, are you seeing pro MAGA hot women, or hot women acting innapropriately towards you, so now you are throwing these hissy fits? There are women who'll act all sorts of ways towards you and stand for all sorts of things, so just deal with it. Also, let's be honest, beggars can't be choosers lmfao

[Rishabh R]

@Shermaningeorgia You must not look up to hot women and stop putting them up on the pedestal. There's one thing you can do :Learn from them. You can learn from them that despite having good looks and many guys wanting to be with them they ( hot women ) suffer from natural ebbs and flows of life.Everybody is suffering no matter how good they look externally.

People are themselves when they are alone, not in a group.Since, we have to walk our paths by ourselves the hot women have their own inner struggles in life going on.

[Shermaningeorgia]

On 13/02/2026 at 10:07 AM, Rishabh R said:

@Shermaningeorgia You must not look up to hot women and stop putting them up on the pedestal. There's one thing you can do :Learn from them. You can learn from them that despite having good looks and many guys wanting to be with them they ( hot women ) suffer from natural ebbs and flows of life.Everybody is suffering no matter how good they look externally.

People are themselves when they are alone, not in a group.Since, we have to walk our paths by ourselves the hot women have their own inner struggles in life going on.

Indian goofy language. I dont take kindly to that. Should I? I won't.

[Shermaningeorgia]

On 11/02/2026 at 1:44 PM, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@Shermaningeorgia you do not have to look up to them. 

Your issue is you judge them and put them down for things outside their control. 

 

It's what they deserve. tell me why i must look up to them or anybody else? and they judge others. who the fuck are they then to not expet it back? 

[Shermaningeorgia]

And yes, I stand that hot bitches aren't special. Why not? Are rich people special? No difference in my eyes. Look at Epstein. he was rich. Trump is rich. Plenty of people dislike him a lot despite him being POTUS and winningthe election. 

I bet if i had a mind-reading probe, I'd read a streak of evil in all hotties universally. and that newdickontheblock who follows me aroudn since he's clueless will tell me others cannot fight back, ever hahahahaa. 

 

 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

@Shermaningeorgia Literaly don't give a shit about what you have to say about me, keep on blabbering about the same garbage and I will continue to make fun of you and your "points" lmfao since your characteristic of me is a  complete miss, why would I give any weight whatsoever about what you say about me, I mean, you explain that LOL I'm just pointing out that you are projecting your personal bitterness about hot women and try to posture as somehow morally superior over them when it's clear it's just your subjective garbage and bitterness. Not saying that I can't understand that to some degree, but I don't go around constantly crying about it LOL I'd actually wager that most hot women are actually fairly inteligent and good people. Not equivalent to rich people at all, because having money gives you MUCH more power than hot looks do, especially in this current society. Much, much more power

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Shermaningeorgia

10 hours ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

It's what they deserve.

This is bigotry and discrimination. Very corrosive to your wellbeing.