inner group psychology

[Shermaningeorgia]

i've come to a realisation. i feel most nay all hot ladies have an inner haughty psychological schema.

i don't believe any person or group is better. the seasons to like hot ladies "more" is shallow and thin. It's just down to sex. we don't need to reprdocue with hot ladies. it's not required from an evolutionary standpoint. 

i don't look up to any group. is there a reason I should, or anybody else? Should one look up to Catholics, Protestants, men, women, straights, gays, Muslims, dog lovers, nurses, teachers, Madridistas, or Mongolians? Why or why not? They're all random groups who are not all alike. 

Somebody tell me WHY I must look up to hot ladies. why? reason to me like an adult/man why I should. Convince me why i MUST. 

 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Shermaningeorgia you do not have to look up to them. 

Your issue is you judge them and put them down for things outside their control. 

 

[Joshe]

I was actually just fleshing out an insight regarding perception, using people in cars in traffic to illustrate how what we see visually obscures what's actually there. 

It goes something like this:

"Imagine you're driving in traffic. You look around and all you see are cars — a sedan, an SUV, a big semi-truck. You don't really see the people inside them. Logically you know there's a person in each one, but your visual experience is dominated by the vehicle. The car becomes the thing.

Now imagine a big semi-truck cuts you off. You feel intimidated, maybe angry — and without thinking, you've already built a mental image of the person behind the wheel. Probably some big aggressive guy. Then the truck pulls over and a 5'2 skinny dude hops out. You're surprised. Why? Because your brain assigned the properties of the container to the person inside it.

Now imagine the tops and sides of every car on the road suddenly disappeared. All you'd see is a bunch of regular human beings sitting in chairs, gripping steering wheels, spaced out in rows — not interacting, just sitting there. The whole scene would look kind of absurd. But nothing actually changed. You just removed the layer that was distorting your perception.

Now go one step further. Remove the skin. Now all you see is muscle and bone. And suddenly everyone looks the same — the person from the truck, the person from the little sedan, all of them. The differences that seemed so significant vanished because they only existed on the outermost surface.

That's what's happening with hot girls. Beauty is the car. It's a surface layer that dominates your visual experience so completely that it replaces the actual person in your mind. You're not 'looking up to' them — your perception is being hijacked by the outermost layer, the same way the semi-truck hijacks your perception of the driver.

You don't need to fight it or be angry about it. You just need to see it for what it is — an incomplete perception, not a hierarchy."

Surface layers are real, but they are just a fraction of the whole story. 

1. The mind compresses reality into usable symbols.
2. The most salient symbol often becomes the operative agent.
3. Projection fills in missing depth.
4. The symbol replaces the underlying complexity.

Edited 7 hours ago by Joshe