Jannes

TRIGGER WARNING, Uncomfortable experience about Dating

64 posts in this topic

1 minute ago, Joshe said:

Of course, but I was zooming in on women. 

The topic makes me wonder if technology / social is retarding maturity.


It is far easier to fool someone, than to convince them they have been fooled.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Another factor is her perception of the guy's status and achievement in society. A man with material wealth and/or who is desired by many women doesn't have to work as hard to keep girls from cheating. Johnny Depp's girlfriend will swallow a lot more neglect and mistreatment than should would from a normal guy.


"It is of no avail to fret and fume and chafe at the chains which bind you; you must know why and how you are bound. " - James Allen 

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
15 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

The topic makes me wonder if technology / social is retarding maturity.

And/or maybe just making it more visible? Increased awareness/knowledge of the opposite sex has came online. 20yr old males these days have a ton of knowledge they can access. We didn't really have that growing up. If we did, I think we'd have been just as immature with it. When you get cheated on these days, you can easily find half-truth content that makes you feel better at the expense of the whole truth. This wasn't available in such abundance when I was coming up.

I'm not sure if it leads to more or less immaturity after the dust settles. It would be different for everybody. I think more conscious individuals will eventually see their errors, as is typically the case with more conscious people, and less conscious people will continue to ignore their errors, same as always. 

It just seems like humanity on the whole is going through necessary adolescent challenges and eventually will grow out of it. Maybe in several hundred years or something. 

Edited by Joshe

"It is of no avail to fret and fume and chafe at the chains which bind you; you must know why and how you are bound. " - James Allen 

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
6 minutes ago, Joshe said:

and less conscious people will continue to ignore their errors, same as always.

Aka, majority of people :D


Connect with me on Instagram: instagram.com/miguetran

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!


Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.


Sign In Now