What did I do wrong with her.

[jacknine119]

[jacknine119]

I thought it was 100% date but today she even didn't text me. I felt very bad. I already booked place but rejected in a very rude way:(

Edited Wednesday at 06:06 PM by jacknine119

[theleelajoker]

Don't ask why. You just make up stories that are a misinterpretation of reality. 

Marcus Aurelius put it nicely: "Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth."

Go for direct experience.

Ask: What is good about it? How can I use this experience to my benefit? What do I do with it? What feeling does this experience cause in my body?

Don't look for explanations, go for experience and action. 

Have Fun.

 

[Kid A]

17 hours ago, jacknine119 said:

You didn’t specify a time, only a day. I’m not sure why, but all women are unforgiving when it comes to this. At least that’s my experience. You won’t believe how many times this has happened to me.

[Kid A]

Those who claim that women’s attraction is all about looks are, of course, guys with zero experience. If they had any, they would know how ridiculously little it takes for a woman to lose interest in you even though she finds your looks acceptable, which this is a perfect example of.

[meta_male]

1 hour ago, Kid A said:

You didn’t specify a time, only a day.

This. Set a date and then get off the phone. No relationship vibes like "how did you sleep" etc., girls get that all the time from guys, it's a weak frame.

Only text with intent. 

Edited 22 hours ago by meta_male

[jacknine119]

@Kid A how can you tell exact time and place 2 days before. I texted how did you sleep because after follow time and location. I don't know your experiences but  it means she is not interested. By the way she texted me today morning: I slept well. Thank you. What about you?  And ofc I seen and ignored her because she is bitch

[jacknine119]

@meta_male @Kid A Bro I texted that as conversation starter

[Kid A]

26 minutes ago, jacknine119 said:

@Kid A how can you tell exact time and place 2 days before.

«Do you wanna go to (place) at (time) on (day)?»

It’s not that hard.

[Kid A]

I actually remember asking my ex about this phenomenon. She said that if you suggest a day but not a time, it comes across as very indecisive, wishy-washy, and simply unmanly. I bet that’s the main explanation and it’s actually kind of hard to argue.

Edited 12 hours ago by Kid A

[Hojo]

'Easy to talk to unlike others'

Her ' i talk to everyone even the people others don't get along with'

It also has nothing to do with this. If this is the same person you were talking about having sex with thats why. The simulation will fuck you like I said. The interaction is meaningless if you aren't focused on the moment the simulation will fuck you over.

The daydream about doing things with people that isn't happening is the what caused this.

You get excited the simulation says well I know how to yet him upset.

What you did wrong? You showed the dream your weakness. Now it gets to farm your misery.

Saying the person is easy to talk unlike others insnt a compliment for the woman. Its an insult towards yourself. The woman will instantly pick up on this.

Edited 11 hours ago by Hojo

[Hojo]

15 minutes ago, Kid A said:

I actually remember asking my ex about this phenomenon. She said that if you suggest a day but not a time, it comes across as very indecisive, wishy-washy, and simply unmanly. I bet that’s the main explanation and it’s actually kind of hard to argue.

The contradiction is its the woman thats being wishy washy. This argument is BS. Setting a day but not a time is not wishy washy. Ghosting after setting a date is. If you blame yourself for this bs you let yourself get mind fucked.

Edited 11 hours ago by Hojo

[meta_male]

2 hours ago, jacknine119 said:

Bro I texted that as conversation starter

There is no need for conversations via text. Next time call the girl and make plans.

Edited 10 hours ago by meta_male

[Nick_98]

You didn’t do anything wrong stop overthinking it. It’s a volume game, the more you find leads the more likely one is going to go on a date with you. Don’t stress yourself No reason. 
 

if a girl is really into you you could text her Fuck you and she will still go out on a date with you

Edited 6 hours ago by Nick_98

[Kid A]

8 hours ago, Hojo said:

Setting a day but not a time is not wishy washy.

Women seem to think it is, and I can confirm through a double-digit number of cases that they lose interest every single time it happens. You’re of course free to hate it and think it’s unfair as much as you want. Dating is unfair as hell, since we are generally much more attracted to women than they are to us.

But really, what’s the excuse for not setting a time when you’re setting a day? At some point you’ll need to set a time anyway, and do you really need to wait until that day to decide whether the date is happening in the morning or in the evening?

[theleelajoker]

Guys, I used to think and act like you.. trying to figure out keys to interaction and dating etc, analyzing, planning and so on.

Over time I came to the conclusion that my smart analysis and experiences in external reality is mostly just unconscious projection.

Reading through the analysis why particular women (or men) do this or that or don't is now a source of entertainment for me. Nothing more than that.

To quote Marcus Aurelius:

"Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth"

Edited 2 hours ago by theleelajoker

[Kid A]

3 hours ago, Nick_98 said:

You didn’t do anything wrong stop overthinking it. It’s a volume game, the more you find leads the more likely one is going to go on a date with you. Don’t stress yourself No reason. 
 

if a girl is really into you you could text her Fuck you and she will still go out on a date with you

Well, the reality is that they usually aren’t very very attracted to you if you’re going on a first date with them through cold approach or online dating for example. I’m really experienced when it comes to losing dates and I can tell you that no method is more effective than setting a day and not a time!

[meta_male]

2 hours ago, theleelajoker said:

Over time I came to the conclusion that my smart analysis and experiences in external reality is mostly just unconscious projection.

Exactly.
She replies politely, is waiting for the next step and instead of leading he goes “fuck this!”