As you become more evolved - is it harder to connect and build relationships?

[Joseph Maynor]

9 hours ago, Dima said:

Agree on that physical interaction is needed.. True empathy can show up only IRL..
But also what makes a relationship deep and sustainable - alignment in values, worldview etc.. Physical attraction is good, but not enough..

Deep and sustainable just depends on vibe or what you might say how you click.  But you can broaden who you relate with so that it includes many more people than you vibe or click with, but this requires conscious intent to be more like this.  But draw the line at people who want to disrespect or shame you too much.  Love doesn't require anyone to be a glutton for punishment. 

[Monke]

@Miguel1

On 1/13/2026 at 3:05 PM, Miguel1 said:

Easier to understand people, sure. But it turns into a game of acting where I pretend to relate with their worldview.

Spot on. I call this "playing the character of yourself" rather than acting. But same thing basically. 

[Dima]

14 minutes ago, Monke said:

@Miguel1

Spot on. I call this "playing the character of yourself" rather than acting. But same thing basically. 

On 15.01.2026 at 3:08 AM, Ramasta9 said:

Go outside, travel, follow the synchronicity and flow of your vibration and you will attract that which you are radiating out  

I think you don't need to pretend.. You can just understand them and show it. But not necessary you can agree with teir worldview.. It's just their perspective, it's not even that it can be wrong - it's just a perspective..

[Miguel1]

20 minutes ago, Dima said:

I think you don't need to pretend.. You can just understand them and show it. But not necessary you can agree with teir worldview.. It's just their perspective, it's not even that it can be wrong - it's just a perspective..

You would be disagreeing with too many things if you were honest and authentic.

[Dima]

41 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

You would be disagreeing with too many things if you were honest and authentic.

true. But do you need to tell about it to them?  

[Miguel1]

14 minutes ago, Dima said:

true. But do you need to tell about it to them?  

Then what is that but acting / having a character where you don’t tell your honest opinions but hide them?

[Dima]

5 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

Then what is that but acting / having a character where you don’t tell your honest opinions but hide them?

it's not hiding.. One of the key 'features' of being tier 2 - you realize that your perspective even if it includes other perspectives is still a perspective.
And any other perspective isn't 'better or worse' and you can respect it. People can be ignorant but they are still people. 
You can say that you have a different opinion if they ask - it's not pretending or hiding.

Edited 3 hours ago by Dima

[Miguel1]

Again, you can understand where they are coming from, but not connect with them.

That’s the whole point here. You can understand a stage red terrorist, but have zero emotional connection, nor any connection to them.