Optionality and Sexuality

[AION]

I have high testosterone and I started noticing I’m getting annoyed at myself wanting to fuck every hot girl I’m seeing. 

Having a gf is not a solution either because even if you get that prime piece, it gets boring after a while in the same way your favorite meal is boring after a while.  

I stopped dating at this moment and I can’t be bothered. And the thing is when you have this aura of I can’t get bothered. That seems very attractive to girls and I get more attention that I don’t want. 

The universe is designed ass backwards. Like a guy who stuck his head up his own ass. Everything is counter intuitive. 

If you are hungry you don’t get fed. If you are not hungry they want to feed you. 

While if you are a women you get fed either way and hence the pickinesses. 

To really understand women you have to get in their head in the same way you get in the head of your enemy in a game of chess. At that point the game is over. 

Women are picky because they have options. The option gives them power… so the solution is create this optionality for yourself and never give it up.  The weird thing is that women have this sixth sense whether or not you are good on the sexual and dating market. So never do things to lower your market value. Keep going to the gym, work on your LP, prioritize your conscious development. And don’t give your attention away for free.

Attention is the master key guys. Be careful to what you give your attention. Prioritize your attention and funnel it into high ROI actions. Your attention should not be free. Don’t help women just because they are women. They are equals to us. At this point you gain respect your time and start making some power moves.

Mask on. Mask off.

I’m out.

 

Edited 2 hours ago by AION

[Schizophonia]

@AION There are no women; women are you in denial like everything else.

It's not that the universe is wired backwards, it's that you are in denial of what you feel (for example a woman is annoying you) and so this is reflected outwardly; you tell yourself that this woman unfairly ghosted you, friend-zoned you etc but in reality it was you who wasn't interested.

Which makes sense; a relationship is a two-way street, so why would you be interested in and develop an attachment to someone who isn't even there?

And it's in denial because you approach girls as social proof rather than out of desire; because you don't have that much desire and it's experienced as a castration, hence the precision of the a bit ridiculous thing of  "I have a lot of testosterone/libido" eh; for fear of appearing weak/castrated.

That's why people who have problems with women often have few or no friends; if you really desire women you will also want to have male friends, otherwise it's further proof that it's not desire that motivates interaction with women.

The lack of genuine desire in men, the lack of romantic/sexual success stems from an over-inclination to suppress castration anxiety; this is why red/blackpill videos can be appealing,  they make you sour and angry yes, they even feminizing without going into details, but they suppress "masculine" pain.

Masculinie strengh and in fine the polarization/manifestation of women emerge when you suppress negative/self-limiting thoughts, because they are lowkey the mechanism by which you eliminate this anxiety.

Depending on your belief system, you will feel a "pain" in your heart; this is castration anxiety; but by surrendering to this mechanism, you will naturally become a social leader and more magnetic.

Bitterness/frustration is the feminizing way of coping with a non ideal belief system/reality. A tight heart, pounding hard as you push forward anyway, is the masculinizing way of coping; hence, certainly, the prevalence of heart problems in men; of course ideally one shouldn't be so stressed.

 

Edited 1 hour ago by Schizophonia

[Hojo]

Just give up, sex is like eating, look how stressed you are looking for food. Your gunna want it again right after. And then after that and then after that and then after that. You will be continuously stressing your system out. Its not worth it, if food comes eat.

Everytime you check a woman out you are stressing your system out.

Whenever your mind starts to think about wanting to fuck a woman just in your mind give her a partner thats not you and say this woman is a beautiful child of God.

Edited 58 minutes ago by Hojo

[AION]

@Schizophonia I have a lot of friends though and I do get dates, just not the quality I want. Have you ever dated and put your theories into practice

1 minute ago, Hojo said:

Just give up, sex is like eating, look how stressed you are looking for food. Your gunna want it again right after. And then after that and then after that and then after that. You will be continuously stressing your system out. Its not worth it, if food comes eat.

Everytime you check a woman out you are stressing your system out.

I can't stop being hungry though, sexual transmutation only works a little

[Hojo]

@AIONYou cant stop being hungry ever! Just give it up. Even if you got it again you will want it again. The route of looking for it will just stress you out. You can take the holy road or the hungry road. You need to change your thought patterns that are not working.

Looking for it dosent change the fact whether you are hungry or not. But you are stressing yourself out over it with the thought patterns of searching for it.

Edited 52 minutes ago by Hojo

[Hojo]

@AIONYou can find a woman and have sex with her 3000 times and you will still be hungry. Its not about the sex.

Edited 50 minutes ago by Hojo