Reality Transurfing Mega-Thread

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Principle 29 - World, Give Yourself To Me

Statement

When you want something from the world, do not force it to give it to you. What will get reflected by the mirror, if a capricious child jumps in front of it: "I want it! Give it to me!"?

The principle is very simple: if you want the reflection in the mirror of the world to go towards you, take the first step. Quit your intention to receive and replace it with the intention to give - then you will receive that which you quitted.

Interpretation

Want to get recognition and respect from someone? Do not insist on this. You have to respect the other person, so that he/ she start feeling important in your eyes.

Need sympathy and gratitude? Do not search for them. Be sincerely concerned and involved in the problems of the others.

You strive to receive sympathy? You will not get it because of your beautiful eyes. You yourself should show sympathy for someone, and then you will become sympathetic to that person too. Need help and support? You should help others too.

This will increase your significance and the other people wouldn't want to be less significant than you, and will show gratitude to you.

Finally, you want a mutual love? Give up the right of ownership and the relationship based on dependency. This will happen if you just love, without relying on getting something. Such love is very rare, no one can resist before it. In all these cases, you will surely get that wich you quit wanting,

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Principle 30 - I Give Myself To You, World

Statement

Usually a person is wholly absorbed in thoughts of what (s)he wants to get from the others, but doesn't try to understand what they want. When you switch your attention to the desires and motives of other people, you will easily get what you want. For this purpose, you only to have to define what is the direction of the internal intention of a partner. Whenever you need to get something from someone else, to win his/ her sympathy, or make him/ her do something, ask yourself: what does (s)he want, what moves this person, for what does (s)he care about? Direct your actions towards realization of the intentions of the partner and (s)he will gladly pay you back.

Interpretation

Anyway, all problems are born from contradiction between the internal intentions of people. One wants something from the other, guided by his/ her own interests. In turn, the other thinks otherwise and wants to achieve his/ her objectives. Use the inner intention of people to achieve your own goals.

The core of the internal intention is the sense of self-importance of the person. After their own life, people value most of all the feeling of significance. Transfer your attention from yourself, to the people. Stop playing the game of increasing your own significance. Play the game of increasing the significance of others.

To draw attention to you, it is enough to be interested in others. Talk to people not about what interests you, but what interests them, including themselves. Your partner is least interested in your qualities and flaws. First of all he/ she likes the feeling of self-importance that he/ she receives from communicating with you.

How to make someone do something? Give the person a task related to increasing his/ her significance and the person will want to do it.

 

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Principle 31 - The Mussel Response

Statement

When there is an occasion, one readily expresses his/ her attitude in the form of discontent, but the nice things get accepted almost indifferently, as if so it should be. We do this unconsciously, reacting as mussels, by the habit Now, rise up a step above the mussel, wake up and use the advantage to express your attitude consciously: "With my intention, I choose the colors of my reality. Regardless of the circumstances 1 tune myself big time. I do it consciously, not as a primitive reaction to external stimulus"... By managing your thoughts, you control reality. Otherwise it controls you.

Interpretation

Tendency to negativism constantly forms new unattractive features in the mirror. The individual layers of the world turn into dark tones and are filled with unpleasant events for its owner. When someone is despondent, respectively, the clouds in the mirror thicken. And if that person gets into aggressive mood, the world immediately bristles in response.

Note: when you quarrel with someone or sharply express your discontent, other unpleasant things are sure to follow. And the more upset you become, the more consistently new troubles will occur - everyone around will begin to annoy you. It is about what you think. Whether you like the reflection or not, it is as if you're thinking: "Oh, go away" or "How tired I am". Only the content of your thoughts is relevant

Everything compliant with the content of the image begins to dominate in the reflection. But when you take under control the feelings that keep you attached to the reflection, you are freed from the mirror. You should not suppress your emotions - they are only a consequence of the attitude. You need to change the attitude itself - the way you react to reality and perceive it.

When you get the freedom, you will also get the ability to form the reflection you need.

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Principle 32 - The Intention Of The Creator

Statement

When according to your own will, you announce every event, or circumstance as a favorable one from which you benefit, this is not a reliance on the goodwill of the world that cares for you because it loves you. This is not a confidence that can be shaken by circumstances at any moment. This is not conceit, based on blind faith in success. And this is not even optimism as a trait of character. This is the intention of The Creator.

You, yourself form the layer of your world - you create your reality. You are the Creator of Your Reality, when you are able to "move'' and at the same time give freedom of movement to the world too.

Interpretation

The Creator is more an observer than an active agent. What distinguishes his intention is not obedience, but allowance. Looking in the mirror, you should move not the reflection but the image itself - the attitude and direction of your thoughts. In other words, to "move yourself rather than trying to capture the reflection.

If you think that the intention means a decisive attitude to request from the world what you allegedly have the right to have, you will get nothing. And if you ask the world to give you what you want, you will get nothing again. All you need to do, is to give your order and allow the world to do it. Usualy, you simply do not allow the world to do it, and you pray, you are afraid and you are in doubt. In this case, the world also wants something - it prays, it fears and is in doubt, absolutely flawlessly reflecting your attitude, because it is a mirror.

You need to feel it. Let the world at will; allowint to do the work for you, starting from now on. This is a tentative and ephemeral attitude, it passes quickly, but you must catch it. Imagine for a moment something amazing: the hostile, problematic, difficult and uncomfortable world suddenly becomes happy and comfortable for you. You let it be so. You decide. The secret of power lies in releasing your grip.

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Principle 33 - The Rules Of The Pendulum

Statement

The rule of the pendulum is, "Do as 1 do." That means: change yourself, betray yourself and follow the conventional stereotypes. In an effort to meet the standard of other people's success, one loses himself and is deeply unhappy because it is simply impossible to meet all standards, and it is not necessary to do so. Do not be afraid to break the rule of the pendulum. You alone establish your standards.

Whoever violates the rule of the pendulum, becomes either a leader or a maverick. Some become stars, others are rejected by society. The difference between the former and the other is that the former are convinced that they have every right to violate the rule of the pendulum, while the second group is not sure of this. Get hold of your rights.

Interpretation

The rule of the pendulum sets standards of behavior and thinking, i.e. standards of "normality." One never understands that (s)he was offered a fake imitation of success. The success of others can never serve as an example for a role model. True success is achieved only by those who dare to violate the rule and go on their own way. Walking other people's steps, one is doomed forever to catch the setting sun. Standards for success are a mirage, but one does not know or does not want to know that the rule of the pendulum keeps him/ her in the web of illusions.

Illusion is often sweeter, more comfortable, more understandable than the unknown reality. But if you already have a certain position in the Pendulum structure, you should not confront it, it's not about getting completely rid of all the pendulums - this is hardly possible. The main thing is not to be a puppet and to act consciously, to use the structure to your own interest.

Strive to establish new rules of your own, without breaking the old rules of the structure.

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Principle 34 - The Rules Of Transurfing

Statement

Decline the pendulum rule - "do as 1 do", and replace it with the transurfing rule: "Allow yourself to be yourself, and aliow the others to be themselves."

Allowing yourself to be yourself means to accept yourself with all your imperfections. To allow the others to be themselves, means to free them the projections of your expectations.

This universal rule allows you to have inner freedom and to throw out of your life a mass of various problems.

Interpretation

Do not think about why the transurfing rule works. Just follow it.

Whenever you encounter a problem situation, ask yourself: what should I do in order to follow the Transurfing rules?

This will allow you to solve many issues at once: to find internal support (credo), to get rid of complexes of guilt and inferiority, to feel confident, to avoid many conflicts and disappointments, to fix the tangled interpersonal conflicts, and finally to find your way.

The rule of transurfing is the dignity of the kings.

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Principle 35 - Reducing The Importance

Statement

All non-balanced reactions and emotions - resentment, dissatisfaction, frustration, anxiety, agitation, depression, confusion, despair, fear, pity, affection, desire, tenderness, idealization, worship, admiration, disappointment, pride, arrogance, contempt, disgust, offense and so on - are the result of the increased importance of things.

Pendulums fasten you with these strings and you become a puppet. To reduce the importance doesn’t mean to fight with your feelings and to try to suppress them. You must remove the cause - your attitude. You need to realize that importance will bring you nothing but problems, and then intentionally decrease it.

Interpretation

Problems as such do not exist - there exists only artificially increased importance of things. When one realizes this illusive nature of the problems, one can consciously reduce the importance of everything that does not give rest to him/ her. Note: Not to underestimate it but to reduce the importance. To look at the game from aside, in a sober and impartial manner.

Once reducing the importance, you will immediately enter a balanced state, and the pendulum will not be able to establish control over you, simply because there is nothing to be trapped. This does not mean that we should become a graven image. Feelings and emotions are born from the attitude, that's why you have to change it. Feelings and emotions are a consequence. And the reason is one - the importance. Suppose that one of my close people, have died or have a wedding or an important event. Is that important to me? No. Am I indifferent? Also no. Do you get the difference?

The strong deviation towards the external significance gives birth to fanatics, and the deviation towards the internal importance - to idiots.

 

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Principle 36 - Stop The Fight

Statement

The world as a mirror reflects your attitude towards it. When you are not satisfied with it, it turns its back towards you. When you fight it, it fights you back. When you stop fighting, the world comes towards you. If you just allow yourself to have that which you have in mind, external intention will find a way to give it to you

And then one day something will happen that others will call a miracle. You desperately want to achieve your goal, aren't you? Stop wishing, you'll anyway get what is yours. Just think that you are taking what is yours. Take it easy, without wanting or insisting: "I want it, so where is the problem? That means that 1 will have it..."

Interpretation

Pendulums enforce a completely different scenario onto you, forcing you to fight to achieve your goals. To do this, you must declare war to yourself and the world. Pendulums suggest to you that you are not perfect, so you will not achieve your goal until you change yourself. And when you change yourself, you need to engage in the battle for a place under the sun.

This whole scenario pursues a single goal - to take energy out of you and to push you into the matrix. Struggling with yourself, you give energy to the pendulum. Struggling with the world, you do the same. Nobody can force you to fight. But you have no other choice until you are filled with internal and external importance. If you are unable to get something and to afford to have it now, postpone it for later. But postponement leads to each moment in life being seen as a preparation for a better future. One is always dissatisfied with the present and is comforted by the hope for near future improvement In this respect, the future never comes and constantly looms elsewhere. With the same success you can try to catch a sunset. Allow yourself have it here and now.

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Principle 37 - Coordination Of Intention

Statement

If you decide to accept a seemingly negative event as a positive one, then it will be exactly like this ...

Remember: no matter how bad the situation is now, a very pleasant surprise is waiting for you, provided that at this moment you keep the coordination. In any difficult situation you can tell yourself: if it happens - good, if it does not - even better. Because you know that your world cares about you and if something happens, then you avoided other unknown problems. In this relaxed mood go to a date with destiny, the one that you create yourself. "From now on, whatever happens, everything is as it should be!"

Interpretation

Human life, as well as any other motion of matter, is a chain of cause and effect. In the space of variations effect is always located close to its cause. Just as one follows the other [cause and effect), so the closely located sectors of space variations are arranged in a life line.

Each event on the life line has two branches - one in a favorable and one in an unfavorable direction. Faced with one or other event, you make a choice on how to treat it.

If you look at it as a positive one, you move to the favorable branch of the life line. The inclination to negativity however makes you dissatisfied and makes you choose the negative branch. If something annoys you, a new trouble is to follow. Thus the expression "an evil never comes alone." But the series of troubles does not follow the trouble itself, but your attitude towards it

Pattern is created by the choices you make at the crossroads. The principle of coordination of intention allows you to always fall on the favorable life line.

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Principle 38 - The World Cares

Statement

Let your guide be the formula: "My world takes care of me." Repeat it at all circumstances, even the most trivial ones, whatever happens - good or bad. When you experience success, be sure to confirm that the world really cares for you. Confirm this with every little thing.

When confronted to annoying circumstances, nevertheless state that it's okay. Your world knows best how to care for you. Things shall be as you see them in the mirror.

Interpretation

If we add gold into the amalgam of the mirror, as did the Venetian masters once, the reflection will get warmer shades. As the world is a mirror, we can tune it the same way - to create our own amalgam.

For example, you can select the following dominant formula: "My world takes care of me." Take it for an axiom. Adjust accordingly your targeted worldviews to the dominant and see how you react to the mirror. Despite its simplicity, the technique of amalgam has power, which you don't even suspect.

If you get the patience to make this technique a habit, after awhile you will be literally amazed how real is the impact of your thoughts on the surrounding reality.

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Principle 39 - Up The Stream

Statement

At least for a day watch how the mind is trying to row upstream. Something is offered to you, and you refuse. Or someone wants to communicate something and you do not listen. Someone expresses their point of view, and you argue. Someone does something in his/ her own way, and you preach that person. A simple solution is offered to you, and you object. You expect one thing, the result is other and you get frustrated. Someone is bothering you and you get mad. Something is different than your script and you rush with horns ahead, to direct the flow in the 'right' direction,

Change tactics: Move the center of gravity towards monitoring instead of control ing. Do not dap your hands in water. Do not prevent your life from moving downstream and see how much lighter you world will be.

Interpretation

The human mind works as a computer, trying to calculate several moves ahead and to make your action plan. But it rarely succeeds in finding the optimal solution, because the task has too many unknowns, plus that the situation is changing all the time.

The mind stubbornly holds onto its scenario, in other words, keep rowing upstream. Consequently, masses of energy are spent in vain, problems and then, obstacles increase. The mind does not seek to manage its movement onto the flow, but seeks to manage the flow itself. This is one of the main causes of any problems or troubles.

Strive to observe, instead of control. Do not rush to wave your hand in objection, to argue, to prove your viewpoint, to manage and criticize... Give the situation a chanse to get Fixed, without your active intervention or counteraction. By giving up control, you get more control over the situation. The only control you need to pay attention to, is the control over internal and external importance.

 

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Principle 40 - Down The Stream

Statement

Establish a balance with the surrounding world and trust the flow of the variants. Release the situation and become its observer rather than a member.

Make it a rule to do everything using the path of less resistance, always choose the effortless way. Before you start solving a problem, ask yourself what is the simplest way to do this?

If something doesn’t happen, as expected, release your grip and do an unexpected change in your scenario. You are offered something - do not hurry to quit. You are given an advice - try to consider it. You hear someone else's opinion - do not rush to discuss it. You feel that someone does something wrong - so what? People take the initiative - let them realize their intention. The flow of the variations is a gorgeous gift for the mind.

Interpretation

The mind is constantly developing a plan for further action. The mind believes that is able to calculate everything in the best manner. But the plan already exists in the space of variations. The information structure is organized in chains of causality. They create the stream of variations, which arranges the events simply and optimally.

One is accustomed to overcoming obstacles - to rowing upstream, and this habit makes people seek complex solutions to simple problems. The opposite is true - nature always acts in the way of least resistance and does not waste energy.

If you don’t resist the flow of the variations, the solution will come by itself, and it will be the most optimal one, because it is already there and available

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Principle 41 - Remember

Statement

When looking for a way out of a problematic situation, first remember that it occurred because of the increased importance. Unconscious sleep fully conquered you, and happens without your control, simply because you did not realize it was just a dream.

Similarly, while awake - the circumstances will dominate, until you realize that you are immersed in the problem, and not the solution. Stop, release yourself from the spell and remember that reality is a dream that you can manage. And when you wake up, start transurfing your dream.

Interpretation

The main difficulty is to remember on time, that you are entangled in internal or external importance. For this purpose you need a 'Supervisor' - an internal observer who constantly monitors your level of awareness.

Of course, it is very difficult to restrain yourself when you literally want to tear up and throw away things. Like a vampire, the pendulum used a kind of anesthesia - your habit to fall asleep when you react negatively to the irritant. Even now, as you read these lines, you can get distracted and answer an unwanted phone call irritably.

Try several times a day to "wake up" - to look with clear eyes and realize that everything that happens is a dream, but you do not sleep and you are aware of your actions.

The habit to recall is created by systematic practice. Till awareness becomes a habit for you, the pendulum will try to capture you in every way. Do not get desperate - it will be mainly small troubles. If you do not give up and if you learn to remember, and stay aware, your victory will be impressive, you will see

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Principle 42 - Breaking The Stereotype

Statement

if someone tries to convince you that you are required to work for the benefit of something or someone, do not believe that person. If they want to prove to you that everything in this world is achieved by hard work, don't believe them. If they are trying to impose on you a Fierce struggle for place under the sun, again do not believe them.

If they want to tel! you where your place is, do not believe it. If they try to drag you into a sect or society, where "your contribution to the common cause" is needed, do not believe it. If they tell you that because you were born in poverty, you have to spend you whole life in that way - do not believe it. If they suggest that your opportunities are limited, do not believe it.

Interpretation

From the standpoint of common sense, everything in transurfing is upside down. Actually, the same can be said for the common sense from the standpoint of transurfing.

If you do not want to live like everybody else, if you are not satisfied with average performance, if you want to get everything, "a complete program", in this one and single life, then you are a Stranger.

In transurfing a Stranger is not one chosen by fate - fate is chosen by the Stranger. You'll get everything you want, if you can shake the monolith of your common sense.

People mistakenly believe rational worldview is an inviolable law. But it is false and can be broken. Unexplainable "miracles" happen often in life. Then, why don’t you let such a miracle in your life?

You should simply allow yourself to have what your soul wants. If you reject the web of prejudices and restrictions with which the pendulums entangled you, if you sincerely believe you're worthy of your dream, and allow yourself to have what you want with all your soul - then is yours, you will get it.

[Michal__]

Have you read Carlos Castaneda?

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Principle 43 - Visualizing The Process

Statement

Whatever you do, your performance will grow many times, if you not just do your job well but consciously and enthusiastically admire it, constantly finding its perfection.

This is very important! The principle is as follow: "1 do everything in a wonderful way, today I do everything better than yesterday and tomorrow will be better than today.

" When you scroll through your target slide in your thoughts, all the circumstances work to achieve the goal, even if you think otherwise, and if at the same time, you visualize the process - the layer of your world flies towards your dream with stunning speed.

Interpretation

Suppose you are working on a project, you are creating something. During the work, and after that imagine how the object of your creation is increasingly refined. Today you have completed the details, and tomorrow you are going to add new touches. Imagine how your creation gets increasingly transformed. You are giving it new features, and in your eyes it becomes a masterpiece. You are glad, you're in love with the creative process.

You need not only to contemplate on your object but also to imagine the process of its growth and optimization. Create and admire...

Do not be ashamed to call yourself a genius. Repeat your thought-form: "Brilliant new ideas are born in my head...” If you work over your body, do it in the same way - take care of it, as mother takes care of her child. Imagine how your body gradually becomes perfect. Take care of it, train it, and imagine how the muscles at some places are increasing while others are becoming lean.

You will be surprised to discover how quickly and effectively the statement of perfection gets actually implemented

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Principle 44 - The Slide

Statement

Usually, people act only within the physical reality, guided by the so-called common sense. This is not effective.

Now you have a great advantage: using the metaphysical properties of reality, you are able to materialize what you intended. In order to fix a thought-form into the material reality, you have to replay it systematically and to play the target slide in your thoughts, i.e. the picture where the goal has been achieved. Unlike the futile dreams, this is a specific job. By doing the job, you will get results.

Interpretation

When you visualize, the layer of your world moves in the sectors of space variations, where the goal is achieved. Do not think how this will happen. You should think of the target slide only.

When the time comes, the external intention will open the door - the real opportunities for which you didn't suspect before, and which would not occur if you had not operated the slide. When you see that this really is approaching, your fears and doubts will disappear by themselves.

Do not watch the slide from aside, as if it is a movie, but live in it, even though virtually. Pretend that everything is happening in reality. Imagine still further details. Do not turn the work with the slide into a burden, just take pleasure in the picture, where the desired goal has been achieved. And, of course, do not overdo if visualization is not very clear. Do everything as it is convenient to you, as it happens to be done. The main thing is - if you work systematically and with pleasure, assume that your goal is in your pocket

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Principle 45 - Your Way To Your Goal

Statement

Reject the importance of the goal, give up the longing and leave just the determination to have. You should walk towards your goal, just in the way you walk towards your post box, to take your letters. The only thing that could spoil the efforts towards your goal is excessive liability, excessive zeal and fear of defeat.

Scroll the slide in your thought, without plugging scenarios in it. Do not think about the means of achieving the objective. If you focus on the goal, as if already achieved, after some time the external intention will open opportunities before you - will open doors, and then the tools will be available to you.

Interpretation

If your goal seems difficult to access, your entire celebration will be ruined by oppressive doubts and thoughts of possible failure ... How to believe in the impossible, so that it can become possible?

There's no way! You will not succeed to be persuaded or to persuade or to force yourself to believe.

Drop these futile worries and take on something better - replay the target slide in your mind and do not forget to walk towards the goal. Do not bother by fact that the goal is still far on the horizon. It is hard to imagine how it can become yours, but this is not your concern. You are required only to place an order, and leave the rest to the waiter.

When the mind sees the doors open, its doubts will disappear. People who have achieved success, amazing success, later said they would never believe that they are capable of such a thing, just a tip: do not place your goal on one card, find a second way, a reserve, don't slam the door earlier and don't burn bridges prematurely.

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Principle 46 - Doors

Statement

Your door is the way that will bring you to your goal. Replay the target slide into your thoughts and then the external intention sooner or later will present various options for you - doors.

if you get tired while on the path to the goal, if you lose energy, if you are exhausted, then this is not your door. We can not say that it will be easy for you. But if you feel spiritual uplift and inspiration during your work, you can bravely assume that this is your door. Everything you do with ease, with willingness, has meaning and value.

Every little thing that is typical for you, even though it might have no value within the stereotypes, it could become the key to your door. Try to project some of your characteristic "frivolous" traits onto the serious doors.

Interpretation

Pendulums taught people to do what is necessary, and to believe this is how it should be. People get so accustomed to the necessity that the true inclinations of the soul are forced into the darkest corner of their mind, waiting for better times. But life goes on, and the good times never come. Happiness constantly looms somewhere in the future. The alleged stereotype says: in order to happen, the future has to be earned, you should work to achieve it People often give up their favorite activity because of material considerations. Activities are divided into passions and real work that needs to bring income.

Yet even the hobby may generate enough income, if that's your goal. In this world everything made with soul, is very expensive. The false stereotype of the compulsive necessity, however, does not allow one to dedicate fully to his/ her objective. He/ she is a slave of some not too young person for most of his/ her time in life - allegedly this is necessary to sustain the physical existence. And the soul gets the crumbs left from the main working time. in this case, one lives for whom? For that not too young person?

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Principle 47 - Relationships Of Dependence

Statement

If you think the world behaves in a defiant way towards you, think: to which object or property do you attach undue significance? Everything that causes your animosity just happens to you. You are haunted by everything that bothers you. Everything that is extremely undesirable, just happens to you. It happens so because you've caught the world by the throat, but it resists and tries to escape. The more you insist on your wishes and claims, the stronger the magnet, attracting the opposite. Loosen your grip. Let the world at large.

Allow yourself to be yourself and the others to be different. Do not compare yourself to anyone. Do not bind to anything. Take effortlesly and drop effortlesly.

Interpretation

Unnecessary potentials emerge when too much importance is attributed to some qualities and thus bring distortion to the surrounding energy environment. Unnecessary potential is not that scary till the distorted assessment exists on its own, without any relations to anything else. But when the artificially inflated assessment of one object is placed in comparison to another object, polarization occurs, that attracts troubles as a magnet. Relations of dependence between people are created when they compare themselves to others, confront each other and put conditions of the sort "If you do so, then I will..."

That's why troubles enter our lives so insistently and as if on purpose. For instance, married couples seemingly consist of two incompatible personalities, which are made as if as if to punish one other or, at work, there will always be at least one person, who will annoy you. The laws of Murphy are of the same nature.

All conflicts are based on comparing and contrasting. Make your own conclusions.