Reality Transurfing Mega-Thread

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Principle 48 - In Search For Love

Statement

No need to search for love, it will find you. To meet your mate, you need to systematically replay the slide in which you imagine your life together with an abstract figure, your perfect match. In a certain moment the door will open - (s] he will appear.

Further on, things are in your hands. You must enter that door, make the first move, putting away all pride and prejudice. Perform this step simply and sincerely, without snobbery and masquerade. Immediacy always corrupts. And another thing: be yourself, in no circumstances betray yourself, live in accordance with your credo. Then no annoying distortions will occur in the dual mirror.

Interpretation

Love slide should contain an abstract personality - an ideal. You should include a specific person only in extreme cases, if you have no other practical chances to achieve mutual feelings. Of course, in general, you can replay a slide in which you are together and love each other. This is a scenario, therefore it exists in the space of variations. But the other person is not a passive object but a living being who actively realizes his/ her intention.

It is possible to achieve something with the slide, but this is unlikely to be very effective because the living person is not sitting stationary in the space of variations, and is constantly moving somewhere. While you make him/ her "replay", (s)he would hurry to find a more "earthly" partner. Moreover, the soul of this person feels that you are thinking about him/ her. And if (s)he doesn't like this, an unconscious disgust towards you may appear.

So better not risk it, and use the principles of freiling - the most effective way. Interpersonal relationships are exactly the case when you need to communicate with the living person and not to fly in clouds and dreams.

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Principle 49 - Stoping The Pendulum

Statement

Be prepared for provocations by the pendulums. When you run into undesirable situation or get bad news, you lose balance. According to the standard scenario you should be worried, scared, with low spirits, you should express dissatisfaction or annoyance.

Do the opposite - respond inadequately, break the script. Replace fear with confidence, sadness with enthusiasm, resentment with indifference, frustration with joy. The game of the pendulum is to get you out of balance. You should deliberately break the rules of this game - do anything but not what you are expected to do.

Then you will win.

Interpretation

Pendulums feed with human energy. For example, when you are irritated by something and violently express your indignation, you are giving energy to the pendulum.

Everything that is potentially able to cause strong negative emotions in you, is provoked by the pendulums. When you are in some annoying circumstances and you react with irritation and frustration, immediately a continuation and development of the negative situation follows or new troubles appear.

So the pendulum swings. You yourself are swinging it by accepting the game that was imposed onto you. Do otherwise, either do not react or respond with just the opposite reaction - then you will stop the pendulum. Your task is to force another game, by reacting inadequately.

The principle is as follows: when you swing causing a different resonant frequency, you are in dissonance with the pendulum, so it stops with respect to you and leaves you alone.

Edited yesterday at 01:39 PM by CARDOZZO

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Principle 50 - The Failure Of The Pendulum

Statement

If you are overwhelmed by the thoughts of what you don’t like, that's just what will come into your life. To opt out of the unwanted, you must accept it. This means not to let it in yourself, but to admit the right of its existence and to let it pass indifferently. To accept and to let it go - in other words, to let it pass close to you and to wave good-bye.

Always respond with agreement to the first attack of the pendulum and then depart diplomatically or gently direct your movement to the right direction. Learn not to "get caught" - but instead to ignore what irritates you, then the pendulum will disappear from your life. When there's nothing to catch, it will fail.

Interpretation

Pendulums are lords of dreams. When a person is susceptible to their challenge, (s)he as if falls asleep, since (s)he is entirely within the imposed game - the mind is obsessed by what is happening. If something irritates you, or you reject it sharply, be sure that you are already caught by the game of the pendulum.

The pendulum will immediately find a suitable stimulus for you, and even more than one. And will be swayed till you are kept by maliciousness. To break free, you need to change your attitude towards the stimulus, to focus your attention on something else - to accept the situation and to turn the "tragedy" in "comedy".

Changing your attitude does not mean holding your emotions. To push the emotions deep into you, is the "evil", which accumulates and will explode and will surely burst and feed the pendulums. Better initially unleash your feelings, and then consciously adjust your attitude. No use to fight the pendulums. You should ignore them.

Edited yesterday at 01:39 PM by CARDOZZO

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Principle 51 - The Inexplicable Infinity

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Why the transurfing works? Who "puts" everything that is in the space of variations? Nobody has "created" the space of variations,

it has always existed. Human mind is created in such a way that it seems to it that everything in this world is created by someone or something, and that everything has a beginning and an end. But in the world there are questions that are far beyond the possibilities of the mind. Because the mind is only a logical machine, although it possesses the ability to think abstractly.

Transurfing does not explain the structure of the world but offers a practical model that allows to understand why it is possible to manage reality and how to do it. Similarly we can drive a car without having an idea of its internal structure.

Interpretation

Throughout history, scientists are dealing with this only - trying to explain how the world works. This process will continue indefinitely. More and more new models will appear. If you stand before a mirror, holding in your hand another mirror, you will understand why the world has an infinite number of models. When a certain expression of reality is taken as a basis, a separate version is received - a piece of the mirror. When you stand with it before the primary mirror of the world, in the reflection you will see a new aspect. Taking a single manifestation of the given aspect, we will again receive a particular version of reality. And again from another mirror there will appear a new one, reflecting in the previous image.

And what is the world anyway?

You can try to imagine it (in case you can) with the example of two identical mirrors placed close together. Both reflect the other. Both mirrors contain the nothing that reflects itself infinitely many times. Black infinity of images in which nothing reflects nothing,

is it possible to describe the resulting picture using the terms available to our mind? Hardly.

 

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Principle 52 - The Keeper Of Eternity

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The space of variations contains everything - and anything you want with your soul and mind, is yours. But you should know that Goalkeeper stands at the threshold of Eternity - the absolute law that protects the access to everything there.

This relentless watchdog allows entrance only to those who have the courage to exercise their right of Creators. Your verdict will be your pass: I can and 1 am worthy because 1 decided so. 1 do not want and do not hope -1 intend. Take your right and the Goalkeeper will open before you the door to Eternity.

Interpretation

What is the difference between a provincial girl and the show business star, between the student and the prominent scientist, between the ordinary people and the chosen ones?

One step only... Some of them had the courage to take what is theirs, and others still don't have the courage and do not believe they are capable and worthy. In the minds of indecisive ones, a firm conviction stands, stating that in this world there exist chosen ones because they were chosen by everyone else, because of their outstanding qualities. Yet this is a wrong stereotype.

The chosen ones did choose themselves. And only after that, and because of that, the other people noticed them. Take your right to be chosen. Tell yourself, from this moment on, I chose myself. You have this right not because you are worthy and capable, it - this right - you just have it.

The space of variations contains everything. It contains also something designed for you personally - the verdict for your right. This is your ticket to eternity, the sign for the privilege to create your own reality.

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Principle 53 - Managing Your Fate

Statement

When you take the control in your hands, your life no longer depends on the circumstances. Your boat can be turned in any direction away from the "fate" that you are supposedly destined. Everything is very simple - life is like a river. If you paddle yourself, you can choose the direction, if you just leave yourself to the How, you are forced to sail into the mainstream flow. Want karma - you will receive it. When you think that your fate depends on some inexorable circumstances or mistakes in past lives, thus you realize the corresponding variation. It’s all your will - you’re a child of God! And if you want to be a Creator, that is in your power too. Dual mirror agrees with everything.

Interpretation

Suppose you put yourself a goal that seems difficult to achieve, if looked from normal perspective, or even seems impossible to achieve. With all your soul you aspire to it, but your skeptical mind puts you back on the ground and keeps asking you the same question: how, how? So, according to the principles of transurfing, at the stage when the tools of achieving the goal are not yet known to you, you need to do an unusual step - to stop thinking about the tools and to focus on the ultimate goal, as if it has already been achieved. When in your thoughts you replay the target slide, the layer of your world moves in the space of variations towards the sector where the goal is realized.

The move is subtle, but it exists. Let your mind doubt as much as it wants - the main thing is to diligently replay in your thoughts the target slide. This looks like a night flight - movement is not noticeable, but the engine is running, meaning that the plane is moving. Similarly, in your head the target (engine) gets visualized and external lift - external intention - is pulling the layers of your world (airplane) towards the destination.

The steering wheel of intention is in your hands. Everything will be as you want.

Edited yesterday at 01:46 PM by CARDOZZO

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Principle 54 - Mental Laziness

Statement

If one believes in predicting his/ her fate and takes his/ her dreams seriously, a thought-form gests unintentionally formed that can be fully realized as a program for this person. The implementation happens only because [s)he actually believes all this nonsense.

We always get in reality what we believe in. But how naive it is to believe various men and women who supposedly can predict the future rather than create your own destiny, at your own discretion. You are the real creator of your destiny, if you decide to be. Do not give your fate in the hands of the mirror people!

Interpretation

Only infantile personalities, for which life is an unconscious sleep, believe in horoscopes. If however you intend to control your own destiny, the services of the mirror people make no sense for you. What are the astrologers, astrologie interpreters, prophets, if not mirror people? Because they offer not just harmless forecasts but a replacement of your destiny - a piece of the mirror in which you will be forced to look.

When you have accepted something as a guideline for your future and it is to remain in your unconscious mind, programming your further destiny. Do you realy think you can receive part of the future just like that? You can’t peep into the book of fate without experiencing consequences.

You already have a mirror - the layer of your world, with which you can do whatever you want. Say "With my mirror I am free: if I want, with my will of Creator, I can turn each defeat into a victory - and so shall it be. Then turn your back to all predictions

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Principle 55 - Mental Template

Statement

With their negative attitude people themselves color the layers of their world in black. The mirror just ascertains the content of the attitude, ignoring its direction. It is not how you think, the main thing is about what you think. Whether you like the reflection or not - it is as what you think about it. The only thing that matters is the content of your thoughts. From that moment on, create a rule to keep under control the pattern of your thoughts and attitude. Whatever happens, just turn it into a positive attitude. Fix your attention on what you ultimately want to have. Over time you'll build a very comfortable reality. Get ready - a wonderful series of pleasant events is waiting you.

Interpretation

Usually negative experiences fully control the human attention. One worries only about what he/ she doesn't like. One thinks about what (s)he doesn't want and doesn’t want what [s)he thinks. But the mirror does not comply with your desire or reluctance - it simply transmits precisely the content of the image, neither more nor less.

The result is quite a ridiculous situation: you always carry with you the things that you don’t want to accept. That's why the poor get poorer and the rich - richer: they are looking in the mirror of the world and each of them understands the image of the surrounding reality in his /her own way. It sucks them in like a swamp. An old woman in the queue for her pension. A tired woman with heavy bags in a crowded bus. A sick man going from one hospital to another.

With all their thoughts they are lost in this dark reality. Some people are meanwhile enjoying life: sea, boats, trips, luxury hotels, expensive restaurants - all that the soul wants. In all cases, regardless of the nature of the situation, one fact can be observed: "This is the way we live!" More specifically - we live in the way we imagine our existence. Mirror confirms and further seals the content of their thoughts.

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Principle 56 - Dissatisfaction With The World

Statement

If you really want to improve your live, replace the mechanical negativity with positive dominance, for example: "My world chooses all the best for me. I swim along the stream of variations and the world is moving towards me. 1 alone, with my intention, do form the layer of my world. My world saves me from the problems. My world cares so that I live easily and comfortably. I order and my world fulfills it, I do not always know, but my world knows how to take care of me. My intention gets realized, everything happens as it should be. "

Remember, either you control reality, or it controls you.

Interpretation

Why, over time, all vibrant colors fade away and serenity is replaced with worries and concerns? Is it because problems increase with age? No, it's because while getting old, one acquires a tendency to express negative attitudes. Resentment is a stronger feeling than the satisfaction of comfort and peace. People don't realize that now they are nevertheless happy, and keep wanting more and more from the world. Their requirements increase, they become increasingly spoiled and ungrateful.

Naturally, the world can not meet that rapidly growing needs and the spoilt child begins to show whims. The child changes his/ her attitude to the world: "You’re bad! You do not give me everything I want! You don't take care of me!" And all the power of the unity among the dissatisfied soul and the capricious mind, is put into this negative attitude.

But the world is a mirror and it has no other choice but to sadly open its hands and to say: "As you say, dear. Let it be your way."

The result - reality as a reflection of human thoughts, becomes worse.

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Principle 57 - Inferiority

Statement

When one realizes that (s)he does not fit the established standards, (s)he feels a sense of inferiority. Compared to whom? Ask yourself: do you want to be like everyone, or still you want to be yourself By trying to hide your shortcomings, you will not achieve this. Developing your qualities, you will achieve this. Any imperfection is counterbalanced by a quality inherent to you. The lack of beauty can be compensated with charm. Physical defects are compensated with confidence in ourselves. The not so good communication skills can be replaced with the ability to listen. And the timid people, we can advise them: keep this trait as a treasure. Shyness has a hidden charm, if you allow yourself the luxury not to be "strict."

Interpretation

The sense of inferiority is based on comparison: I have an unattractive appearance, I lack skills and talents, I'm not smart or clever, I do not know how to communicate with people, I am unworthy... No, actually it’s much more serious: the thing is that I'm worse than others!

This is a pure form of the attitude of dependency. Polarization occurs: they are good - I'm bad. Polarization creates a steady wind forces that make one attempt in any way to raise his/ her artificially lowered qualities. As a result the person starts to behave in an unnatural way, and thus further emphasizes what (s)he is trying to hide. Fighting the complex brings more bad consequences than the complex itself. There's only one way to eliminate the complex: stop comparing yourself to the others and direct the vector of your attention to your qualities instead of the shortcomings.

Create a positive slide in which your qualities are so developed that they overshadow the disadvantages. Live in this virtual slide and soon it will become a reality.

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Principle 58 - Self-Sufficiency

Statement

You have enormous potential, even if you think otherwise. Are capable of everything, but nobody has yet told you. Just accept the axiom that the soul knows everything and then allow yourself to take advantage of this. Stop searching the truth in foreign sources, look into yourself and you will find all the answers.

To look into yourself is not an abstraction. Just ask yourself a question and have the courage to answer yourself. Thus, by including yourself in the space of variations, you can make discoveries, can make new things and create masterpieces. Abandon recognized authorities - they have used the same source. Now your turn has come.

Interpretation

Do you like the works of the geniuses of art, science, business, sports and pop music, cinema? You can become one of them. You like the works of geniuses precisely because they are born by their souls. Your creation will appeal to others only if it comes out of your unique soul.

Everything which is common and mediocre, is created by the mind. Creations of the mind, as well the mind itself, are not unique. Unique is your soul. You possess a real treasure. All your brilliant creations can come only out of your soul. Let your mind allow the soul to make it. The only thing you have to do is to stop being guided by other people's experience and stereotypical standards.

Start making your own standards. When confronted to a problem, you can formulate your question and give time to yourself for solving it. You will see that the answer will come by itself - it already exists in the space of variations, your task is to decide to get it independently.

The only requirement is: to "adjust yourself to the required sector, you have to acquire basic knowledge and skills in the area. And then just listen carefully to the voice of your heart that speaks the language of intuition

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Principle 59 - Decision Making

Statement

When you think how to proceed, only your mind works. It analyzes the merits and shortcomings, builds its concept so that it can be rational and convincing, while listening to the opinions of others. It usually doesn't take into account of premonitions of the soul. In this sense, the mind sleeps deeply.

Well, let' it sleep, do not disturb it until it decides. But here it is, decision already taken. At this point, do not listen to anyone, wake up and realize: what feelings you experienced when the decision was taken? The state of peace of mind will show the attitude of the soul towards the decision of the mind.

Interpretation

Whenever you need to take a decision, at first hear the voice of the mind, and then the feelings of the soul. Once the mind has decided, the soul reacts either positively or negatively. In the latter case you experience a vague sense of mental discomfort.

When the decision was taken, you had a short fleeting feeling. At this point, the mind was so absorbed by its analysis that it did not feel. So now remember what this first fleeting feeling was like. If it was a feeling of oppression against the optimistic thoughts of the mind, the soul has clearly said "no." When the soul says "no" and the mind-"yes", bravely give up the decision, if possible.

The soul always knows exactly what it doesn't want. There is a simple and reliable algorithm for determining the "no" of the soul: if you need to convince yourself and to negotiate with yourself in order to say "yes", then the soul says "no." Remember: when your soul says "yes", there's no need to convince yourself

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Principle 60 - The Rustle Of The Morning Stars

Statement

When you face a dilemma and do not know the exact answer, boldly trust your intuition. Counting on hunches, you will also make mistakes. But incomparably more mistakes you are to make, if you only to listen to the voice of reason. If you need to take a decision no one knows better than your soul, what should be done. It is often very difficult to understand precisely what your soul prompts you. But you can absolutely accurately determine whether it likes the decision of the mind. Peace of mind in response to the taken decision, is a sure criterion of truth.

Interpretation

The mind thinks using with conventional signs: symbols, words, concepts, schemes, rules, etc. The soul does not use these categories. It does not think and speak but feels or knows. Moreover, the mind is constantly occupied by its talking. It believes that everything can be explained reasonably, and continuously monitors all the information. When its control gets weakened, intuitive feelings and knowledge find their way towards the consciousness. The mind got distracted and in that moment you felt feelings or knowledge of the soul.

This is exactly a rustle of morning stars - a voice without words, thinking without thoughts, a quiet sound. You know something, but vaguely. You do not think but intuitively feel or just do know. The soul has access to the information field and can find answers to many questions, and protect you from wrong or dangerous steps if you listen to its voice.

For example, if you experience any anxiety unusual for you before a flight, it would be wise to skip it. Or when on your first acquaintance with a person of the opposite sex you have to convince yourself that he (she) is suitable for you, you can be confident that most likely nothing good will come out of further your relationship.

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Principle 61 - Other People's Goals

Statement

When defining your goal, ask yourself: do I really desire it with all my soul or I just would like to desire it?

If you need to convince yourself, then the goai is not yours. If your goal is yours, you do not have to convince yourself. Movement towards the goal of somebody else always leaves the celebration for a later and illusory future. And if you are moving towards your goal, you're happy even now. Other people's goal is always violence over you, compulsion, and obligation.

False goals attract with its inaccessibility, forcing you to prove something to yourself and everybody else. The goal of other people has been obtruded to you by others and serves to increase other's welfare... Search for your goal.

Interpretation

Other person's goal causes mental discomfort Typically, false goals are very attractive. In ecstasy, your mind will beautify in any way all possible attributes of the goal. But if, despite all its attractiveness, something oppresses you, you need to be honest with yourself. Sure, the mind doesn't want to hear you - everything is wonderful. So where does that shadow come from?

Thinking about the purpose, do not take account of its prestige, exclusiveness and means to achieve it - pay attention only to the state of mental comfort Imagine that you've achieved it and everything is over. Do you feel better or worse?

Do not confuse soul stiffness (or shyness: "Is all this for me?"), with discomfort. Soul discomfort is an oppressive feeling or burden that is too weak against the optimistic thoughts of the mind. Soul stiffness can be removed with the help of slides but soul discomfort - never

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Principle 62 - Your Goal

Statement

Everyone has one precious treasure - his/ her unique soul. Every soul has a purpose towards which one gets happiness. Next - in future - there's no happiness. Happiness is either here and now, or it doesn't exits at all. The secret of true success is to rid the pendulums and to choose your own way.

Ask yourself the question: what attracts your soul, what will make your life a celebration? Do not you care about any restrictions. Do not be shy and order with a vision. If this is your goal, then at the very thought of it, your soul is singing and your mind rubs its hands with pleasure

Interpretation

The human soul can only vaguely guess what it wants. Mind must help it to identify its goal. But the mind, entirely in its style, is trying to search for the goal using the way of logic. This is a mistake.

The task of the mind is not to search for the goal, but to recognize it on time. At the right place and in the right time the soul will recognize what Belongs to it and you will feel it. The main thing is to give the soul the opportunity to meet the goal. You need to expand your horizons: go where you have not been, see what you have not seen, hear new information, exit the circle of the ordinary.

And later - keep up your awareness and carefully listen to the voice of your heart. Give yourself an indefinite period, do not limit yourself within time frames and do not turn the search for the goal into an obligation. Just repeat in your thoughts, repeat the statement:! am looking for something that will make my life a celebration.

The goal will come as an illumination. When confronted with some information and you feel your soul kindled, and your mind is considering it with pleasure, then you can assume that you have found true goal.

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Principle 63 - Intention Wheel

Statement

If you want to achieve your goal, you should turn your desire into solid intention. Dreams don't come true. Stop craving for your goal. As long as you intend, it is already yours. Yearning is the fear of failure: I want it so much that I even don't have strength any more, while I’m afraid that will not happen.

And why am I afraid?

Because I do not think about the goal but how to achieve it. Stop thinking about the how's of achieving it, your task is to think about the goal as if already accomplished, and replay the target slide in your mind. On the way to the goal things will not happen as you expect, or maybe nothing will happen at all. This should not discourage you. No matter what is the course of the events, keep a firm course towards your goal. The motto is: "I do not want and do not hope I intend.

Interpretation

The situation in the space of variations regarding the goal is like you are in a boat in the open sea, To get to the land you need to swim to the north, where the compass arrow points - the direction of your thoughts. While you imagine the picture of reaching land and stepping ashore, your "arrow" points where it needs to. All that is needed is to think about the arrival and to row. Only this and nothing more.

But the impatient mind starts to spin around and to harass the swimmer: "Are we swimming in the right direction? Will we get there soon? What if our strength is not enough? And if there is no land? Of course we need to row in a different direction! "Because of that the arrow of the compass starts flicking and the boat is constantly changing course. Reason does not see the movement in the space of variations, that's why it doubts and worries. It is used to controlling the situation. The mind will calm down only if it is assigned a task in the implementation of which it will be aware of what it does. So tell it not to shake the boat but to keep on the course. Control over the course of thought - that's what should be the work of mind.

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Principle 64 - The Canvas Of Your Soul

Statement

Everyone has a purpose, towards which (s)he reveals all his/ her talent. If one is not aware of his/ her uniqueness, his/ her divine power of Creator and one sinks into unconscious sleep, and the pendulums immediately enforce an imitation of a purpose onto the person and show him/ her a place in the matrix in order to become a cog which works in the interest of the system.

When a person works towards achieving other people's goal, his/her life turns into serving a sentence. On the way to your own goal you get true happiness in this life. Your goal will make your life a celebration. Achieving it will attract the fulfillment of all other desires, and then the results will exceed your expectations. Look for your goal. You’ll find it.

Interpretation

Do we really need to look for our goal? And many do not really think about it - they just live and that's it. More precisely, they do not live, but serve a sentence. Each day of such a life is like the other, routine work, the same persons, streets, walls, too meager set of entertainment, constant burden of care and obligations, holidays - only in certain days (specified by someone else and not you).

But there are people in whose lives everything is as bright and colorful as a carnival. These are lucky people that do not have working days, they work and play as if each their day is filled with fireworks, interesting events, meetings and joyful experiences. Why is it so for them, but not for me? ...Because those chosen by fate, have found their way. They are quite few; all others are prisoners of the matrix, common elements of the system.

The unique and omnipotent God's children, without realizing it, have renounced their right of free choice, they have allowed the pendulums to turn their lives into unconscious sleep. This is why the system decides for them what they want, how to live and what to seek.

Edited yesterday at 02:09 PM by CARDOZZO

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Principle 65 - Pessimism

Statement

When one sees some unpleasant traits in his/ her reflection in the mirror, one stares at them and automatically expresses his /her negative attitude, which makes things all worse than before. Following the image, reality in effect gradually looses its luster. This is how the layer of the world of the individual person loses the freshness of color and becomes increasingly dark and uncomfortable.

Stop "picking up" stressors - and they will cease to annoy you. Stop looking for problems - look for solutions. Finally, stop whining. Once you change your attitude towards life, a firm feeling appears in you, a feeling that everything runs great and will be even better. Everything will be just as it should be.

Interpretation

Tendency to pessimistic expectations seems unattractive. Mood such as: "Anyway, nothing will come out of this" - resembles sadomasochism. Pessimist gets perverse pleasure, becomes drunk by his/ her heavy fate: "The world is so bad that it can't be more! This is what it deserves, even though I receive the same together with it!"

With the same fatal predestination, loser finds his /her unenviable position: "All life is full of darkness, no light is not visible in the tunnel." (S)he with all his/ her strength, does not wish such a fate, and that's why spends all energy bemoaning and wailing. But what can get reflected by the mirror when the image is woven of discontent? The image: "1 am dissatisfied! I do not want it!" - is closely related to the reflection: "Yes, you are dissatisfied and you do not want." Just the fact gets reflected - neither more nor less. And so the occasions for dissatisfaction get increased, which in turn further aggravates the relations between the person and the world.

And here - the former minion of fortune becomes offended grumbler who always complains that, you see, the world owes him/ her. Sad picture. The person does not understand that (s)he alone has spoiled everything.

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Principle 66 - Support

Statement

If now things are difficult for you, you can always find support in yourself when you wake up and realize where the problem situation comes from. The danger is not the problem itself but your attitude towards it. When you consider it important, you give energy to the pendulum. You need to realize that in every problematic situation pendulum wants you to either strain yourself and to fight, or to put down your hands, and give in to despondency. You should do neither one nor the other. But when you do not have support and you have lost the pillar of your confidence, what will you do?

Confidence will appear when you wake up and realize what a game has been conducted. You will smile, "Well, is that you, pendulum? ...Now you will not catch me so easily". You are not a puppet any more. You are free, because you are awake.

Interpretation

When one doesn't know the rules of the game, the surrounding world begins to seem frightening and hostile. Then a feeling of loneliness and depression overwhelms the person and makes him/ her sleep and obey the will of the circumstances. When confronted to annoying nuisance or complex problem, people give energy to the pendulum and feel anxiety, their strength decreases, the situation brings oppression to them. One is either in readiness to fight, or feels ready to surrender. Both feelings are not normal and create stress and depression.

To find support, people indulge in smoking, drugs, alcohol or other means. But the result is that they fall into slavery of new pendulums. And you only need to wake up and see the game through the eyes of a spectator, without leaving the stage. You will immediately see all underwater rocks, as if the sea suddenly disappeared. Just then you can find the support within yourself.

The very understanding of what happens, is enough. Even this knowledge alone gives you a secure and peaceful faith in yourself, because the uncertainty stems from the fear of the unknown. And when you know this, you can turn your life into conscious dream, and therefore take control of any situation.