What is "High Value?"

[Artsy]

I will of course be contemplating this for myself - however I thought I'd pitch it here too because I keep seeing this phrase being thrown around. What actually is "high value?" I'm talking in terms of inner game and framing having just been on two dates with very attractive girls and having my frame crumble each time at a certain point - leading me to ask, what do I need to tap into within myself? Who do I need to be? For things to go right.

Thank you for your insight.

[CARDOZZO]

My 2 cents:

• Not-Knowing: What is a woman? Why do I need to attract a woman? Which ideas, paradigms, beliefs, assumptions do I have about woman/attraction?

Value is connected to survival (your own/others). 

Women scan you on many layers (emotional, psychological, behavioral, physiology, appearance, clothes, voice, how you interact w/ other humans).

High value for a woman means that you are above/complementary on skills, strengths and fulfilment of her agenda (whatever it is).

Looks, Money, Status - yes, it matters but not how we man tend to think. 

High value is survival. High value is status. High value is a mind possible to interact effectively with a complex reality.

 

[Raze]

Read evolutionary psychology, that’s where it is from, how most people define it has been bastardized by many degrees.

It just means what we were biologically programmed to view as survival or replication value.

[aurum]

@Artsy value is survival value.

Just ask yourself: "what would help her survive?". That question will explain everything.