True Love

[aurum]

2 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I understand what you are saying.

But I don't see the contradiction. 

This is the relative plane. Behind it all the absolute is oneness, love.

Recognizing within the relative that 2 are one isn't a contradiction for me.

The point I'm trying to make is that 2 cannot exist.

There never was 2 of anything or a relative plane.

[Razard86]

Somehow this thread devolved into some Non-Duality discussion. Notice I didn't post this in the Spirituality discussion even though I could have. The first two stages are relativistic, the last stage is not. The point is to BECOME LOVE, by realizing you ARE LOVE. The first and most consistent relationship you have is your human self. Can you love the human self that you are unconditionally? If you can you have discovered TRUE LOVE.

After that you can exude or spread that love wherever you go. The only task you have if you want to live the good life and have healthy relationships is to become TRUE LOVE. As I always say everything starts with YOU....it also ends with YOU.

[Lyubov]

5 hours ago, Razard86 said:

Somehow this thread devolved into some Non-Duality discussion. Notice I didn't post this in the Spirituality discussion even though I could have. The first two stages are relativistic, the last stage is not. The point is to BECOME LOVE, by realizing you ARE LOVE. The first and most consistent relationship you have is your human self. Can you love the human self that you are unconditionally? If you can you have discovered TRUE LOVE.

After that you can exude or spread that love wherever you go. The only task you have if you want to live the good life and have healthy relationships is to become TRUE LOVE. As I always say everything starts with YOU....it also ends with YOU.

It’s so annoying. You lay out a reasonably decent model of how love works in relationships and of course there’s some guy always going “there’s only one tho, you ain’t going deep enough” junk that pollutes half the threads here, while some here actually want to widen their perspective and share useful and nuanced information on aspects of life. Typical.

Edited Tuesday at 06:46 PM by Lyubov

[Razard86]

4 minutes ago, Lyubov said:

It’s so annoying. You lay out a reasonably decent model of how love works in relationships and of course there’s some guy always going “there’s only one tho, you ain’t going deep enough” junk that pollutes half the threads here, while some here actually want to widen their perspective and share useful and nuanced information on aspects of life. Typical.

Bless you! You noticed it!!! It mostly happens in the Spirituality section. It gave me what I call posting fatigue. Even funnier its usually the same people and they are the FIRST to post on any thread I find. But here is even the biggest kicker. How would you feel if you discovered something, it was so amazing and life changing and valuable to you and you couldn't WAIT to share it...and then everytime you do you attract negative responses telling you that your missing something? It blows your mind because you know what you are sharing is TRUE because it has added MASSIVE value to your life....but NOOOO let's jump in your thread and derail it!!!!

It's like if you won the lottery and wanted to give me the winning numbers and I and a bunch of people argue that it's impossible....you know how frustrating that is? Like you want everyone to win the Lottery but noooo you must keep those winnings to yourself. It's the funniest thing man, blows my mind!!! But hey...it is what it is I always say. Anytime something crazy happens I say it happened because Reality is INFINITE, so it must contradict itself. But anyway I don't wanna turn this into a Spirituality thread.

How has your relationships been? And is that dog YOUR dog in real life?