I cant find a man that i truly like

[Schizophonia]

13 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

That’s so petty lol

lol of course it's a detail, but it's a detail that "can make the vase overflow"

 

[Sugarcoat]

3 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

lol of course it's a detail, but it's a detail that "can make the vase overflow"

 

And that means?

[Schizophonia]

7 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

And that means?

It's not that important but can be decisive.

I said that because I remember seeing girls in college who were cute but had a big flat ass or something, and I was like, "meh." 

 

[Sugarcoat]

2 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

It's not that important but can be decisive.

I said that because I remember seeing girls in college who were cute but had a big flat ass or something, and I was like, "meh." 

 

You have the right to your preferences I might take it back idk 

[Schizophonia]

Just now, Sugarcoat said:

You have the right to your preferences I might take it back idk 

No dw.

[Someone here]

3 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

I did

Because i felt that weren't enough points in common, that I didn't like her physique enough (a certain shape of ass for exemple) etc, even if they were attractive.

I'm not a ass guy . More like her face ..hair..voice and smile. A cute voice can kill me .

3 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

Indian level game

 

He is from lebanon . Allah Akbar.

3 hours ago, Majed said:

@Schizophonia Wait isn't this racist ? 

CEST LA VIE. 

he is French. French is the most sexy language ever .they literally have a word which is pronounced as 👄 mouah (the sound of kissing ). Although I don't know what it actually means or how to spell it correctly. 

I can get a hands free orgasm in 3 seconds just by listening to a French lady talking 

 

Edited Saturday at 03:44 PM by Someone here

[Schizophonia]

9 minutes ago, Someone here said:

I'm not a ass guy . More like her face ..hair..voice and smile. A cute voice can kill me .

Yes ditto, but it still has a bit of importance.

 

I prefer small to medium. 🤗👺

9 minutes ago, Someone here said:

He is from lebanon . Allah Akbar.

I know.

He must talk french btw.

9 minutes ago, Someone here said:

CEST LA VIE. 

he is French. French is the most sexy language ever

Omelette du fromage

9 minutes ago, Someone here said:

.they literally have a word which is pronounced as 👄 mouah (the sound of kissing ). Although I don't what it actually means or how to spell it correctly. 

Eheh, indeed it means nothing it just imitate the sound of kissing as you said.

 

[Schizophonia]

@Someone here 

https://voca.ro/1l7pueAsxLd5 mouah 😏

Edited Saturday at 03:58 PM by Schizophonia

[Someone here]

@Schizophonia link one with a female voice .

Oh my god I'm melting lol 

[Someone here]

@Schizophonia Nevermind here's one 

I can die in peace now haha 😂 

[Emerald]

20 hours ago, Asia P said:

Is like i have difficulty in falling in love again, even more i feel like i cant find someone i truly like.

I also dont know where to find. But i also feel like i shouldnt go looking for someone, and i just have to wait.

Its quite frustrating, also because i want to share myself to other beings, and i dont have the right person to express myself and my love

From what you'd mentioned, it seems that you have been in love in the past. And now, you're having a hard time opening up to a new relationship.

If I'm reading your situation correctly from the word "again", how long ago did you get out of the relationship with the person you loved?

If it's quite recently, you'll likely need to go through some more grieving to fully let them go.

But if it's been quite a while and it's hard to let go and open up to someone new, you'll want to explore the deeper reasons why you're still holding onto the past relationship... including attachment to the idea of the future which never came to pass.

There could also be an element of limiting beliefs, where you conceptualize of yourself as very different from others. And this could impede the ability to open up.

[Schizophonia]

2 hours ago, Someone here said:

@Schizophonia link one with a female voice .

Oh my god I'm melting lol 

Gift : a 8/9 on 10 (with makeup)who speaks french 😏

Edited Saturday at 06:29 PM by Schizophonia

[Schizophonia]

@Asia P Mea culpa for having deviate the topic lol

[Schizophonia]

@Emerald It seems that the older we get, the more we tend to inhibit the feeling of love so as not to risk being cringe.

We can be inhibited when we are young but still feel love by daydream, until the defensive mechanisms are strong enough (because of disappointments, or just big stressors that are unrelated to relationships) to even develop a difficulty in even perceiving these possibilities, especially when you have a somewhat stiff character to begin with.

 

Edited Saturday at 06:39 PM by Schizophonia

[Emerald]

4 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

@Emerald It seems that the older we get, the more we tend to inhibit the feeling of love so as not to risk being cringe.

We can be inhibited when we are young but still feel love by daydream, until the defensive mechanisms are strong enough (because of disappointments, or just big stressors that are unrelated to relationships) to even develop a difficulty in even perceiving these possibilities, especially when you have a somewhat stiff character to begin with.

 

The OP is very young... born in 2006. So, she's only 19 years old. (I just looked on her profile)

I just interpreted her words as meaning that she still hasn't grieved the end of a previous partnership... which can make it difficult to open up to a new relationship.

[Schizophonia]

10 minutes ago, Emerald said:

The OP is very young... born in 2006. So, she's only 19 years old. (I just looked on her profile)

It's not a question of age.

10 minutes ago, Emerald said:

I just interpreted her words as meaning that she still hasn't grieved the end of a previous partnership... which can make it difficult to open up to a new relationship.

I've deprived myself of relationships for certain reasons and I know that too. I know plenty of people who feel that way, and it's not correlated to grief, but rather to disappointment and the inhibitions that arise as a result.
 

[Sugarcoat]

2 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

It seems that the older we get, the more we tend to inhibit the feeling of love so as not to risk being cringe.

 

It seems to me with age people get more self secure, maybe the ego solidifies and also because the clock is ticking one is more likely to let go of petty reasons that would inhibit one entering a relationship

 

[Schizophonia]

47 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

It seems to me with age people get more self secure, maybe the ego solidifies and also because the clock is ticking one is more likely to let go of petty reasons that would inhibit one entering a relationship

 

Thb probably the two scenarios coexist 

[meta_male]

@Asia P Yeah, that space between wanting to give love and having nowhere worth putting it is brutal. The whole ‘wait vs. search’ thing... it's like both can rot you over time if you’re not careful. Waiting feels like a joke. Searching feels like a joke.

[CARDOZZO]

You need more danger in your life. Go explore reality with an open mind. Italy is amazing.