Understanding This Girl's Psychology

[Jayson G]

These 2 are a couple: shes pretty damn gorgeous, she seems pretty normal in the head, grounded, even caring and stuff. 

This guy is pretty disabled, but in some ways lacking in masculinity, but in some ways in a sense I can see healthy masculinity. 

Now this guy seems nice, but how is she attracted to him? I'm wondering if she's genuinely physically attracted to him. She seems emotionally attracted to him, but I don't know if this is some kind of psychology problems or mental disfunctions she has or whatever. 

The reason I ask is not to judge. But as a guy I want to have a deeper understanding of female psychology, what makes them tick, what do they desire. What does she seem in him. She probably saw something amazing in him to have to deal with so much baggage that as a pretty attractive female she probably doesn't have to. 

But then also I wonder why a lot of famous male celebrities who can get really gorgeous girls settle for unattractive girls, like Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes. 

Something I wonder a lot is .. why does someone choose another person really. Of all the options someone can have, who has options, what is worth going for, and why do people go after who they go after. What are core attraction traits. 

But I still don't understand this couple. I mean she's far more attractive than Eva Mendes for example, why not choose a partner that is far better suited for herself?

For most people, is love just - something in the stars align and you can't logically explain it but that person clicks in a way that no one else had, throw logic out the window, throw out what traits you desire out the window, and marry that person?

Edited July 8 by Jayson G

[Sugarcoat]

Valid question but my guess is that she is a rare exception. So she might have unique psychology that doesn’t represent the average woman. I think Eva Mendes is pretty btw maybe I saw her younger pics

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[Schizophonia]

Best prove of infinity lol

 

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[Schizophonia]

I've seen things that it might be a cynical fake to make money, but I don't know if it's true or even them.

Then well she must have a very strong savior syndrome or something like that.

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[Jayson G]

6 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Valid question but my guess is that she is a rare exception. So she might have unique psychology that doesn’t represent the average woman. I think Eva Mendes is pretty btw maybe I saw her younger pics

@Sugarcoat yeah she was much prettier in her 20s, but Gosling I believe married her when she was in her late 40s. Logically in my head nothing about that makes sense. He could have easily married someone in her 20s or 30s. And tbh I just think he could have done a lot better. 

Maybe its just not possible to logically understand an individual person's psychology because some things transcend logic. 

4 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Best prove of infinity lol

 

@Schizophonia thats honestly a deep point here

[Schizophonia]

1 minute ago, Jayson G said:

@Sugarcoat yeah she was much prettier in her 20s,

She is still particularly hot eheh

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[Jayson G]

1 minute ago, Schizophonia said:

I've seen things that it might be a cynical fake to make money, but I don't know if it's true or even them.

Then well maybe she must have a very strong savior syndrome or something like that.

@Schizophonia she doesn't seem to be faking it or doing it for money, but yeah I think its possible that its some savior thing too

[Sugarcoat]

7 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Then well she must have a very strong savior syndrome or something like that.

Valid point she could have like formed a bit of an ego around having unconditional love, being able to love “despite” those disabilities. Like it makes her see herself as a good person. She likes his personality and that’s enough for her to be with him. She genuinely thinks you shouldn’t discriminate based on looks/disabilities, that’s a belief she holds that’s very strong. And beliefs can influence attraction. Just some guesses.

[Sugarcoat]

8 minutes ago, Jayson G said:

@Sugarcoat yeah she was much prettier in her 20s, but Gosling I believe married her when she was in her late 40s. Logically in my head nothing about that makes sense. He could have easily married someone in her 20s or 30s. And tbh I just think he could have done a lot better. 

I looked her up and think she looks good for her age. I don’t think they’re so far apart looks wise. So yea in that case I think he likes her personality and she is hot ENOUGH for him. 

[Schizophonia]

2 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Valid point she could have like formed a bit of an ego around having unconditional love, being able to love “despite” those disabilities.

I feel like she has a pretty strong/dominant.

In the way she talks and her facials expressions. 

2 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Like it makes her see herself as a good person. She likes his personality and that’s enough for her to be with him. She genuinely thinks you shouldn’t discriminate based on looks/disabilities, that’s a belief she holds that’s very strong. And beliefs can influence attraction. Just some guesses.

Yes then at this point it's not anymore about just not caring about physical appearance lol.
Then good for him.

11 minutes ago, Jayson G said:

 

@Schizophonia thats honestly a deep point here

Best anti inceldom propaganda 😹

[Schizophonia]

6 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

 I don’t think they’re so far apart looks wise

😹😹

[Sugarcoat]

1 minute ago, Schizophonia said:

I feel like she has a pretty strong/dominant.

In the way she talks and her facials expressions. 

 

Maybe, I didn’t watch it

[Schizophonia]

8 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

😹😹

@Sugarcoat Was it a joke ?

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[Jayson G]

11 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

I looked her up and think she looks good for her age. I don’t think they’re so far apart looks wise. So yea in that case I think he likes her personality and she is hot ENOUGH for him. 

@Sugarcoat yeah she is pretty for sure .. 

But maybe it really is the case that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. 

[Sugarcoat]

12 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

@Sugarcoat Was it a joke ?

No?

[Sugarcoat]

13 minutes ago, Jayson G said:

@Sugarcoat yeah she is pretty for sure .. 

But maybe it really is the case that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. 

Maybe I could say that he is more attractive than her . But I don’t think it’s a huge difference that’s my opinion 

[Sugarcoat]

I think she looks great in her age

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLnm6TYRiws/?igsh=MTRnZmc5aDdyZHV2cg==

[theleelajoker]

"But as a guy I want to have a deeper understanding of female psychology"

I recommend talking to females 

The quality of input varies, as every one seems to have a different level of self reflection, self awareness etc.

But when you ask women about other women the replies have been very good to great in my experience.

[Sugarcoat]

1 minute ago, theleelajoker said:

"But as a guy I want to have a deeper understanding of female psychology"

I recommend talking to females 

The quality of input varies, as every one seems to have a different level of self reflection, self awareness etc.

But when you ask women about other women the replies have been very good to great in my experience.

You’d have to make sure you’re asking an average woman to get a sense of average woman psychology, if it’s an average woman you’re going for😏

[Schizophonia]

10 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

No?

8 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Maybe I could say that he is more attractive than her . But I don’t think it’s a huge difference that’s my opinion 

How does your brain works

 

She is an attractive to very attractive female.

He is a malformed legume who walks drives around via a joystick.