How to communicate with "others" when you see "Oneness"?

[Inliytened1]

11 minutes ago, theleelajoker said:

IT IS HARD.

But: What you gonna do about it? Keep it hard for yourself? Keep it hard for others? Eat your emotions up until you break? Or be the guy that breaks the fucking cycle? 

BTW, my experience it not that external reality, others, whatever will punish you for doing this. Last time I cried in public for the desperation and reasons above, the (male) friends around me all made an effort to be with me, support me. They feel the same. And when I cry in the presence of women, even on a date, most of them want to see me again. I think one of them once said "it makes me trust you". 

But nothing I say will and nothing I say SHOULD convince you. Either prove me wrong or come back here in few days or weeks and tell me that you had the same experience. Either way, I'll learn. 

I think as we explore this you know what comes to my mind? That metaphysics is a separate domain. And yet it isn't.  Oneness is a separate domain and yet it intersects here in an indirect sort of way..and its about how you react to others and how you treat others that really matters in the end.  The knowledge of Oneness is a gift that should be cherished.  When you look upon others you see yourself.   When they look upon you they mostly see what stands between them and you. But that's OK because you can appreciate the Oneness if no one else can. 

Edited July 5 by Inliytened1

[theleelajoker]

5 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

I think as we explore this you know what comes to my mind? That metaphysics is a separate domain. And yet it isn't.  Oneness is a separate domain and yet it intersects here in an indirect sort of way..and its about how you react to others and how you treat others that really matters in the end.  The knowledge of Oneness is a gift that should be cherished.  When you look upon others you see yourself.   When they look upon you they mostly see what stands between them and you.   

Yes I think so too.

It's always updating, always evolving. 

Edited July 5 by theleelajoker

[Inliytened1]

19 minutes ago, theleelajoker said:

Yes I think so too.

It's always updating, always evolving. 

So try to see the metaphysical Oneness but don't let that stop you from seeing the individual.  The individual is most likely crying out for acceptance.  And if they aren't they want attention in some way.

Edited July 5 by Inliytened1

[theleelajoker]

34 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

So try to see the metaphysical Oneness but don't let that stop you from seeing the individual.  The individual is most likely crying out for acceptance.  And if they aren't they want attention in some way.

Yes. Well said IMO. 

If you are everything, you need to be OK with EVERYTHING. If you are everyone, you need to be OK with EVERYONE.

I once read sth, took me many years to even start living it. I had to experience it, gradually, slowly. Still do.

You either love everything or you are not loving at all ❤️

 

When I forget, this song reminds me: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_beMNKTL_rc

 

Edited July 5 by theleelajoker

[JoshB]

@theleelajoker @Inliytened1 the only way to understand other is through self understanding. Because all others are yourself. 

[theleelajoker]

45 minutes ago, JoshB said:

@theleelajoker @Inliytened1 the only way to understand other is through self understanding. Because all others are yourself. 

Yeah. 

So Hi JoshB, nice to meet you

Thanks for being here, thanks for interacting

[Aaron p]

it'll either end in tears, or laughter. I prefer laughter  

[theleelajoker]

2 hours ago, Aaron p said:

it'll either end in tears, or laughter. I prefer laughter  

Tears from laughing real hard! 🤣 

[JoshB]

@Inliytened1  his  @theleelajokerawakening won't be different then your's or mine or anyone's. It will be the only one. As it must

Edited July 11 by JoshB

[theleelajoker]

What does "awakening" mean for you in practical terms?

This might be helpful to get a grip on the your/mine/our "awakening"

5 hours ago, JoshB said:

@Inliytened1  his  @theleelajokerawakening won't be different then your's or mine or anyone's. It will be the only one. As it must

 

Edited July 11 by theleelajoker