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@SQAAD Because you dont know yourself at your core...when you dont then your mind plugs into social matrix and gets defined by outside forces...its all inside you but where does the mind goes towards outside not inside where core is... But i dont know about the core deeper so cant talk about it but i can tell you your mind is either focused on you or on the outside... Real change is when you look outside through your lens not influenced by others...

First by creating meaningful relationship with yourself because you are reflection of how you see yourself and operate... Creating such a good relationship with yourself that others want to be with you.. Its backwards thinking if books and courses doesnt help you to find yourself its a cult that wants you to behave like them...

If you care about other men then you are not one basically...

Stop searching is bs advice if there is no profound change then there is no "finding"

All this post is based upon someone elses standards that you try to match to, like if im not this im basically useless, you have your reasons to be where you are at and they dont have to understand, if that really bothers you just say i dont wanna talk about it stay out of my business... Its a deeper issue i know but its like from your pov if those people are not enlightened or in process or getting enlightened they are the worst failiures ever...

These things are out of your hands. Focusing on what you can do and ignore what you can't is only thing i can suggest...

Thats basically self development but you need to reread it and make it part of who you are otherwise its wasted... Trap is to just write and not build it in yourself... If i got you right...

This might be a weird answer but what i found if you dont learn Game(which is tough to explain on here) you will work on outside of yourself and not inside for lasting resaluts all the books is just random thoughts that you mybe use sometimes but dont embody it into yourself because you dont know you so Game is a must. Thats why you could use theory for some brief resaults but it doesnt stick, it doesnt become who you are or its in conflict with who you are... Its like growing in thousands different directions and places not focused on your personal growth everything must be specificly your way otherwise you are pulled in thousand different directions going nowhere... Its really tough to fix health problems because they and you dont understand you so its a hit or miss process waiting for it to hit eventually...

I think you already friendzoned yourself ?

@Razard86 not really its the infinity of your uniqueness that cant be unraveled without self love but i get that it can be said self love

@StarStruck you are not coachable

@Asayake without knowing yourself(theory of yourself) by reading books you will get theories of other peoples lifes, so you will either become a copy of that person or you wouldnt be able to use that theory effectivly for yourself...you probably read so many books and got nothing from them, any growth because without theory of you,you cant know what information you gonna use or how you gonna apply that theory on yourself by just copying it you are not really growing...you have to specifically interpert information and change it so it can fit into a book of you!

Books hurt you if you dont have theory on yourself...

@Razard86 Now i can see so much game in what you said...now im intrigued do you have a method on how you go about making your belief system? im close to that level now (or im full of shit ?)

@Razard86 Its so interesting when you point out someone is full of shit they will try to convince you,how they are not and go on an offence, when you tell them how they pintpoint how you are actually full of shit(agreeing with them)they wont admit they are full of shit they will start to attack you even more ....its interesting ? The more you try to defend how much you are not full of shit thats a cleastar clear sign you are so full of shit that even telescope cant help you... You cant trust those people they can lie to you in so many ways(that you cant trust them) i think its a form of weakness so you must defend.. when i spot that thats one of my biggest red flags in people to avoid or dig deeper...

@Brent Rothwell You are doing it in most safe nice guy way that immeditlly in her mind comes oh he's that guy she put you in that box and says no thanks... When you say shes beautiful she immedietly knows this guy is trying to manipulate me he doesnt even know me... What you said works for those that already have game because they can sense hes that guy... For guy with game it could work anything basically ? Try switching this ,comment on something more than looks go deeper i mean anything than that... Excuse me is also something to cut out you are not excusing yourself to talk to her... But amazing on 400 approaches... You could say hey you cought my curiousity im curious whats behind your looks and your smile i love to eat strawberry ice cream at this time of year actually so heres my number shoot me a text and we will see what flavours you like...im writing on top of my head something like that...

I like to say i aint shit because i dont know what i dont know and you cant learn if you already think you know...

Did you change anything or every approach is the same? Approaching has nothing to do with game

Because everyone lives in a box or prison in your mind.Mind allows you to go outside of it a little but it stops you with sabotaging or negative talk so you can remain the same as you are...there is alot to this breaking outside of your prison its like whole system in your mind working to keep you where you are at... I have whole course on this so cant type it all here ?

Im researching this right now ill be having answers in few months i think.. Thing is first you need to get to your core and then you act from your core Right now you are acting totally outside of your core so you feel like you need to change it but solution is to get there how? Im yet to figure it out...so far practically stop listening to anyone online and generate answers for yourself that could be a little practice... Notice the difference beteween things outside of you like if you identify with group of friends you hang out with or your profession thats why you cant change i mean be at your core mind is plugged in matrix..

Emotional wars are petty and waste of energy, best way is to learn to ignore it inside of you but in my opinion we learn to engage in it because if we show we dont care they will abandon us which is also a manipulation war we learned early on...

Being yourself aka having game,all this things you said is outside of you... Queastion is flawed because you are trying to do it for women that way you made them special and now you cant attract them with yourself but something outside of you... And there can always be someone better looking more masculine but nobody can be you..

@zurew thanks! Now i can lock it

We already talked about it to the death just search the threads... Its a negative take all around with few worshipers

@Superfluo Ironically i think its opposite what do i want to feel then ill offer that, what makes me tick ill offer that to the world and ill just give and no matter if world discard it,ill keep doing me but in calibrated way... Otherwise its manipulation and people pleasing which never works even if you give...