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Then who are you?

Very interesting

@Joseph Maynor Now when i think you are right enligtment is disbelief of the story you have in your head

Getting rid of i "me" from i am

Isnt enligtement about finding yourself then all theory about it doesnt make sense?I see lot of mind thinking about it here...

I've been thinking about the idea of a good life,what does it takes to have a great life?I wrote my top 10 values and made a vision (big) but still it doesnt inspire me it seems like nothing can fill that ideal no matter if i have millions of dollars crazy experiences great people and girlfriend or help the world it doesnt attract me when i walk the streets i hate to see all the marketin ads and i ask myself is this life? it cant be Mybe i except too much and sitting alone in a room staring at a wall is more interesting haha does anyone feel the same or can point me with their perspective to make it more clear?

Does anyone have experience with opening chakras? What did you do?What changes you saw? Whats the best practical places you can study them?

Do you have problem with communicating(i have) you approach and make guy talk about himself and everything else is up to the guy and give clues like shoulder touch,laugh etc.

If you want sex playmates then its good l

You are the one who observes all of confusion

@Nahm I think i know where are you coming from but still i think there is something more to it and im not conciouss of it...

@Cepzeu It's hard to find them face to face @Psyche_92 I can't answer that queastion its like an ideal to make you work towards it, anything i think of its not it @Damir Elezi I mentioned that like a example anything you give me or tell me to do wont make me inspired anymore i dig dip every day i sit with myself,idea of extraordinary life (to make it you have to want something its a cycle of wanting which i dont have anymore)@aurum i know that but it seems you dont live to the fullest if you siting in a room enjoying beingness@nomish if our sole purpose is to be born,reproduce and die then there is no shock that lots of people are depressed...how to get the most of it? when nothing can bring you that good life(for me as of now)

@Leo Gura Is it safe to raise kundalini energy after you get enlightened assuming you cleared all other chakras with it(mybe stupid assumption)

Accepting all your weaknesses as who you are ,then you can change it,imagining something you are not makes it worse

@How to be wise Still you have to open them and how you know its truly open so you dont mess up kundalini awakening?

@How to be wise Thank you did you open some chakras see any changes?

@Leo Gura Is there a point to take psychadelics now when you experienced what is?

You are already dead

There are people who dont suffer as much as other person do but they still suffer and they dont enjoy it like they look like they do(or they have to be always in that situation and when they are not they suffer)you havent seen trully happy person in your life who are happy without anything making them so and you can see that nothing can make you permenently happy(outside)...

Completelly accept every emotion that comes,dont wish it to go enjoy it even,ego wants to control and then you make it worse, when you accept it without wanting it to not be there it will soon go as every other emotion

When you get enlightened and you are on your life purpose what else you can do to raise your consciousness(grow)Leo once told me enlightement is just a beginning of true growth....

I know your struggle you have identity based on shyness( i assume everything revolves around it) meditation and self inquiry helped me another alternative is to change yourself 360 and i dont know you can sustain it if you are introvert...

@AleksM Thanks for sharing

What if you actually dont want anything its like you will just make a husle for going for something that gives you nothing and takes your peace...

@Thanatos13 you can see whats true or false better when you stop indentifying with your mind