NoSelfSelf

@brugluiz Suffering and pain /discomfort are 2 different things

Enlightement is your true nature its always present they made a good example with when someone watches the tv screen and suddenly they start to believe they are the screen on tv ,not realizing they are observer of the tv screen and all confusion transe happens here "you" awareness believing you are body and thoughts that are seen and are the tv screen in this example

Best way is to observe what happens with emotions thoughts movement eyesight just observing is the best method for me...

There is no good or bad

It doesnt matter they are not affected by it

Enlightened guy is attractive and does thing naturally without manipulation....

Mybe stupid queastion but when you see there is noone doing something (no you)how can you improve yourself before you work on your thoughts emotions etc that translate to some improvement when there is noone how to improve "yourself"?

@ajasatya i was working on it until i could read i wasnt observing my neurons and connecting them

@ajasatya but you need technology to do that what good it is when i cant use it in direct experience

@ajasatya can you explain whats computational power simple stupid?

@ajasatya yeah thats what im talking about but couldnt say it...and how you perform something better over time is a mystery

@ivory becoming more than you were from shy to confident from not good with girls to becoming good with girls from being poor to being rich etc

@Fairy So you lived to talk about it huh? hold my beer i got this!

@Aimblack haha thats fine im starting to answer my queastions just by talking about it tnx...

You will be left only with burned or cold hand...you are tired because you cant find it because you is not real....

@Aimblack i can clearly see that there is no me doing something its happening by itself and by seeing that improvement seems not possible without mind in the picture...with mind you can improve to the infinity and there wont be improvement unless something happens its like luck or some lucky shift occuring somewhere... that enebles you to see the improvement that happened by itself its hard to communicate like i said..

@Emerald yeah thats some good points...for example i was an extrovert turned into an introvert now i want to be more social have good vibe...be more confident etc...its like i want to turn into other kind of flower than im now so in the end i dont know what flower i am...and how to change it(another story) hope this makes sense

@Aimblack yeah i understand where are you coming from...in a sense thats happening right now but im not conceptualizing about no self im concsptualizing that when there is no self you cant really improve or how is improvement happening when there is no self....

@Aimblack irony is that you yourself dont know how no self is experienced...its hard to communicate what im trying to ask, this is best i can do

@Sahil Pandit yeah that makes sense tnx

@Emerald yeah i was mixing attraction stage and relationship faze..."problem" is that i think that the girl i want is not attracted to the man i am now so im trying to change...

Yeah its still happening by itself dont get bothered by it too much you will see in the end there is no you doing anything and you will "think" well all the fun is gone there is noone doing anything how funny but it wont bother you

@XYZ yeah true but to express it more clearly how can you change when there is noone doing change its like you are on autopilot idk if this makes sense just curious how it works its a mistery....

There is nobody whos listening and talking its just movements and sounds happening...nothing wrong...

@Emerald i can tell you hes really lucky to have you...i was sharing and acting naturally(sharing etc) like you describe but these days girls have no patience with those things if they see that you have some problem they move on ....