NoSelfSelf

Im infj too well i dont have any advice beside understanding more how relationship works,start putting yourself first you are important too,and do alot of spiritual work...you want everything to be in harmony but watch out which situation is suited for that,which situation is right for you to make it harmonious...

@Leo Gura do you know a root cause of not being assertive?

@Preety_India Omg so there are degrees to narcissism hes the worst in the category...what you just described is classic example what people with that personality disorder do...when you get emotionally attached you are done for long time...im glad you escaped because what is missing is that they make you depande on them for survival...whatch out next time for signs of guys being too good to be true then all of a sudden everything shifts they start blaming criticizing you for everything,angry all the time,controling every step you take then ignore you for punishment as if you did something wrong but they got hurt in some way...they are really insecure and cant live wothout extarnal validation,and feeding of your energy... im telling you all this because there is a big chance you get attracted to same guy again.... Also look into codependency you probably have something like that just assuming...

@Preety_India Good for you! Im impressed you did it so quickly...otherwise they are good at making things so it seems really good then its horrible and then they make it good(idk but they are master at that)...so you get stuck in that cycle..

@Preety_India isnt this narcissist you are dealing with it just sound like it...is he controling and criticize all the small things?

@Leo Gura i have problems with that one day i come to a degree where i see that i was not even born(i become everything) another day i come into the void and another is ego with no mind other is i struggle to even think you get the point i dont know how to stay in highest degree where you are happy with no reason...

Conflict of values is a big problem in relationships to have a best relationship you should have same values...

Because you should know that any perspective how ridiculous it is it has truth in it and point is to combine as many perspectives to make a big picture...most uneducated people speak truth but its low value or it could be a big value to incomporate into your big picture understanding of a thing...every perspetctive=half truth More half truth=better big picture understanding...

@Conscious life You need to balance both side otherwise it will cause you problems in relationships

@Emerald you dont know the struggle some people need to go just to be normal...

Thats worst you can do is to go all emotional and trying to reason with her...there is so much wrong in this picture that i think like me you will just need few years to understand and stop with all kinds of stupid stuff that your mom and society programmed you with... And its done bro this cant be saved anymore sorry

@CreamCat Good,and did you set deadline when you are going to achieve these goals or goals inside the goals?

@CreamCat Im not saying right now im saying when its finished how does it look like?

How does your art look like?

@QandC And to deprogram your subconcious you seperate thought from the emotion?

@Leo Gura what vision did you have? I mean 400+ failures before first success you need to have some huge reason...

@Mulky Nice..im.curious how can you be turqouise at such a young age how can you embody so much at that age it seems impossible

@assx95 Bro in few years when you grow more you will look at this and shake your head you are better than this!

@khalifa your story touched me deeply ?

At this point(like i got somewhere haha)i cant imagine myself with a person that is not willing to understand how relationships work and how we work together so we can make a nice relationahip..i find that people are not willing to do that ,if i would give books to read to someone or telling them how things should work(find a way it would work we start arguments) it doesnt end well...i quickly see that it wont work in a long run and its better to end or stay in circle of disfuction...am i wrong here am i missing something decieving myself being too idealistic?I end up being overbearing and like im manipulating but i just want a nice relationships ...some people(one person so far lol) that i know that i study relatuonships human behaviour etc. say :oh you read that in a book i can smell it its fake or something so it stays disfuctional rather that it improves situation

@Dlavjr yeah good points im aware of them but sometimes cant let it go i have to point out the flaws and i can see that in way some people behave there cant be healthy relationship so i try to make things work but they want to stay in disfuction because it requiers no work...

@Raptorsin7 Advice is given and recieved and acted on or not and there is no one doing it...like how wind is blowing nobody is doing it its happening...but for survival etc you imagine that you are doing it...

Is emotional mastery ability to change states on command,when unwanted emotions come that dont serve your goals you can supress them and keep state?Or its something else,or you have things to add...

In new video leo said that we can understand human behaviour if we know self deception,how can you read and know human behaviour just by knowing how someone decieves themselves i dont get it?

Dont try to get anything from anyone and you wont need to get the approval if you are asking in that way...