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@Nilsi Yes i get it spent aloot of time thinking about what i want and it left me with hobbies i do and few new things i wanna explore... It seems my dream is creating something that hasnt been created yet so it leaves me with nothing to lach on nothing i can truly express as ?

@Razard86 That video poped up in my mind actually thinking about this...i should rewatch it how did it help you find or construct your identity?

@Vxvxen i didnt say you are im just saying what they are thinking about you (potential partner)

@Vxvxen I mean on the one hand yes but on the other hand red pill ideology says to be careful with women with male friends because shes either too masculine or they need constant male attetion that spiral into drama...and they ate all those red pills up... ?

Having guy friends is a turn off for most guys

Are you serious ? ?

Because you depend on them and now you want a book to depend on that book and cycle never ends!

@emvipi Yes because game has nothing to do with girls and learning game is not what you think it is..

Yes exactly! You dont have a sense of self and put woman above yourself...you cant help it you are not priority in your eyes,you dont have game so ofcourse it will affect your self worth...become student of the game by seeing it has nothing to do with them its all about you! If you really want to change this pm me ill lead you to right direction...

There is none,i think its better to look to put a bid in rather than pick up stuff for you...

Is it a big deal to pay for ice cream or 2 coffes ? nothing more nothing less

Not even kundalini awakening could purge the pedestalization of a woman ?

@Someone here Again you fail because you are not finding passion and love in yourself thats why finding passion out there is tough because theres no passion in you! But you made good points pointing you out on blindspots...ask yourself what you would like to become then from there comes what to do again trying to go outside yourself... Ask yourself what i am all about then write it down and from there create experience you need to seek for that individual you made for yourself and have to follow it through because you have a rule...

@Someone here There is no might! thats the problem if you want something you need to know why and how to sell it to yourself the idea! otherwise its just a dream and make a rule " i go through the things i say ill do and be behinde that"... thats scary rule to make and will show you if you are bsing yourself When you set the rule you must not break it! If you are not behinde your rules you are just wishful thinking...

You should be asking yourself that queastion, based on knowledge on yourself, but you dont have much you know about yourself so you ask others and it wont ever work because nobody is you! ....and dont know what experiences you should have for yourself!

You are not working on yourself

@Vercingetorix true he had a role model but that doesnt matter you are grown now... Not caring to suceed with women is still caring about them...you genuenly dont care about them even to succed with them because it has nothing to do with them...trying to succed with woman is immidietly desperation mode and why you wont succed..

@Vercingetorix Dude you made a post about attracting woman struggling to understand how it works they are inside your mind...what makes me think that you care about woman ? I think its better to invest time into something else mind will f you over here big time i dont think its a good idea...

Alfa doesnt care at all about woman only about himself woman to him is just something he does on free time... And this whole post is about a woman... Learning all attraction in the world wont be enough until you stop caring about woman and care about yourself...

Its all about who you are to yourself,what belief you have in yourself,what you created for yourself and how you communicate to yourself etc. and then you express it as it is... Its all manifested when you come in front of a woman if theres fear,doubt,confusion its because you losing yourself in the woman not yourself!, or you havent had yourself in the first place...dont know what you are about ,didnt define yourself... Getting all excited seeing her and thinking omg shes hot! you dont see you just make her the focus and not you, so you are out of the game immedietly lost in limbo... Thoughts? What would you say whats game about?

@Pavement Probably would learn about money game... Tell me whats game then? Why would you prove yourself to other men?

Its always about benefiting you either way you put it ? you are not a saint, so point is to love yourself and love your mission then indirectly people benefit from you.. What you trying to do is losing strategy loving ,others wont make you benefit them its like stage green loving enviroment and doing nothing for it but loving it...you focus on you then others benefit from your growth, if you loved others you would be useless because you wont grow, you will just love and please with nothing to offer of real value... Being emotionaly blocked is place you go to escape from suffering, so facing what in past made you suffer could fix it...

Game as i defined it is who you are to yourself, your own creation thats not influenced by anyone, 100% focus on yourself and now creation from there(not easy to make that shift) of how you gonna move ,talk, be how you gonna make her smile etc. is up to you and what makes you wanna express it...this eliminates woman as a goal to get, this eliminates desperation neediness trying to beg for sex,manipulation...this is where you dont look what should i do and be for a woman and pedestalizing her like shes your god... thats my understanding still learning... You made strike 1 of a game talking about other guys(100 focus on yourself ?) I mean how did you get those girls did you take her on 5 expensive dinners did you treat her like princess and she gave you because to keep you stimulated so she can use you... You could be on parties and girls just wanna have sex and you happen to be there... I know guys that have absolute zero game and got laid because of situations they got themselves in ... You could manipulate like a narcissis and get laid hope you get the point...

@somegirl LoL its how it works if you have empathy you will focus more on other neglecting yourself the more you do it the more low self esteem you become...

By you definding yourself not others,by you making yourself a priority,by choosing to stand on your beliefs...this is all masculine stuff tho all women struggle with what you struggle because of empathy towards outside world and not your inside world..