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@something_else i realize that and i need to give users time to reflect and maybe they will change their attitude and appreciete it but let me do my job in my way ?

@Bando @Something Funny i just gave him warning points 5 min ago if he does it again ill ban him(told him too)

@Gesundheit2 ????

But Joni its so nice and warm sitting at the losers table you can complain,bitch and moan,not taking responsibility for nothing,lying to yourself its so cozy here Joni dont make me go to winners table they are so full of themselves,cocky,arrogant,doing what they say they will do winning with women and life f those guys Joni i just wanna pretend and mybe something will happen living in my head is so good Joni...

@Loba I get it and benefiting is not always gaining something its also not trying to lose something you have i dont want this to happen so ill do this... Empathy is also queastionable thing because you wont be empathic with everything only things you believe in and find justified by your self agenda...as you can see im brutally honest with stuff its tough to swallow this things if not used to...

@Aleister Crowleyy dont come here with your shallow level of thinking attacking thats on level 1 while what i said is level 5 so it flew over your head so far that you cant even see it ?

@Tyler Robinson Dog showed me more humanity than any human...that little creature showed me uncoditional love that you or anyone can show me you are all just bullshiting and not even seeing it... Goodwill and humanity is also your desire of the ego to be good You wont see God if you dont see dark side of being a human and its really ugly and beautiful...

@Tyler Robinson You are deluding yourself you were benefiting from it you just are not aware of egos selfish masked ways but good for you for sticking for him... No no no people alwaaayss do things to benefit themselves otherwise they wont be doing it... Thats why nice guys or girls are dangerous dishonest most selfish of them all..

Because fixing others you lose yourself in another person with not much progress in most cases... You can call it love but self love is higher, you have to have love for yourself more than for anyone else... The one taking a role of a fixer is usually a person that is desperate for love or attention of a partner they tend to have a low self worth so only way to get validation and love they are desperate to get, they try to fix someone because they cant or they dont try fix it in themselves and think they are lucky to have someone in their life, if they had other options you think they will put effort in fixing someone?....

You dont have structure to tellher how things work around you, so when she does something you dont like again, you will dismiss her(you have to tell her what you tolerate and not before doing something rash) but you will rather lose yourself than her so she can do whatever she wants. Apologizing also makes her do more of that you are helping that she does it again! She basically wants to you to check her and tell her how things are around here no matter if she crys you tell her how things are dont do that again and keep asking her do you understand until she says yes or no... This looks like odd and that it wont work but trust me no structure no following your ways is recipe of a disaster most of the time...

Personally i hate this, like i cant see her trying to smooth it out and thinking i cant take the dumping ? Saying how it is directly but i know it wont ever happen like that...

Talking to girls building skills just to fuck them why so shallow thinking?

All it means hes nothing without you

@Someone here because having no game and looking for only sex will make you come of as creepy thirsty needy...

"I just want pussy" thats the whole fing problem

@StarStruck That means you can sometimes lead a woman.. so getting better at leading means you getting better at directing yourself in every situation, then you lead her where you want to go with no compromises....

Can you lead yourself?

2min is enough to get the job done

You should have leave the situation sooner is what you could have done differently

@illusory thats the problem you have to be willing to lose her at any moment even be happy to lose her thats next level stuff...

@illusory my bad with using clingy in wrong context what im saying is you thinking about her and trying to figure it out really bad shes in your mind 24/7 probably... its checkmate basically? so you becoming clingy(Needy better word) by trying to give her what she wants and what should i do to keep her instead what should i do to move her...but you did great whatever you did at that point or she just wanted to fuck...

@illusory with clingy i meant doing aloot of stuff this early... What do you want she offered sex again ? you have some big expectations of them...

@illusory Its all good making yourself priority number 1 and her number 5 is whats the lesson here imo... Not doing what she wants but where you want it to go number 2 Number 3 Dont become clingy because you got little bit of action

Do you realize your anxiety comes from pedestelizing situation and her? Just food for thought@Someone here treating her like your spouse?! Saying i like you are you serious ??

I mean whats obvious to me is that you dont understand that woman are changing minds all the time based on her mood so its weird to her when you didnt want to meet and you going for what she wanted which you never do ...and spenting too much time is true because she needs time to think about you two but if shes offering you what you want why pass on that ?