Alexop

If you throw uncomfortable truths to people you meet the first time, you might repell anybody, even mature men. It just sends an autistic, immature vibe. In a relationship, after many years of letting the person know who you are, you might create even more attraction with telling uncomfortable truths. Because she sees that you are not afraid to show your real opinions, you show up as real and honest. Combine that with long episodes of compassion and empathy, and she will melt in your presence.

dudes, in what fantasy world you live in? I see most men being even more immature than most women. I see women face the truths of life while men increasingly escape the world through gaming, porn, shitpill, men apologetic ideologies. Even most men on this forum are very immature. Look at relationships, men destroy relationships because of their immaturity in most cases.

Do you deny that clothing does not affect the situation? Lol

What you described there is not maturity man, it is the opposite

If you aim for sex, then 100% take de dude's advice. But if you aim for the deepest relationship ever, then find a woman who deeply understands herself and reality, not a child. I think this guy dealt with childish women. Of course you should not be very direct and super honest with such instagram-orange-make-up girls. They are not ready for it. But I refuse to believe that women are incapable of dealing with the truth of the world and at the same time be attractive. Maybe not attractive to some guys, whatever. The most attactive girls I met were hilghy intellectual but playful at the same time, not children. In the same way that you cannot be direct and honest with a nice guy. No mattter if men or women, if they are children, treat them like children. Maybe the universe will wake them up sometime, no you, let them sleep.

@Emerald Good points. I think a very developed woman can switch from her masculine to her feminine side easily. She will go on her masculine side and truth wrestle with you, then when the argument is over, she will chill out and become flexible and emotional again.

WORD man. I was so disappointed of so many men in my life that my opinion is exactly the opposite. Now I decided to not assume that the men I meet are mature, because I was so wrong about it too many times. I met many more mature women than men. Just because they are logical and talk about philosophy shit, does not make them mature. Maturity is in emotional intelligence and behavior, not in philosophy bullshit. Men have to be forged like swords, but our snowflake societies pamper them thier whole lives. No doubt we have so many incels and many women who decide to stay single. Better single than together with a man-child.

This is so important. To combine what you get from spirituality and apply it on day to day life. If you separate spirituality from you mortal human form, it will be as worthless as a seal in the desert. Your human form works so hard to relaize God so it can enlighten its daily life and lives of others. You only realize God for the sake of realizing it then you die, and what? You become God either way when you die.

I notice two big types: 1. The mature, more moderate left. Who is usually composed of 30 years old+ people who understand that our biggest concern right now is fixing the economy, taxing the super rich and lowering taxation on the middle class. 2. The new woke left. More radical and idealist, who is composed mainly of under 30 years old girls and androgynous nice guys, who focus mainly on the environment and identity politics, canceling and moralizing people. They are like a subculture. If the rockers wore leather pants with chains hanging on them, these kids have septum rings and put their pronouns on social media. People like us do things like this. Us vs. them mentality. Mainly Stage Blue masquerading as Stage Green. Personally I consider myself a moderate leftist, because I see how the super rich fuck me in the ass and fixing this should be our main concern. I understand that if I moralize and cancel people, they will hate me and demonize me. I understand that we have to negotiate and compromise with the capitalists because, otherwise we risk an ego backlash. These problems we have in society won't be fixed overnight. I understand the Maslow's pyramid of needs and Spiral Dynamics. People who have no food to put o the table, who can't pay their rent and bills, have no openness to expand their consciousness. They don't give a damn about Palestine, about other races, about LGBTQBLABLABLA, BECAUSE they are in SURVIVAL mode. But yea, studying psychology and economy is not as cool as identity politics. They can't even get their gender studies nonsense right. What is a man? What is a woman? And you are amazed when people laugh at you. These kids make the moderates hate the left, and it sends the country back in time. Like they did in Sweden. Because of their push to take more and more refugees, the moderate people had enough and started voting right. Now we have the right wing in power deregulating the economy, privatizing healthcare, lowering taxes on the rich etc. Thank you very much dear kids!

@Leo Gura You are a genius. This is why most women get politics wrong or have an incomplete perspective, because you have to be an autistic weirdo in order to understand all this nerdy shit, which most women are not. They have empathy though, which sometimes is enough. Imagine saying this in a wokie corporation meeting. You would be kicked out of the continent.

@Elliott it is true that with this post I meant progressive people not the left, but people perceive the left as progressive, so it works. But it is a flaw in our culture. ChatGPT: "Not all left-wing politics are progressive. Many left-wing groups prioritize economic issues over cultural progressivism, and some even resist modern progressive values. The "new left" (progressive left) and "old left" (traditional socialist left) sometimes clash over priorities."

Airports offer services, roads are products and service. It is also about distribution of power. More state power, more socialism. More private power, more capitalism. Those who own/decide how capital flows own the power. Money=power.

Exactly, they just hate other stuff, but the level of consciousness is still low AF

@Elliott left an right spectrum is a human construction which can be too simplistic. We should use conservative vs. progressive; capitalist vs. socialist separately Socialism and capitalism is not a black and white decision that a state takes. It is a spectrum. There i no "socialist" state. Even in communist Romania where capitalism was illegal. There still was a "black free market". Even in the "capitalist" USA, there still are public airports, medicare, police, firefighters -- socialism. Police: socialism Cars running on the roads: capitalism regulated by socialism. Capitalism without socialist elements would be total anarchy, the void of power eventually being filled by the most powerful force, enslaving the rest until they ask for their rights.

I said "more socialism". Yes it is, more regulations, more state power, more redistribution of wealth.

More capitalism vs. more socialism if you want. This what I mean with left and right. Now that some people mistake it for progress vs. conservation is something else. In Romania, the progressive party is right wing.

@Basman the climate situation is dire. But you can't convince people through moralization and cancel culture. At most they'll do some greenwashing. I think we have to push the governments and corporations to invest in green tech as soon as possible. Especially cheap renewable batteries. When green tech is cheaper than dirty tech, then you'll see some real results. Stage Orange does what works in the market and brings profits, no matter the consequences.

@Leo Gura ❤️

@Emerald true. We actually have to compromise ourselves and try to collaborate with them, so we can have a majority in parlament. In Sweden, you can see a clear division between them. The moderate lefties are the social democrats and the wokies are the left and the green parties. As I said, take the rant as a performative show, of course I understand your point. I've actually dated a Swedish environment activist working for Green Peace, she was having meetings with Greta Thunberg and party leaders at work, she blocked the railways carrying wood in north Sweden. But she was the most feminine, loving and joyful girl I ever dated. So yes, careful with generalizations and division.

@LambdaDelta God cares about all perspectives. God is a democrat. God is not moralizing, God negotiates, God compromises. Like a loving mother, not like an autistic macho dad. Even if my post sounds moralizing, take it more as a performative show. We still have to see their perspective and love them as they are. They don't have a purpose in life other than fucking up with politics, they are emotionally immature, pampered by their parents etc.

@Nivsch They manifest some Green though, but this aspect that they focus so much on defeating their enemies, unwilling to compromise, is mainly Blue. When I think of Green, I think of some feminine, empathic, flexible, smiley person, not an angry kid. We can say excess of Green, but this can be deceiving. It would be focusing on the flavor/culture content not the level of consciousness.

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@Davino Good remark!. The true self was able to see the light even if obstructed by layers upn layers of mud. But eventually, their teachings got corrupted and led to misery for many, but still better than adopting some other even more toxic ideologies in order to pass through Stage Blue.

I would like to hear some stories about how you got canceled by your dates or by a snowflake mob. It happened so many times to me that I decide to create an alter ego. A personality that avoids talking politics, being too masculine, expressing power, frustrations, and "too much knowledge".